what if a girl had sex 6 times or more than that can she bleed after one year on her weeding night?
NOTE: I'm going to marry to a guy who takes it so important to see the blood on weeding night hope to get an answer for this question? thanks for reading this..
2006-12-22 16:15:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A woman only bleed once, that is on her first time having sex. Some women doesnt even bleed during their first time cos the hymen is either too thin or it is broken already by: sports like aerobics, ballet, etc.
Afterwards, you only bleed if there is a friction when you have sex (ex: not enough lubricant), or when you have period.
You should tell ur guy that its not important whether you bleed or not. Its a double standard for woman.
Whats important is love, if he loves you-that trivial thing should not be matter anymore
2006-12-22 16:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will not bleed on your wedding night, you have already had sex. That's it.
Also, most girls, even in childhood have already had their hymen torn/ruptured (riding bikes, horses, sport etc), so many do not bleed when they first have sex anyway. Some also have a very tough hymen and it doesn't rupture properly, so they don't bleed.
There are many reasons for no bleeding and he should know this. Educate the guy, he's a fool if he's waiting for some cherry bride, he's living in fantasty land.
If he wants a virgin, then he should find out with a girl being honest about her past sexual history. Why can't you be honest with him? This is not a good basis for a marriage.
2006-12-22 16:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. But there are some girls who don't bleed at all even on their first time. I didn't bleed my first time. Obviously it is very important to your fiancee that you be a virgin...and if you are worrying about bleeding on your wedding night & the possibility of you bleeding are slim to none, then I would consider telling him the truth.
Good Luck!
2006-12-23 04:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by can't wait! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone is different i think he is Arab Cu's they are big on that an also they hang the soiled sheets for all to see you were a good girl lol i bleed when i have sex well when i have sex an had 3 4 months in between ( it isnt like a river runnging just spoting type blood ) but that is just me an my body everyone is different but if its that big to him i say run for the hills an find someone that is going to love you an appreciate you as a whole flaws an all
2006-12-22 16:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already had sex a few times then it is unlikely that you will bleed on your wedding night. When someone looses their virginity they bleed because the hymen which is a thin piece of skin is broken. Chances are if you have already had sex a few times it's definately broken and unless you have your period you won't bleed.
2006-12-22 16:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by babeejazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that some girls who are virgins don't bleed. Bleeding is not a sign of virginity.
Frankly if you lied to you fiance about you prior lover, what kind of woman are you? Starting a marriage in lies. NOT good.
2006-12-22 16:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, but you should also realize that NOT ALL women bleed the first time either. I am one of those women who didn't even my first time. Just be honest with the guy - if he won;t marry over something like that, you shouldn't be marrying him anyway.
2006-12-23 12:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought. Maybe you shouldn't be marrying this guy if he doesn't know that you've been sexually active. You'd have to go to extreme lengths to provide fake blood to cover for your past misdeeds, so you'd better just tell him the truth.
2006-12-22 16:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important for him? Is it cultural? Ddi you have sex with him before you agreed to marriage? Are you marrying this person for the right reasons?
Some more information would be helpful.
2006-12-22 16:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Flab 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on when you had sex last but it is possible for you to grow your cherry back if you don't have sex for a good amount of time but you should start off by telling him the truth its not good to start something off with a lie it always backfires
2006-12-22 16:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Boo Boo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋