my friend Meena loved a guy for abt 5 years already. He is from India and she is from S'pore. He is not close to his parents n is settle in S'pore for abt 10 yrs. Now for the sake of getting married to Meena, he asked permisson fr his parents, but they disapprove and he didnt care. Meena nvr told her father abt her boyfriend till recently abt 5-6 mths ago. Her father got very upset and stopped talking to her. He is also not allowing Meena to get married to him, becoz he is from India. Meen's father is afraid, the guy will bring her back to India. Which he will nvr do.
Now the guy got an offer to study and work for 2 years. And if he join this sponsership, he is not allowed to take any leave for his marriage. This sponsership requires 100% of his attendance for two years. So he wants to get marry to Meena by Mar 07. So he went to Meena house last week to talk abt the marriage. But the father told him, to wait, finish the studies then get married. He disapprove of getting married so fast.
The problem now is, meena is 26 and he is 30. IF they get married after two years, they will be very old. They want to get married now so that they can enjoy each other company while he studies and after two years give birth to a baby. But Meena's father dont understand this at all.
Meena's family and relatives all had spoken to him, but he is firm that the wedding shld be done after two yrs. What shld meena do? She is very upset. She was dreaming that, she will be freed from her father's strictness. (She is 26. but she got no freedom to go out or do whatever she likes).
So guys, can you suggest what meena shld do? she wants a wedding with her father blessing, so she wont leave the house n get married. Any good comments meena can follow?
2006-12-23
02:08:48
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5 answers
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asked by
Violet Calla
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