Weddings - January 2007

My parents are not financially able to pay for it and neither are we.... My fiance wants to just go to the courthouse and get it over with.... Do you think I will regret it if I don't have a "Real" wedding?

2007-01-20 06:21:30 · 18 answers · asked by livandjaxsmommy 2

I'm getting married later this year and it's not my first wedding BUT it will be my first wedding gown. To save cost I'm buying a beautiful used gown but it's white with white embroidery and white and silver beading. My dilema is that traditionally you only wear white the first time you get married. I thought about trying to get it dyed a pale color but then the beading may all have to be removed. I've also thought about trying to restitch the embroidery in black (our colors are black, white and silver), but not sure how well that would look. Do you think the guests would really frown if I left it white? Any suggestions? This is a very expensive gown that I'm able to purchase at a very good price and I hate to pass it up simply because tradition says I'm not supposed to wear white.

2007-01-20 06:09:26 · 29 answers · asked by cookiefactory4 3

My fiance and I are paying for our wedding ourselves and because of that we feel that the choices that are being made should be up to us. But his mother will not stop offering her opinion. Normally I wouldn't mind, but she keeps putting down ideas that we both love because it's not how she would do it. She's also a very Catholic woman and my fiance and I are not and this is causing conflict between the two of us and with her. How can we politely ask her to keep her opinions to herself? We don't want to alienate her.

2007-01-20 05:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by kissongstress54664 1

2007-01-20 05:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by Camesha J 1

ME AND MY BF ARE BOTH IN SCHOOL. WE ARE IN A SOMEWHAT LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP(45MIN). WE ARE BOTH IN THE ARMY RESERVES. WE ARE THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARRIED SO THAT WE CAN BE TOGETHER.WE WOULDN'T HAVE A WEDDING. WE WOULD GO TO THE COURTHOUSE. BUT MY THING IS I'M WORRIED ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE WILL SAY ABOUT GETTING MARRIED AT THE COURTHOUSE. ALSO B/C PEOPLE USUALLY WAIT TILL THEY FINISH SCHOOL AND STUFF. I HAVE A YEAR LEFT IN SCHOOL. HE HAS ABOUT A YEAR AND HALF TO GO. WE ARE BOTH IN OUR EARLY 20'S

2007-01-20 05:40:45 · 41 answers · asked by T 2

My Boyfriend of 5 years has been married befor but he went to the Justice of Peace (court house to do his marrage). I have never been married before. He just poped the question to me over the holidays. We both want to get married in Hawaii he said in 2011 we are going to do it for finacial reason we are wanting to fly family memebers there its going to be a small wedding but I am not sure when and how long I need to start to work on thing any suggestings.
Thank You

2007-01-20 05:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1

Don't get me wrong, I love my girlfriend, but I just can't stand the idea of having a wedding. Sooo many people invited, hardly any of them I really know, the catering, the music, renting out the place, stuff running amuck ... I mean if two people really love each other, why go through all that trouble? Shouldn't this be a personal event between a guy and a gal who like one another, and should not have all these distractions intervening at such an important day? Will my girlfriend flip out when I tell this to her?

I've been losing sleep and been avoiding her for the past couple of days. Please, serious replies only.

2007-01-20 05:37:56 · 22 answers · asked by Jus.Do.It 1

Here is the thing most of my family is in Iowa and his family is in Illinois. But here is the real problem our families can't afford to take of work, to go to some other state for a wedding. PLEASE HELP US!!!!1

2007-01-20 05:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 05:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-20 05:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 05:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I live in Indiana County Pennsylvania. We do not attend any churches because he is druid and I really have no religion, but I am leaning towards druid or wicca. So I am sure you can see our problem. Wedding date: September 22, 2007. Our problem is a location and a person to legally perform the ceremony. Any suggestions?

2007-01-20 05:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 05:23:41 · 15 answers · asked by pudda 1

2007-01-20 04:51:43 · 41 answers · asked by helen_knott 2

Any ideas for a different wedding, not too fancy, not too expensive, not too big, not the usual hotel idea?

2007-01-20 04:24:49 · 35 answers · asked by HelsBels 1

I have been friends with this person for 18 years and I want her Bridal gift to be special. Where can I find something that isn't too overly expensive, but unique...If there isn't a website..does anyone have any ideas for a gift?

2007-01-20 03:47:43 · 6 answers · asked by amd12201979 1

2007-01-20 03:25:37 · 27 answers · asked by logan m 1

2007-01-20 03:24:31 · 9 answers · asked by minnie moaner 1

It's a tradition that the bride and groom exchange gifts on their wedding day…
What should I give him on this special day…?

I welcome your suggestions.

2007-01-20 03:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by ✿Purple✿ 5

2007-01-20 03:19:00 · 14 answers · asked by kums p 1

I got engaged in june, my ring is so small, I find myself looking at other women's rings all the time, I want a bigger ring, I don't even care if its fake, the one my husband got me is real, but very small, I want a big one. how do I tell him without hurting his feelings?

2007-01-20 03:06:45 · 22 answers · asked by princess011181 1

if you in the Houston Area and know a place where i can take my dress for sell please let me know, its a maggie sotelo dress never used in perfect conditions and is size 4
please contact me

2007-01-20 02:06:41 · 18 answers · asked by JENNIFER H 1

ok. My fiance and i our planning on getting married in June. I have put down deposits on everything! ( most refundable) we are not having a major wedding just a intimate one. about (5,000). This is the catch, we i have children from a previous realtionship and got my tubes tied. He and I very much want a child together and we want to untie my tubes this year. We cant afford to do them both being though the procedure is 6,000. were paying for our wedding and everything alone. no help. what can we due to saisfy both of these needs. I have my dress almost every detail for a wedding. any creative ideas to still have a little wedding and baby. dont want to go with a barbecue or anything like that. or should i just have my wedding, then risk the chance of not having the money for baby? HELP!!!!

2007-01-20 01:54:33 · 21 answers · asked by Shampaine 2

Need answers quickly,coz we're leaving in 45 mins!

2007-01-20 01:10:09 · 35 answers · asked by LeviTosh 1

i got proposal from a doctor.
2 yrs back he didnt like me.then he said horoscopes didnt match
.now my father raised dowry and also i got additional degree.also he believes im from royal family.
im 28.even im tensed about age.
i talked to him on phone once.somehow i couldnt like him.i dont know whether im giving too much importance to looks but i didnt like his looks also.
i expressed it but he is ignoring my disinterest.im having panic attacks.
just few months back i got proposal from one dark-looking person.he found out that and feels il like dark persons.
im very shocked from some sad incident,i feel like taking some time to recover.but lot of pressure from family.on otherside i feel im becoming old.im very tensed.even his thoughts are giving me panic attacks.

2007-01-19 23:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by black-magic 1

2007-01-19 22:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be offended to be given an imitation gemstone engagement ring, such as cz, moissanite, or a synthetic gemstone, if money were not an issue?

2007-01-19 22:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by dalecantila 4

What was it like???

2007-01-19 21:32:14 · 10 answers · asked by cucumis_sativus 5

It should be something special ... isnt it

2007-01-19 21:09:14 · 21 answers · asked by ankit 1

2007-01-19 18:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by silly_girl_lis 2