Pregnancy & Parenting - 20 December 2007

Ok her I go.....We have a little girl 3 years ago but I kicked him out because he cheated on me and couldn't keep a job...etc..And I got with this other guy when she was two months old.And we are currently still together.And that was back in 2005....He has seen her once and that was before she turned 1.We have talked but that was back in 2006 but then I moved changed my number etc...But the other day he some how got my number and called me up wanting to know how his daughter was..He was in jail for about a year or so for not paying child support..Let me tell you he has kids...more than the average joe..The guy that I am with now dont think that i should let him see her because he thinks he's worthless. And that he hasen't before there for her.I just think that he will leave again and this time it will hurt her because she is older.What do I do??

2007-12-20 05:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by felicia_finuf2002 1 in Parenting

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2007-12-20 05:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Baby Names

car seat to take out of the house. I'm curious b/c I'd like to wait as long as possible to avoid spit-up but if you're in a hurry is it safe to just quickly burp her and then be on your way?

2007-12-20 05:10:25 · 12 answers · asked by Brady 2 in Newborn & Baby

I Just had a miscarriage at 12 weeks along. I know that most likely its nothing I did to cause it and they are pretty common.
This was my first pregnancy. I do have somethings that I suspect could of done it. Do you think any of these things could of caused it?
1. Before I got pregnant I got diagnosed with Hpv because of abnormal papsmear and I have to have a colposcopy done to see if I have Cancer. I also had some Irregular periods.
2. Right before I miscarried I did fall going up some stairs at work, didnt land on my stomache though.
3. I had a bad yeast infection during my pregnancy and used over the counter monistat to treat it.
4. I also had a strept B infection in my urine and took amoxycillin to treat it.
Does it sound like any of these things could of caused my miscarriage? Also at 8 weeks along I had an ultrasound that showed a very healthy heartbeat. Thank you for any input.

2007-12-20 05:04:53 · 10 answers · asked by hopefull in Seattle 1 in Pregnancy

thinking about trying a fast for one day for religious and cleansing reasons.

if we wanted our kids to try it also is that ok?

2007-12-20 05:03:21 · 25 answers · asked by babyherc1r 1 in Parenting

when your water breaks does the water smell nasty or like what?? also, in the delivery room does it smell bad? when they hand you over your baby once its born and still dirty does it stink? im sorry im 15wks first baby and extremly curious. my mom doesn't remember so i rly want to know. THanks!

2007-12-20 04:56:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

Hi all, I am about to be a grandma (again). My daughter has decided that for a boy first name will be Kai (last name will be Rogers). I'm looking for ideas on a middle name that begins with a "D". Any ideas?

2007-12-20 04:53:13 · 45 answers · asked by charmar79 2 in Baby Names

From 1-10.
Addison Rose-Girl
Noah Jameson-Boy
Izabella Marie-Girl
Landon Alexander-Boy

And do you have any other names that you like? Different middle names, that you think sound better?

2007-12-20 04:52:58 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5 in Baby Names

Ok her is the scoop......I had a baby 3 year ago with this guy Jason.Whick is her biological dad.We split up when she was 2 months old.And I got with this other guy that I am currently still with.So she knows him as dad and not her biological dad.He has seen her once this whole time and that was even before she turned one.So I got a phone call the other day and it was her biological dad wanting to know how she was...I think that after3 years that it will confuse her to much.I think that he will just be in her life for awhile and then poof...What do I do???

2007-12-20 04:50:26 · 10 answers · asked by felicia_finuf2002 1 in Adolescent

I've never been pregnant before and I don't know why, but my body and mind is just telling me that i am. Do i listen to my body and my self???

2007-12-20 04:49:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I like unique names

2007-12-20 04:44:05 · 30 answers · asked by mamazangelz 1 in Baby Names

I wanted to write a question that I really hope I can get some help with.
About 6 months ago I had an abortion that I really did not want to have, the pregnancy wasn’t planned but the dad and I had just started dating (we where both in relationships before but very good friends). I had always thought that if I got pregnant by exedent I would get an abortion but the amazing thing was that when I found out that I was pregnant or got a confirmation that I was (because I somehow just knew the next day) I was over whelmed whit joy. I told my partner about the pregnancy and he totally freaked out, said things like he didn’t understand that I would even consider keeping the baby and such. After a lot of fighting and talking and crying, he finally got to his senses and said that he would support me in what I wanted to do, although he made it clear that he wanted me to have an abortion. I was then determined to keep the baby, and like I had told him it would be up to him if he wanted to be any part of this (of course I hoped he would be). Then I called my mother to tell her the news, expecting her to be really happy (she has always been obsessed with me having kids, talking about how it’s better to have kids young and such I’m 25). When I told her she reacted way differently than I would have thought basically suggesting I got an abortion. My mom has always been my best friend and we are very close so this was a huge disappointment and shock for me. I told some of my really good friends that where all happy and exited for me, but the two people that mattered the most wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. At some point I decided to make an appointment but not to have the procedure done, but when I got there with my boyfriend I was in such a daze and so confused and exhausted from fighting, I felt like I had no control and before I knew the procedure was done, I wasn’t pregnant anymore. I don’t even remember the whole thing but the doctor told me when I went for a check up I cried the whole time (why she wouldn’t stop I don’t understand). The first month after, I was very sick and had tons of complications.
Well to try and wrap this up, I have been seriously sad even depressed ever since, I have horrible dreams and can’t stop thinking about my baby. Also I am so mad at them (even though I don’t want to and love them so much but I just cant help it) because I feel like they got what they wanted and took away the thing I wanted the most. For a while things between that “dad” and me where a little strange but then we started really dating again. Since the abortion I haven’t been able to thing about anything but to get pregnant again, I even thought about quitting my birth control (that I hate, because it just reminds me every day that I can’t get pregnant) without telling him (I honestly never thought I would even think thoughts as crazy as this).
Three months ago my boyfriend comes over after going out and having a few beers with his buddies, and starts telling me how awful he feels about the baby, how much he loves me and how he wants to have kid with me. I was really surprised for this sudden change of heart and a bit skeptical, but couldn’t help being happy. A few days later when I start talking about this (both parties sober) he tells me he probably said more than he should have and that at this point he thinks having a baby isn’t a good idea.
Since then we haven’t talked about it but all I wasn’t is to get pregnant and I feel like I’ll never get “better” until I do get pregnant and have his child, whether he sticks around or not. I am well on my way to get my PhD at a very prestigious university, I ‘m lucky enough to have the financial means to take care of myself and a baby (even him not that he needs that by any means) and could very well afford hiring help. I don’t know what his deal is, I know he loves me and wants to be with me (the man has picked out song for our wedding!) but I feel like he is to afraid to take the step, and when he dose he kind of backs out of it again.

What do I do? I’m so confused ….

2007-12-20 04:40:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

2007-12-20 04:37:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

ok, people, im not self absorbed, and i wasnt looking for insults. the reason for gaining weight in a pregnancy is for the baby. i already have that extra weight. and guess what?! it is safe to lose weight during pregnancy, it just depends on how you go about it. and for the those of you that decided to insult me, you are dumb. the reason for my not wanting to be a fat blob, is for the pregnancy. like, cholesterol, and other health issues... just because youre dumb and think its HEALTHY to fat, doesnt mean i need to! so suck it!

2007-12-20 04:36:38 · 17 answers · asked by runyon_kelli 1 in Pregnancy

hi, ttc, period due NY day. but last 3 days, i have been feeling bit sick off and on and i seem to be burping alot, which i never normally do?! and have a bad belly, constipated and then the oppsite (sorry, nice, hey!)

2007-12-20 04:33:59 · 8 answers · asked by beck 2 in Pregnancy

when i heard it from him i scolded him and was v angry he promised not to use it but forgets it the moment he`s with his friends and uses it in public.

2007-12-20 04:32:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

My son just turned 5,and I am wondering which underpants are better for him to be wearing whenever he gets a spanking for misbehaving,briefs or boxer shorts,and why?

Which ones do your son wear?

2007-12-20 04:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-12-20 04:28:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

I recently lost my baby girl during birth this past August. The umbillical cord was tightly wrapped around her neck 2x. I have been devasted & depressed since my lost. I have an older daughter who's 18 months. The doctor's told me to wait 6 months. My husband's been VERY desperate & impatient to have another child because it feels SO empty not holding our daughter and doing so much that we've done with her oldest sister. I believe I am pregnant because I skipped my period and I've been having all the symptoms. I think I'm 3-4 months pg as my tummy's a round bump. I guess my hubby got what he wanted and I am lost feeling so guilty and undeserving. I'm scared to see the doctor's because of what they will tell me. Do you know anyone who's gone through such an experience with stillbirth or misscarriage and had gotten pregnant again right after? And what were the results of their pregnancy? I think the docs are more worried about the c-section wound (the insides) healing. I need answers....

2007-12-20 04:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I have a 3 year old that goes on her potty all day but not at nap times.I understand not being able to hold it while sleeping.My question is why does she not go on the potty while she is awake in her room trying to sleep?I tell her all the time to potty in the bathroom or on her tiny potty that I put right beside her bed and she still goes in her undies.I just don't want her to not feel like a big girl.Any help would be great:)Thanks:)

2007-12-20 04:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by superstar 6 in Toddler & Preschooler

hes had like cough, trough infection, ear infections,eye infections the hole works. his bin on and off anybiotics.....
the anthybiothics help wile his taking them but as soon as his off them his sick again...what can i do his dr. wont change his medication cuz his only 13months....but i'm so tire off seeing my on so sick and not being able to do anything, and i'm also so tired of not being able to rest....wha can i do to make him feel better i hate seeing him like this...

2007-12-20 04:20:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

I've lost 7lbs in 2 weeks. The funny thing is I'm not trying to lose weight! I'm 5'4 and I weight 116lbs. I told my mom that I've been losing weight, but now she's almost force feeding me. She's making more for dinner and making me eat more of it. I'm eating more then my 21 year old brother >.< How can I get her to realize that my weight is fine, that I'm not underweight?

2007-12-20 04:20:21 · 13 answers · asked by Small♥Town♥Girl 6 in Adolescent

My bf that I *tHiNk* that I'm pregnant?

2007-12-20 04:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Queen =) 2 in Pregnancy

tomorrow there is a function going on at my church. the Pastor said to bring someone you know that may not have been "saved".

My question is: Should I ask my ex gf? Just as friends. I really think she would enjoy it.

It's the Christmas celebration at the church.

2007-12-20 04:19:10 · 12 answers · asked by Will 4 in Adolescent

Hi there i had my first child with a c- section but unfortunately she did not survive she lived only for 2 months but i still want to have a baby like her but some people say that we can have only 2 times c-section if i have twins i will not worry but if i have one child, me and my husband decided to have 2 children it is very hard to accept the fact of loss please advice me for this

2007-12-20 04:18:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

We are looking for a Christmas or Winter name for my baby girl that is due on Christmas Day. We are looking for something a little different but sticking with the Christmas/Winter theme. Any idea?

2007-12-20 04:17:34 · 38 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Baby Names

2007-12-20 04:13:20 · 18 answers · asked by - 6 in Parenting

Okay I had cheese motzerella sticks last night and I came home and had REALLy bad diereha and now my somache hurts really bad.. UGH. Should I stick it out or stay in bed and play video games?

2007-12-20 04:12:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I'm 5"1. My mom is 5"4 & my dad is 5"6. How much more will I grow?

2007-12-20 04:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by ♥sAvAnNaH♥{sExY cAn I} 3 in Adolescent

He will go when you take him to the potty but shows no interest in going on his own

2007-12-20 04:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by rockliz2000 1 in Toddler & Preschooler