Weddings - February 2007

I am 19 and my fiance is 26, We have been engaged for 2.5 years and love eachother very much. We were planning on marrying in early 2009. I unexpectedly got pregnant this october and my fiance and I have decided to get married this april. We are getting married in a non-denominational christian churce by the ocean. I have bought my dress already. My family think its too soon but our excited for me and for me doing what I believe is right. My fiance's family on the other hand feels the need to constantly trash our relationship. All they do is talki about us behind our back. I believe they may be jealosus due to cheating husbands and multiple divorces but I believe I am doing the right thing and this is what I want.

What do you think?


p.s please dont be too harsh with me, I am stressed out enough as is and dont need to hear about being "knocked up" or our age difference, I am very mature for my age and have had my share of experiences very young.

2007-02-05 14:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by mygan3 2

I am getting married this July and we are having a Hawaiian luau themed wedding. We want our guest to wear Hawaiian attire...ie~Hawaiian shirts, shorts, dresses, etc. Is it okay to ask our guests to wear this on the invites? I'm thinking of putting a note on the bottom of the invitation that says, "Hawaiian attire requested". Is it okay to request your guests wear specific clothing?

2007-02-05 14:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by patchouligirl 4

2007-02-05 14:39:21 · 2 answers · asked by cutie #1 1

I wanted to see where people would get married if they could get married any way or any place in the world.Like me and my fiance,amanda,are getting married at Oheka Castle in New York. It's beautiful She alwayz wanted to get married there. I alwayz wanted something extravagent and incredibly different...and
Oheka castle certainly is that.We love it...

2007-02-05 14:30:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 14:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by hahahahaha 1

please help us can we do sex its better for us our planning for marriage we will marry each other

2007-02-05 14:27:39 · 10 answers · asked by sukhjinder s 1

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he still hasn't ask me to marry him, we have talked about it and he says he loves me and wants to be with me and we have a son together. He treats me like a queen and I know he loves me I just feel like I want to give him more and that's the next step but I'm not sure what to do about it.

2007-02-05 14:23:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to reveal to him that my love for him is true and that i would always be a part of him in every walk of my life.. i need creative ideas coz i ain't creative, to propose my my guy...something that would really touch his soul... btw, he is not in my country at present..he has gone aborad to work... will writting a letter work out...?? don't really know what to do...! please help..!!

2007-02-05 14:12:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am looking for a reasonably priced wedding cake and finger sandwich platter from a grocery store. Any suggestions?

2007-02-05 13:52:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did the jp thing first time around, would like to do a real wedding this time. What's appropriate for a middle age bride with children to wear? Where are all the lady experts, weigh in on this for me, please! :) Thanks in advance.

2007-02-05 13:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Ex boyfriend and I broke up on bad terms. We were friends since we were little, and began to date our junior year in high school. After a year and a half, I found out he was cheating on me the whole time. After the break up, he still wanted to remain friends, and I spoke to him a few times, but that was it. A year after the break up I met my fiance. my Ex boyfriend's little brother is good friends with my little brother, and so, he knows I'm getting married. He sent me an email the other day saying that he wishes me the best, and that he envys my fiance for being lucky enough to be the one to "keep me". The little brother is going to be there because he and my little brother are always hanging out together. Further more, my parents are good friends with the Ex's parents, and the parents are going to be there as well. I don't mind his parents being there, they are nice people. Should I let them bring the EX boyfriend or not??

2007-02-05 13:18:12 · 13 answers · asked by Yessi H 2

2007-02-05 13:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by jessecabanatan 1

Hey I was wondering if someone could help me out with a problem i'm having! My boyfriend asked me to marry him and he even announced it when we went to see his parents over this christmas break he even bought the ring and gave it to me on christmas morning inside a beautiful jewlery box. Anyways he has asked for my hand and everything but now that we are talking about marriage he said he doesn't want to do anything for a year to a year and a half!!! What should I do??? What do you think is going on? Is he getting "COLD FEET"????

Please help!!!

2007-02-05 13:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by Sara 3

I was just thinking....how do you know if someone is about to pop the question? My boyfriend and I have talk about marriage, but I told him that he can pop the question but the marriage will have to happen during my senior year of college or after the graduation, but I will love to get marry soon. The difference is he is 7 yrs. older than me and the relationship is going great since he is 4 hrs. away from me. What shall I do?

2007-02-05 12:58:01 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Butterfly 1

I like the color purple and my man likes blue. We plan on getting married this summer 2007/fall 2007.

2007-02-05 12:47:01 · 22 answers · asked by vanilla_dipped_rican 1

I have a friend who I feel would do a nice job with photographing our wedding, but he just has a regular digital camera.... does anyone have any experience or suggestions on how the pictures may come out?

We have a low budget for the wedding so cutting costs is great, but pictures are one thing I don't want to be too cheap on.

2007-02-05 12:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going out with this girl for about two months but we have know each other for about 6 months. All we can do is think about each other... anyone have any suggestion when i should pop the question?

2007-02-05 12:23:37 · 13 answers · asked by wikedjackal 2

And he obssess over trying to get me to get a differnt ring. And I get upset trying to convince him I just want the simple cute one! I dont want to take away from the sentiment---what can I do!!!!

2007-02-05 12:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by Ask a Health Nut 5

I was wondering is it really THAT weird for the lady to propose? Maybe not necessarilly weird, but a little unusual? Is it a bad thing or does it really matter??

2007-02-05 12:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 12:17:33 · 12 answers · asked by Andy 2

We have been together for 5 yrs this june, she is 18 and i am 20. I was thinking of taking her to this resturant i already made reservations and it will be candlelit by a firplace i was gonna give her a card and tell her how much i love her then when she is done the card then i would pop the question. Should i do knees or no knees?

2007-02-05 12:02:29 · 33 answers · asked by michael c 1

At a wedding reception, the cake-cutting ceremony commonly features a song that is sung to the tune of what children's ditty?

A. Old MacDonald
B. Farmer in the Dell
C. Frere Jacques
D. Row Row Row Your Boat

2007-02-05 11:59:11 · 6 answers · asked by strawberry 4

I do not want a lot of people to come, but feel I have to invite the people that came to my bridal shower.

Do I
1. Not send save the date cards
2. Send invitations a month ahead but hope a lot of people do not show

I do not want any presents because my fiance and I already have everything we need for our home.

2007-02-05 11:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4

My maid of honor asked for my guest list for my bridal shower and I don't know who I should invite. My ceremony is very small and immediate family only, so I'm not sure its a good idea to invite my extended family that will only will be invited to the reception. I don't know who to invite. HELP!!!!!

2007-02-05 11:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Krissy 4

My boyfriend is 26 hes a 1st LT we have been talking about getting married because he might be getting stationed in Germany! So when we were in the midwest at Christmas with his family he said we will go to the court house if I get the job because I wont go without you. But now it looks like he is going to be getting the job and it stresses me out and scares me cause he will be gone for 2 years. When he told me I stayed strong and I was kidding and I said you cant go without me and he said well you cant go. So I dont know if he is just saying that or if he is going to propose and hes just trying to throw me off. Then this weekend I finally broke down and we both started crying and he said "you mean the world to me and I know that your the women I want to merry, I just dont know what to do." We both cryed most of the weekend. He said he wanted to avoid the talk because he doesnt know if hes going to get the job or not! I just dont know how to take all of this im scared more than anythi

2007-02-05 11:52:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 11:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by farhad 1

My mom recently overcame breast cancer. My fiance and I do not want gifts for our wedding, but would rather ask people to make a donation to the breast cancer society in our names. I know you are not supposed to put registry cards or requests for money in your wedding invitations, but can we put a separate insert with our donation request in with the wedding invitations?

2007-02-05 11:35:52 · 17 answers · asked by gettingmarriedsoon 1

'Women get married in white to match all other dommestic appliences'

This comment was made a while ago by Bernie Exxlestone of F1 fame. Do people still think like that or is he just a dinasour?

2007-02-05 11:33:16 · 29 answers · asked by footynutguy 4

The lady doing my wedding in March has gone above and beyond the call of duty in helping me plan the wedding, what would be a good gift for her?

2007-02-05 11:27:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

His family and I do not get along at all. I know that if I put formal they will show up in jeans. I want one a formal wedding and he wants a backyard Bar BQ. Help! We would elope if it were not for the fact that I am the only girl and I want my father to walk me down the aisle.

2007-02-05 11:27:28 · 27 answers · asked by saber_tooth_mouse 2