2006-12-23 03:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
join the club,they are all married or involved in realtionships with other men.
I guess you will just have to wait to get a "recycled " woman who is getting a divorce.
Maybe there is enough good in her to last through another relationship...Maybe being the key word.
Most available women I meet are waiting for the "rich" guy to pull up in his Mercedes or the proverbial "white horse" and whisk them away to their castle.
The reality of the situation is that most rich guys travel a lot and have girlfriends in many different cities,and women really don't care about all that,as long as they get what they want.
I have met 3 woman in that category,who keep waiting on the "rich" guy to change their minds by listening to their empty promises of getting "married".
Woman really don't know what they want,they have been fed too many fairy tale stories that there is something better out there and there usually isn't ,and when they try to patch up what they threw away,it is too late.
Once someone disses me or treats me like crap,there is no second chance with me,history.
What goes around comes around,and I guess it is all a matter of luck and just enjoy the good times when they are there,because the good times don't last very long nowadays.
2006-12-23 03:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
There will be quite a few people who don't like this answer, and it is not gender specific, but here are two screens:
1) If they are divorced you need to find out why. You could use this as a screen if you don't want to spend the time finding out why.
2) If they are not married by the time they are 25-26 there may be a reason. Again if you don't want to spend the time finding out why, you could use this as a screen.
Unfortunately you don't usually find out key information about an individual's personality, such as their combativeness, until you are potentially hooked, and then breaking it off can be painful.
Widows, or Widowers are definitely worth considering. They usually had a very good relationship with their spouse, still love them deeply, and will likely again be excellent partners for someone in the future, but it may take time. (I married a widow 21 years ago and it was the best decision I have ever made.)
2006-12-23 11:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Coach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no "screening" you can do, try different types of women. Also, try looking for things they all had in common and stay away from ones like that. Do you think maybe you rush into things because your lonely and dont take the time to get to know them first?
2006-12-23 14:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say, but all good women are married by the time they turn 25 years old, and they stay married. That's why it's important for a young man to find a good women when he's a young man, and not play the field like an idiot. Women are emotional and manipulative by nature, just take that into consideration when you have relationships.
2006-12-23 11:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by mac 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A good woman is a hard one to find. You can not know how they are until they show their true colours and unfortunately that can take a while. So many ask them a lot of questions about situations and see how she treats people and reacts to things...you know ask friends and if you would not bring her home to mom...before prepping her...she is not worth your time~~
2006-12-23 15:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good woman is hard to find, but they do exist. You will not find them in a bar, nor in clubs. It's that much more difficult to find on-line also. Just be patient and ask the higher power for wisdom.
2006-12-23 11:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a good look at what you are looking for in a woman. If you honestly think about it, you might find out you are finding yourself attracted to women with "crazy" tendencies. You might need to reevaluate what you are looking for, I feel for you man, been there done that.
2006-12-23 11:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by jetfighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should be able to start filtering on the first meeting, especially through conversation - to see if she is intelligent, has a sense of humour, likes her family, likes kids - and to see how she interacts with other people. For dates, don't go to movies often, for example, because then you can't talk...
2006-12-23 20:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give them a test. Like try making them mad, see what happens. If they flip out and go nuts then you know there loonie. And ask your friends oppinion on her, and tell him to be 100% honnest. Also does she have a website a blog or any thing like that. Take a look at and you can get a good idea of what a person is like that way.
2006-12-23 11:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by natedog8989 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Would love to figure that one out myself.
2006-12-23 11:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by logan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋