I want to live wit my dad, how should i ask him to live over there. He would love for me to live over there but i dont think my mom wants me to leave but i wanna leave. wat should i do?
2007-05-04 10:50:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My dad isnt a bad person, my mom just wants me at her house so she can like use me to wacth my borther and she wants me to like make her food and stuff but i dont. and alll this other stuff. i just dont like it here at my moms house, but i love it there at my dads house.
2007-05-04 10:58:38 · update #1
My dad is a lawyer i dont think most lawyers are bad people.
2007-05-04 10:59:43 · update #2
umm stupid i have friends, i dont kno wat ur talking about how do my fuking questions not add up.
2007-05-04 11:01:54 · update #3
ya should i learn to respect her when shes calling me a ***** and a slut and all these other names. ya i dont think so maybe thats why i wanna get out of here.
2007-05-04 12:08:43 · update #4
I think that children are allowed to legally have input on where they live after they reach a certain age.Your dad would know the age in your area.You should sit down with your dad and explain how you feel.Don't use foul language or give attitude but tell him the truth.You always seem so angry and defiant and it shouldn't be that way.He will think things are alright at your mom's if you don't say anything.You really need to talk to your dad about your feelings. It is unfortunate that you feel your mom is not there for you.If your mom won't listen maybe your dad will.Just be sincere and he will understand.Take care EmaWeeE.
2007-05-04 16:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to stay home and learn how to respect you're mother. So what if she asks you to watch you're little brother or fix her something to eat? Shes you're mother you should do that for her like clean the house and wash dishes and all that good stuff. I mean she put up with you this long i think you could show her something in return and plus you're old enough to do stuff on you're own and it will all work out in the long run.
well maybe if you would have treated her with respect and if you wasnt so much out of control she wouldnt call you those names, and honey its always 2 sides of every story.
2007-05-04 18:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I keep telling you....just get some evidence supporting your case and go to court. Get your dad to get legal custody of you.
Otherwise, go spend time down there as much as possible, and tell him, "dad, mom isn't working out. She is rude and disrespectful towards me. She only wants me there to watch over [what's your brother's name again??]. I want to live with you."
Your dad will want some more evidence. He will want some backup. My advice: don't use your brother. Get a tape recorder and keep it around and on when you and your mom get at it. Then, give it to your dad.
My best advice if you don't want to go legal is to just spend more time with your dad. Go out with him after school, and make it clear to him that you are doing this because you want to live with him.
Good luck!!
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2007-05-04 23:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the same thing happened to me.(sorta) Well when my dad n my mom got divorced I wanted to live with my dad. After a few years of getting beat and in trouble a lot for nothing I went to live with my mom. Going there was a TERRIBLE mistake. She had a bf that beat on her all the time. Sometimes they were together and sometimes they weren't. Then she got another bf who did drugs. He was fine the first couple weeks then they started to fight.(over drugs) they sold OVER $4000 dollars worth of MY stuff. Stuff they didn't buy me n had no right to even touch. So then I flipped out and got put into juvy by her. When I got out i played it cool for a while. Then at X-mas she dropped me off at my grandmas so I could help her out while i was on break. She never came to get me or called me. So one day I went down there to my PS2(the only thing she didn't sell of mine) and there were ppl sleeping in my bed. PPL that looked like they were picked up off the street. So i got mad got all my stuff and moved in with my grandma. Now i have alot better of a relationship with my dad. Things are working out pretty good.
Edit:
I would call your dad to come get you. Have all your stuff packed when he gets there.
Good Luck
2007-05-04 18:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I guess it really depends on your dad, would he go to bat for you and help you move to where he is? Why wouldn't your mother want you to be with your dad? Lots of times mothers know things that they have not told their children about their dad. I would have a really serious conversation with your mum and let her know how you feel. Good luck!
2007-05-04 17:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Chatty Cathi 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I would tell your mom you want to live with dad just break down to her as gentle you can and explain why, then call your dad and say dad i would like to live with you.
2007-05-04 17:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Adrianne R 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
just tell your mom and dad that you want to go to live with him, your mother can't complain because he is your father, the law protects you because even if she is your mother she can't denie the fact that he is your dad and if that is what you want then just tell him first so he can talk to your mother, and he will know what to tell her, good luck
2007-05-04 18:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
You must really need friends or attention or just plain therapy. You ask questions that do not add up with your other questions....get a friend
2007-05-04 17:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋