i have known this guy a short while and now i am pregnant. how can i help him cope with this too?
2006-07-07 05:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by Sharon H 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he knows it is his. he is the only one i have been with in the past 4 weeks.
2006-07-07 06:24:18 · update #1
he's pretty mature-he is 36 and i am 42.
2006-07-07 07:51:44 · update #2
does he know that ur pregnant and is happy with it, if so just make sure he knows that you still want to be with him all the time and keep him excited about having a baby but really he should be the one helping you out because being pregnant isn't all that easy!!
2006-07-07 05:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a matter of how mature he may or may not be. All you can honestly do is take on the responsibility of being the best parent you can possibly be for the child's sake. Hopefully he will be there for his child, however if he is not I urge you to go to court and at the very least make sure he fiancially supports the baby. Good-luck with your pregnancy!
2006-07-07 06:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by njmommie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well both of you are too old not to knwo what to do...life isnt getting any longer and you too arent getting any younger....you should both already know that you have a responsibility to take care of...your working against the odds since your over 35 and prone to more complications
both of you better get with the program and stop acting like small children...he knows better and so do you
sorry to sound so harsh but your 42!!! he's 36!!!
I mean come on...
2006-07-07 08:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate Model Intellect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is probably going to want a paternity test. Don't be offended when he asks go along with it and save yourself the trouble. Then you should arrange for him to be involved in the doctor's appointments if he chooses to be. If he doesn't cope with the idea then get ready to have child support set up. And I'm not going to fuss at you for making a bad decision...you'll never be this irresponsible again.
2006-07-07 06:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he should know what happens when you have sex without protection. But honestly, he will have to cope with rather it him being a good father or child support. Keep your head up.
2006-07-07 05:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child Support says it all
2006-07-07 05:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just your fault he should know the risk of havin sex unprotected nad even if u do use something nothin is a 100%
2006-07-07 05:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by invigeration69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he knew the consequences when having sex unprotected.
2006-07-07 05:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept your legs together. Oh well, why is he not dealing with it?
2006-07-07 05:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋