my gf told her we had sex and my mom TRIED to raise me with morals but i never did go wit them and now shes mad and wont talk to me..
2006-07-07 05:37:48 · 33 answers · asked by Puertorican Problem 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what makes it worse she found out i lost it at 14
2006-07-07 05:44:38 · update #1
whoa whoa whoa i aint leavin my boo like that wtf
2006-07-07 05:51:05 · update #2
but im NOT sorry about it....it was a good experience XD
2006-07-07 05:55:04 · update #3
She may be more upset that you are the one who didn't come to her about it. Why did your girlfriend even say anything to her?
How old are you? How old is she?
When did this happen? You may just have to allow your mom to step back and realize that she can't do anything about it now. She will come around eventually. Just be patience and don't worry. She will still love you after all this blows over. She may not like the girlfriend as much but you never know.
2006-07-07 05:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by cindy p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom cares, and will eventually get around to speaking with you. Meanwhile ditch that gf fast. She seems to be lacking in the sense department and has no clue about appropriate conversation subjects.
It would help if you were able to control your er.... adventures till you were in a more stable situation in life, which would probably help relations with your mom as well as give you some time and a breather to figure out a good life all round, rather than just the romance department
2006-07-07 05:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vidyut Kale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, i understand how you sense. i'm 21 and performance run up costs of that length previously. once you've a component time job/cheap charges, then I strongly advise that you pay for it that way. or you may want to beg the faculty on you money lower back in case you under no circumstances went on the holiday? i imagine you likely might want to get the money lower back, even if it doesnt sound that straightforward, and would take a lengthy time period. you could merely ought to face the music along with your Dad and are available sparkling. a minimum of that way you're being undemanding and under no circumstances hiding some thing... cos in case you dont now, imagine what is going to take position at the same time as he does eventually... cos those issues have a nasty way of slipping out! desire all of it works out for you.
2016-11-06 01:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family is the same way my mom raised us like that to and my brother did the same thing but my mom found out differently she was so mad at him she wouldn't even talk to him so my brother sat down with her and they had a long talk he explained to her the reasons why. now him and his girlfriend are great and my mom is not agreeing with it but shes a little more comprehensive but there talking again.
2006-07-07 06:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, her wittle boy is growing up. She's just having a hard time dealing with it, and rightfully so. I would be freaking out if I found out my teen son was having sex, even though I know someday he will. She knew that too, so she will get over it. Just don't bring it up and give her time to rationalize.
2006-07-07 05:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you still need to worry about you mom finding out about it you are too young to be having sex. And to all of you who answer with the fact that she (the mom) needs to get over it then you are also too young to be having sex. And need to learn to respect your mom, yourself and women. If you don't learn to respect yourself and others you will have many failed relationships and friendships in your life.
2006-07-12 07:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by wsonBrat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll get over it eventually, but you should understand that she's probably not mad at you, she's probably really disappointed that you didn't listen to any of her advice and you're putting yourself at risk for getting a girl pregnant or an STD.
2006-07-07 05:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just wondering why did your girlfriend tell her that you had sex? As long as you make the right decisions if anything happens following this, you are fine
2006-07-07 16:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do just give her space and she will come around she's your mother. And for your gf. What the hell is she doing telling your family that you had sex. How would she like it if you told her dad you had sex?
2006-07-07 05:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by jess_brenda_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do she knows already.Your a boy it's much easier to deal with.If your mother would of found out that her daughter lost her virginity and 14 she would have beat her a$$ and you know that shyt.♥♥♥
2006-07-07 06:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋