Well im grounded because i got drunk at school ( I know NOT smart) I know that it was wrong but i didnt care. I have lots of issues and have been seeing shrinks and all that fun stuff. So like my parents no that i havent been doing good and stuff. THey just dont understand. Ive been grounded for 2 months now, because i had gotton bad grades, and i think im going to get bad grades again. I am trying in school, but my parents were both smart and dont understand why school is so hard to me. O and now on top of being grounded i have to go to court now for getting drunk at school, Im getting 5-20 hours of community service, 20 hours of lifeskills(drug class), and i also have to go to a couple of drug classes with my parents. Ive been punished long enough. And i want to get all this stuff behind me. My question is how can i get my parents to let me go out again? Because not socializing with anyone is driving me crazy and its just going to make me do something stupid again.
2007-05-05 12:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and my parents no who i would be hanging out. Because they actually liek my boyfriend. And its driving me crazy I mean since i have to go to court and do all the community service and drug classes, I think thats enough punishment, and I just wanna be able to go out again
2007-05-05 12:08:00 · update #1
Im not going to a nice collegge im going to community so all i need to do is pass. But I am trying to change and ive shown improvemnt, but my parents dont care
2007-05-05 12:29:32 · update #2
they took away everything, i sneak on the computer and phone and everything else.
2007-05-05 12:35:20 · update #3
GUESS WHAT?! If you start acting more mature and quit being so stupid you may have more privelages in life. GROW UP and get on track. You have to earn their trust back, you deserve whatever punishment they give you as far as I am concerned. They LOVE you and want you to make something of your life, you dont want to be just another poor looser do you? Your parents just want wats best for you, accept it.
2007-05-05 12:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you stop doing these things your parents will eventually trust you. It takes longer to get trust than it does to lose it and you have totally lost it. As my grandma used to say it is your bed you sleep in it. You did the things that got you in trouble and you knew what you were doing was wrong if you want them to get this behind them and you guys to have a good relationship of trust again you have to prove it, i wouldn't be worried about your friends and socializing right now you and your parents have to get past this first. If you keep breaking the law and do something that stupid again you will probably end up in juvy then you won't have any freedom or be able to socialize people will tell you when to eat or use restroom.
2007-05-06 10:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to put all of this behind you then i suggest you go to these classes and do you community hours because as much as you think you've learned from your experience you havn't. You need to get help so that you can get your life back on track. And the only way your parents will let you back out is if you earn their trust. Try bring up your marks. and if school is hard then try your best and get extra help. No one can make excuses for you. Life isn't easy and you have to work at it.
I hope everything works out for you.
good luck.
2007-05-05 13:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really too bad they spoiled you. You'd be much happier if they had done a good job raising you, even though your life would not have been so easy as it has been up to now but you would be more mature and understand that the world does not revolve around your personal pleasures. Now you get the consequences.
2007-05-05 12:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you got drunk at school and you're only grounded two months. i've been grounded six weeks or more for simply talking back. no tv, no computer, no phone, no friends, no going out.
you've seriously got to get your act together, stop whining, and prove to your parents that you really want to change.
if you go and do something stupid again, then you'll just prove that you deserve to be kept at home.
your life can't be that bad if they didn't take away your computer.
2007-05-05 12:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"House Mo..." is right. Issues or no..you need to grow up. If you dont due well at school..you wont be able to go to college and you will stuck in some fast food joint working for the rest of your life.
2007-05-05 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by faith 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they should take away the computer too. there is never enough punishment for someone being THAT stupid.
2007-05-05 17:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your medicine and show them that you can be trusted.
2007-05-05 13:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋