You might think I am crazy but I am 11 and the boy I like is 16...My older sister is 19 (pregnant) and told me not to hang around him. I didn't think any thing of it until I relized why...he had come over to my sisters house and at night he kept telling me what strikes a guy to be horny. He made me promise and mean it that anything we did would be our secret...I felt very uncofortable.I really like him and I think he likes me. How do I keep from having sex with him and keep him interested in me ?
2006-11-28 13:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by Me 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I really want to thank you guys for all of your supportive answers !!!!
thanx, xoxo
2006-11-28 13:55:45 · update #1
You are a CHILD! This guy is sick to be interested in an 11 year old child. If he lays a hand on you it would be called child molesting. Tell your parents immediately! Your sister is right! She obviously knows something about him that you do not know. Please, young lady. Talk to your parents. Not strangers on the internet.
2006-11-28 13:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmm... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is your age hun. A 16 year old coming on to you is kind of sick, honestly. He is practically a man and you barely not a child anymore. You should NOT have sex at 11 years old. You won't understand and you won't enjoy it, though he will. And he is just trying to use you. Listen to your sister and stay clear away from him. And you MUST tell your parents that he snuck into your room at night and tried to have sex with you. They will not be mad at you but mad at him, and rightfully so. He is a creep and you can do so much better. Don't settle for him, he's a loser only looking for one thing and that thing will get you into deep trouble.
One more thing to consider is that you CAN get pregnant before you start your period. Your period is the result of your egg dropping and not being fertilized. Being that you have to drop and egg before you get your period you will be fertile for about 2 weeks before your first period and if you haven't already started, you will VERY soon.
2006-11-28 21:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun, here is the thing, and this is very abvious, when though it might be real love guys are really different. he could wait till the right time comes, he does not even have to discuss how horny a guy can get!!!!! have some ideal for urself and keep those and make it very straight forward to him as well. if he wants you he will wait if not be sure it was a GAME. 16 years old is full of game honey.good luck.xoxo
2006-11-28 21:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....you only 11 years old. You don't need to be thinking about sex and getting with a boy. Don't do anything you'll regret.....*but anyways....you really shouldn't go out with him or like him anymore because its kinda wrong for a 11 year old girl and 16 year old boy to be going out and listen to your sister and family. They know what's best.....
2006-11-28 21:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by queen_banana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um your 11 shouldnt you be like playing with dolls or something? and what do you mean how do you keep from having sex with him? you just dont do it. i doubt he likes you unless he is a pervert because a 16 year old should no way be attracted to an 11 year old. he probably would like to use you for sex but that's about it. you need to listen to your sister and stay away from him.
2006-11-28 22:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so much older than you hon, be very careful. This is no offence to you at all, but it concerns me what a 16 year old sees in an 11 y.o girl. He seems really sly, I wouldn't be hanging with him if I were you...
2006-11-28 21:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by kmlloveplant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is sooooo wrong for you! This guy is only after sex and I know it is fun to have an older guy interested in you and all but he is trouble!
Listen to you sister stay away from him you are way to young to have sex now and especially by a creep like him.
2006-11-28 21:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I'm sorry but that's all he wants. You shouldn't be interested in a guy who is 16 while you're 11. You're too young and immature for that.
2006-11-28 21:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...at the age of 16 he is almost guaranteed to be wanting one thing only and you are smart enough to know what that is. Don't give in, crushes will come and go, and you dont want to live with anything you will regret later. Good luck
2006-11-28 21:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jen M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 11. You might want to think you're a big girl. Sorry, you're not. As long as Mama buys your undies, you're not responsible for yourself yet.
And please, for the life of me, stay away from 16 year-old boys. Full stop. Period.
You have your whole life ahead of you to have guys to be interested in you for what you are. Not what he can do to you.
2006-11-28 21:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by tomQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋