say goodbye?

Question

if you look back at my very first question you will see how that i havent seen or spoken to my boyfriend in weeks. well last night at like 4 in the morning he snuck in my room. i was so happy to see him. he apologized for all the stuff that happened and he was sad that we lost our baby. So we talked and talked and so on and so on. And then out of no where he asked me to marry me. he had a ring and everything. (it was really nice) and he asked me to leave with him. He said he had enough money to support us both and i dont have to worry about anything. I said yes because i really do love him. My parents have no idea. They never even gave him a chance from the start. Just because he is a little older and not full hispanic. Ive already made up in my mind that im going to do it, I just dont know if i should tell my parents or just leave a note. because if i talk to them about it they will try to stop me. i love my parents and all but are madd strict.

i have already posted this i just need more answers

btw: turned 15 today and my bf is 18

Answer 1

SAY YES U CAN SEE HE LOVES YOU

Answer 2

i dont think you should get married at that age. You are too young and you parents can get him in very big trouble. Dont try to do something is going to bring bad concequences and then you will regret it. If that guy really loves you he is not going to leave you just for not marrying him, what's the hurry anyways. You are too young to even work, how are you guys going to support each other financially? Look i've been with my boyfriend since i was your age and we love each other to death, right now there is no need to get married. You have to do your things and get them done, finished. What about your school? Look everbody goes through bad times, but i dont thing your case is the worst for you to try to leave your home.

Answer 3

All I can say is that since your boyfriend's eighteen and you're 15, it's illegal, so you won't be able to get married anyway. Plus, since you're technically a minor, you need your "madd strict" parent's consent.
I know that you're in love, but just think this over for yourself.
If you need someone to talk to, email me, sweetie.

Answer 4

I don't think you can even get married legally without your parents consent until you're 18. Depending on state your parents can go after your BF for statutory rape and get him in a heap load of trouble, including a sex offender stamp on him for the rest of his life.

Don't do this and certainly do not leave your parents house without their knowing, that just gets both of you in lots more trouble.

Answer 5

Tell them. How upset would you be if your child just left in the middle of the night? Even if you left a note, I'd be scared out of my mind! Just talk to them.

Answer 6

Your bf is going to end up in jail. You can't legally get married because you can't legally enter into a binding contract. You'll be a runaway, and he'll be contributing to the deliquency of a minor. And he could be prosecuted for statutory rape. If he transports you across state lines that another felony.

These laws are in place for a reason. You're too young to understand that you're too young to make the type of decisions your contemplating. You just need to live in your parent's house and learn from their wisdom, and someday tell them "thank you" for saving your from yourself.

Answer 7

u cant get married w/out parental consent if u r a minor.

Answer 8

i,m a father of two girls, you are going to make the biggest mistake of your life. when they figer out you are gone ,they
will call the police and your 18 year old boyfriend will be put
in jail for a very long time. i tell my girls two seconds of clear thought will solve most problems. go to your mother and tell her, right now.

Answer 9

wait till you are older and always remember that your parents know what is best. I learned that the hard way.

Answer 10

blah, just leave a note and leave. theyll get over it. =]