Ok, here's the situation. My daughter is 4 1/2 years old. She has not seen her biological father for over 3 years, and probably will never see him again. He gave up his parental rights when we divorced, so I am literally her only parent. I have been dating an amazing guy for about 8 months and we are moving in together in January. My daughter has started asking if my boyfriend is her daddy. Now we do want to get married, but there's no ring yet and you never know what's going to happen. She knows she doesn't have a dad and knows that most kids have dads. Ugh, it's so frustrating. How do I explain to my 4 year old that my boyfriend is not her daddy, even though one day he more than likely will be. When I get the question "Is Evan my daddy?" I tell her "maybe someday and I sure hope so". Any other suggestions?
2006-11-28
13:16:44
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kameka
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