okay. well i am 14 and i think i am pregnant. and i don't know what to do. i am still getting my period. but a lot of my friends said that there moms got theres when they were pregnant. and i don't know what to do. i have all the symptoms. and its only been about like 5 or 6 days since i had sex with my boyfriend. and he said he would stay with me but i am not 100 percent sure he will. i just need help. i think i am pregnant. and i am probably spelling that wrong but i don't care. what should i do. i don't want my mom to find out either, or at least until i am 100% sure. what do yall think i should do?
2007-05-24 10:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by layla. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first if you aren't absolutly positive that you boyfriend is going to stay with you if you get pregnant they you shouldn't be having sex. second you need to talk to your mom and probably go see a doctor.
2007-05-24 16:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by carolyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie - I can hear the fear in your question and I'm sorry you're going through this at such a young age. First, you MUST find out for sure if you are pregnant. Usually there is no reason to get worried until you have actually MISSED a period. From the sounds of it, you JUST had sex 5 or 6 days ago! That's not long enough to know if you are pregnant. I believe you are freaking out because pregnancy is your ultimate fear so you worry about it whether it's true or not. You must wait one month and see if you get your period in the next month. If you do NOT, then go to a pharmacy (or Target) and buy a pregnancy test. Follow the directions carefully. If you don't, you might not get an accurate result.
It is LITERALLY impossible to know 5-6 days after sex if you are pregnant.
Honey, it seems like you are really tooooo young to be having sex. You like it and I'm sure it makes you feel happy because your bf is happy. But, in the end, you shouldn't do things to make HIM happy. If this is something that constantly stresses you out, then you DO NOT NEED TO BE HAVING SEX. In my opinion, you are too young to be having sex if you are not mature enough to handle the consequences and clearly you are not.
If you DO find out you are pregnant, you can go to a crisis pregnancy center. They do counseling, give you support, and help you make the right decision for you.
I hope it all works out and perhaps this pregnancy scare will get you on the right path.
2007-05-24 11:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you will not be gettin symptoms after 5 days!
firstly genrally you have to wait 14 days before a test shows positive because a certain hormone gets released in the body to tell the test you are pregnant, it is a very worrying waiting game. i would make an appoinment after the test if it is positive the doctor will do a further test.
A child is a 24 7 job it is very hard and noone is taught how to be a parent, just remember that this is not just your boyfriends choice. this is your body and your life this is your choice are you ready to have a baby? or is it that you want a baby? was this planned? You need to think about living your life I would do some research find out about teenage parents, you can get dolls that are reality babies to give you an idea of what it can be like. but you might not even be pregnant! think about your parents if they would support you, think about yourself wot you want in the future your life plans is a baby what you really want?
More importantly if you are not pregnant, still make an appointment get checked out. they will also give you free condoms!!!!!!!!! always use protection!!!!!!!!!!!
Good luck and take care x
2007-05-28 10:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by serious sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your boyfriend use a condom? If so, you probably aren't pregnant. Also, 5 or 6 days after intercourse is too soon to tell. Symptoms of pregnancy don't show up that soon either.
You need to calm down (easy for me to say). I really think you need to find a trusted adult to talk all this over with. Do you have an aunt, teacher or someone that you can trust. I also suggest that still having your period is a good sign that you are NOT pregnant. You still need to talk to someone and if you want to continue having sex, you need to take the responsibility for birth control - that means a visit to a doctor or clinic. Some clinics, planned parenthood or pro-life will give you lots of information and birth control. Don't go somewhere that just preaches abstinence, sometimes our emotions get carried away and we have sex anyway. It's better to be prepared with birth control and answers. Good luck in finding someone to talk to.
2007-05-24 11:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Moolu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, chances are you are not pregnant. As long as your "flow" is regular and you are cramping you are fine. You can take a pregnancy test 2 days after your missed period. Since you are having your period, you can take a test if it will make you feel better. Go online and you should be able to find a free women's clinic near you to get a blood test. Also, while you are there, you could get on the pill. A planned parenthood place usually will supply them to you for free if you can not pay. It is confidential.
2007-05-24 11:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than six days to get symptoms. You are obviously not responsible or educated enough to be having sex. Wait until you are old enough to know what to do if you are pregnant. Get a home pregnancy test but it won't show for another couple of weeks and really, dear, wait on the sex thing until you and your partner are old enough to use condoms.
2007-05-28 10:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just had sex 5 or 6 days ago? you can't be getting the symptoms yet, dork. wait and see if you get your next period. Other than that. You too young. Stop having sex. You need to think about if you have a child, are you ready to me a mom? And how are you able to support your baby. Believe me, you are still young, live your life, for when you have a child, the attention is on your baby, not on you.
2007-05-24 11:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by 0000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi... just calm down, pregnancy is not the end of the world... buy a test, i think the better one in the US is: Blue Test(ask a pharmacist). This test will write the word: Pregnant or No pregnant. If you are pregnant, just do the correct prenatal and deliver your baby safely and healthly. Anymore question or advice let us know.
2007-05-25 07:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by kev.chicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me i know howyou feel, It would be wise to tell your mom. It will hel you with the stress and she will know what to do in parts you dont. So tell her, i know it's scary but call her or write her a letter.]
You can stil get pregnant and have a period, its known to happen so please tell your mom, having the baby and keeping it or giving it up is the best way to go. A guy willing ot stay by you is worth hanging on, but you have to understand that you cant go out with friends and hang out, go out anywhere with out first thinking of your baby first. They come first not anything else. Parties, going out withfriends, nights out are not part of a younge teen parents life style really.
Waiting it out will not help you cause you need a test to be sure, you need your moms support.
I wish you girls would understand that your mom is there for you no matter what and you need to go to them in times like this
2007-05-24 11:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a free health clinic to find out for sure....you should even be able to get on birth control pills there for free.
If it was just a week ago you wouldnt be having symptoms yet. You are too youngto be having sex.
2007-05-24 11:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by s s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋