I have three kids...all under the age 9...youngest being a newborn. I have always had, or I thought I always had an anger problem...therpist says I dont...stopped going to her...now what? never would hurt kids.NEVER! but...I do yell a lot..I dont like that about myself..habit...hard to change, I have tried..some name calling..brat and idiot is the worse names I have called..as for the new born. not one problem, he is the apple of my eye, perfect...why can't I have the same feelings for the other 2? Why Can't I be more patient with them, more understanding? why can't I let LITTLE things slid and not care? I expect MORE from oldest and show that towards him, I get mad at him for acting childish...I feel really bad afterwards about it...Please, I do not need people downing me...I do that enough..would like tips..advice..anything to help me change..help me to be more patient, loving and understanding to the other two...
2006-07-07
05:37:36
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