I really luv the daddi--he is really nice to me. He is 19, he told me that one day we cud get married nad sutff and he would never leave me or the baby...I mean he does have like 3 other kids but the moms are b*tchs that is why he dont be there for them.
I am so excited...see I really love kids and baby sitting them and stuff...all those lil clothes are so cute.
ur wrong if you think that we gonna break up because he told me love me and he gonna get a job soon working at Wal Mart or maybe even Target.
HE said that I can get help from the govnment too.
Do you think that this is ok?
PLEASE NOTE: I am actually a 22 old single mother of a four year old...this is just a compulation of thie ignorance I have seen on Yahoo answers, just in the past week. Yes I had my daughter at 18, but I knew that my life would not be easy, and it sure hasnt. I kept my daughter because I have a condition that greatly reduces my chances of having kids.
What is up w/ these girls
2006-07-07 05:22:57 · 37 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
this is to all the little girls that thinks it is a breeze...it is NOT...it is hard...it is like having 20 full time jobs all at once...you cook, clean, and clean and clean and clean.....you are BROKE ALL THE TIME--I do not care that his family is rich...just because they have new things doesn't mean they are rich....
2006-07-07 05:24:45 · update #1
I AM NOT 15, and I can spell (well minus some typos here and there), my point is why are girls listening to these guys, why do they think it is cute? I SEE THIS STUFF ON YAHOO ALL THE TIME...it scares me!
2006-07-07 05:31:01 · update #2
FIRST of all to the smart @ss that is knocking me...NO I do not collect anything from the state....I work very hard for my money...I am also IN College and have completed TWO associates degrees and am going for my masters....I have a 3.768 GPA, I am not mad at life for me, because compared to these other little girls life it great for me....I just want these LITTLE girls to realize what they are doing to their lives and how they sound to US!
2006-07-07 05:39:57 · update #3
wow, ican really tell who is reading everything....
2006-07-07 05:42:18 · update #4
I know what your talking about...i've seen those type of questions also...i think that its sad...i got pregnant with my daughter at 20 and its still not easy...my husband was out of work for 3 months and i was working at a grocery store for 8.35 and hour (only made that much because i was there for 5 years almost) and i also went to school full time to get my BS in Nursing....there was times that i even took my daughter to school with me to class because i didnt have a baby sitter!!! Some of these girls that think they want to be a mother at 14-15 need to go on the Maury show when they have single mothers bring their children in and they have to take care of them for the day and see how it feel to be a mother.... they dont understand that they are not little dolls that they get to dress up and play with all the time and nothing goes wrong!
2006-07-07 06:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean I had my first child at 17. Im 23 now with two sons aged 6 and 4 and it isn't easy your right it is damn well hard. When I had my second son the week he was born I had 9 hours sleep my parter was woken constantly and had to go to work iv never been so exhaused. It isn't always a bundle of laughs full of smiles and lil clothes etc you have to be prepared for some drastic changes having a child at that age you can't go out with your friends as often anymore you have to spend all your money on the baby, bills, food etc then you have non left and you have to grow up pretty quickly. I wish some of these girls would waken up to the reality. Now we have bought our own home and never have had money from the government everything we have we have had to work our *** off for. as above says i wouldn't change my kids for the world but if i could have changed anything i would have waited a few more years
2006-07-07 05:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE IT!!! This question was pissing me off the more I read it. I got pregnant with my first son when I was 15 and had him when I was 16 and IT WAS NOT EASY!!!!! I even had my mom to help me out but she said that she was not going to financially help me cause I made it now I take care of it. She charged me for babysitting, didn't buy diapers, wipes, clothes NOTHING! A week after my 18th birthday, I was sitting in the plasma center donating for a pack of Pampers. HARD STUFF! Having babies aint no joke. I got out of school when I was 16, got my GED at the same time, and went to college, but had to drop out cause it was just to hard on me to work a full time job through the week, a part time job on the weekends, go to full time college and be a full time mommy and still try to be a 16 year old. All of these girls really need to stop and think of what they're doing before they do it. I mean, I made it.....by the skin of my teeth I made it. My children don't want or need for anything now, but oh how rough it was. I am 25, got 3 children and 31 weeks pregnant with the 4th. I don't regret a thing, however if I could of waited I would of! Thanks for TRYING to show some of these girls some insight!
2006-07-07 05:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by lil_gabby_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean why do they think that having a baby as a teen will be easy? because they don't realize that raising a child isn't "baby-sitting" it. it is a hard job and they don't understand that when the baby cries at 2 in the morning they can't push the snooze button. they don't know how much money it costs. they don't remember that they have to change diapers, feed, or bathe the baby.
they also don't see that guys who are nineteen and sleeping with 15 year olds aren't worrying about pregnancy. he probably left the other three because the turned into b*tches after they realized all of the help they would need from him and he didn't want part of it.
also, i'm so happy that you raised your child and you are lucky that you looked at it realisticly. congratulations!
2006-07-07 05:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by thunderwear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's asking you to sign up for benefits, he doesn't plan on sticking around. What he has done is called statutory rape. That means with an underage person. Tell your mom and get a pternity test and get his a** thrown in jail before he leaves a whole string of fatherless children around. Saying that former gf's ar b****** is a classic line, don't fall for it. If they were that bad, why was he with them? Get some help, thhis guy is a loser.
I started typing after I read the part about is this ok, but I'll send it anyway. I see a lot of "I was with this guy. Am I pregnant?" stuff like that.
2006-07-07 05:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except you went swimming in a sperm pool, you won't be able to get pregnant from being in water with all of your clothing on. even once you've been on your era because that 11 does not advise you're completely advanced. you likely merely have pms or warmth stroke or the flu. in case you probably did fairly have sex and are afriaid you're pregnant, allow you to comprehend mom. now, when you're pregnate or the different hand...merely take 2 Tylenol and some remedial grammar to treatment that.
2016-11-01 09:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on this. But just like you said, they ar little girls. And at 15 think I love you means i'll never leave you. I got pregnant at 18 too and I kept my child. I now have two children and I'm only 22. I love my girls to death, but it is hard. I'm a single parent and was told i love you and blah blah blah. It's a bunch of crap. The parents of these 15 year old kids need to lock them up. They shouldn't be having sex at that age.
2006-07-07 06:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that was funny as hell. I totally agree with you. I was really hoping you were joking by the time you got the Walmart and Target part. Good for you for being who are you, and doing what you do. I'm in the same boat, five year old son at 23. Student, full time worker, We deserve some kudos for not being dumb and lazy and mooching off the government when we know we can make ourselves better.
2006-07-07 05:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Del 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl im kind of in a situation just like yours. I am also 22 i have a daughter who is 7 the light of my life and one is on the way. i am in college have completed a cerificate and now my AS is almost done. People try to knock us down and tell us we should have waited but they wouldnt be our kids if we would have waited. I am glad i had my child yes i was young but you know what i came out just fine as you have seem to. Good luck in everything you do. (and i commend you on being single)
2006-07-07 05:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all they are naive. They are just believe what a immature boy is telling them just to get into their pants. I am sure there are some guys out there who are genuine but let's be realistic here no girl is mentally ready to have a child at 15 years old. I am very shocked to hear that some girl is believing some bull crap of a story that is guy is telling her. Wow...
2006-07-07 05:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋