I was raped this past weekend. I'm doing okay - what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, right? But anyway... I was just wondering if it would be worth it to press charges against the man. He's 20, I'm 17. I consented to the first time we had sex and told him I didn't want to again which is when he raped me. I fought, I said no - it was straight up rape, no question.
My question is... is it even worth it to go through the horribly painful process of court to get him maybe probation for a few months? I mean... a "stupid 17 year old girl" vs. a "20, practically 21 year old majoring in political science and philosophy at the U of M" ... who will win, honestly...? You know what I mean?
I guess I just want to know if the process of rape cases are as painful as they are rumored to be... What could I expect if I pressed charges?
I got a rape kit done at the hospital the next day, fyi. So that's a factor, I guess.
Any advice, really would be great - my friends aren't too helpful
2007-09-10
13:36:00
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