ugh i cant standd it anymore me and my supposely best friend keep getting into these fights and there like kinda big and i literally CANT stand it at alll and i dont know what to do i hate thinking of like ohh go find some new friends i have other friends but like its hard to just switch around im a sophmore in highschool and wow i just cant stand everything right now! what do i doo help
2007-05-05 18:47:17 · 18 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well we hang out all the time and we have been friends for 3 yrs and we are so close but then if we get into a fight she turns into the bigges B*** everrr and we say soo many meant things and we just got into a HORRIBLE fight and id oubt will ever talk again
2007-05-05 19:14:21 · update #1
tell her how you feel and if u can't work it out then drop her
2007-05-05 18:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by thatgurl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life gets so difficult when your friends aren't reliable. It takes two to fight, you know. Have you thought about the reason for your fights? How important is it anyway? Maybe you could find something to do other than "hanging out", which sounds boring to me. If you two are fighting so much, maybe it would be a good idea to talk about it. If that starts a fight, then it's time to say sayonara and find someone else. Maybe it would help you to know that this too shall pass, meaning most people become more mature and move beyond this phase in their lives. How about you?
2007-05-05 20:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how long have yall been best friends? If it's been a really long time then work on it don't give up, because trust me, I lost my best friend that I had for almost 5 years and now I really regret it and wish I would've tried to be a better best friend because now she has a new best friend and I miss her more than anything. But if yall just recently became best friends or are just way too different, you don't have to necessarily stop being their friend but try to hang out more with your other friends and maybe you'll become closer to them.
2007-05-05 18:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her how you feel, that you don't like fighting and that it is putting a strain on your relationship, and that if these disagreements dont stop that you need to stop hanging out so much. This would be easier to answer if you told us what thses fights are about?? Other than that i just suggest you distance yourself from her hang out with her once a week instead of everyday and try to do something else on the days that youre not with her.
2007-05-05 18:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the same thing happened to me. sry first of all i kno it sucks when a friend does that. but my advice is what i did you should hange out with new friends. because 1st of all you are obviously valueing the friendship more then she is 2nd a real friend would never treat you like that and 3rd it doesn't sound like any friend you should want.
i kno this is probably not what you want to hear b/c it's always hard to lose a bestfriend but in the end it will be better. it's going to be rly hard but it will be worth it i kno.
again sry bout that.
2007-05-06 04:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jessy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kno what your feeling..i would say just talk to her about it..like i use to have these really bad fights with my best friend last year until she told all my other friends embellished lies about things i said about them jokingly but she made it seem serious..my advice is just tell her how you feel and ask why you are always fighting..thats what i did. i didnt let her out of my sight until we got the issue solved. we havent had a fight in about a year..also you should mayb consider that you are seeing her too often? but just talk to her..and next time you have a fight..dont let her out of your site until you solve the problem even if you are sittin there huffin and puffin..work it out..good luck
2007-05-05 18:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~Bahamian_Queen~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just back off a little from eachother, nothing as drastic as finding new friends. Just give eachother a little space and act like you were busy and check in and ask how she is doing.
It happens, I'm sure you will be fine.
2007-05-05 18:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by Offending Party 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell them that you are tired of fighting or arguing with them and want a normal conversation, they probably feel the same way you do. and if that don't help then just stop talking to them so much and focus on others.
2007-05-05 19:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in regard to your friend, mabye you should just sit them down and talk to them. honesty is the best thing, even if u keep on fighting, u will have a burden off ur chest.
2007-05-05 18:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by catt1135 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is truly your friend you will work it out jus talk to her dont argue or blame never start a sentence with"i hate it when you" or "if u didnt do" cause that it blaming you need to find a common ground and just work out your issues like i said if yall are true friends yall can work it out no problem
2007-05-05 18:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by winegeartr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, it seems like that kind of stuff u normally grow out of by about the beginning of middle school normally. I guess you should make some normal friends lol in high school people don't normally act like that! at least at mine they dont
2007-05-05 18:50:04 · answer #11 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋