2006-12-23 00:47:20 · 30 answers · asked by Andy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not at a restuarant or anything like that. Something nice, Romantic, not casual.
2006-12-23 00:48:47 · update #1
Could always do it where you first met her,... kind of symbloic/romantic ,. you know?
2006-12-23 00:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you find a gazebo in a park or something like that & have it covered with candles of all different sizes (have some one help you like one of her friends or sister or cousin or something... they can be setting up the gazebo while the 2 of you are out at a beautiful romantic restaurant. She'll probably think something is up at the restaurant but when you don't propose she'll be a bit disapponted until you take her to the gazebo. See if who ever is helping you can make a trail of votive candles in votive holders from the parking lot to the gazebo so as soon as the two of you pull up all you'll see are these beautiful candles. It would be the ultimate of romance if you proposed in the snow...I wish my husband would have done something like that for me!
Or more simple could be on christmas eve or valentines something in cold weather when there is snow, go & buy a bunch of red votive holders & white votive candles. While she is in the house & has no idea that you are even there...set up the votive candles to make 2 big hearts & light all the candles. When you are all set up, ring the door bell & run back to your hearts & jump in the middle and wait for her to answer the door. When she see's you standing there she will probably start crying at the sight of something so simple & beautiful....just make sure that if she lives at home with her family that you tell them you have a surprise for her & to make her & only her open the front door.
Good Luck but anything you do she'll love because it came from you!
2006-12-23 02:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by can't wait! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Book a flight at night time (either just the two of you, or maybe another couple or two). Make sure you have her favourite wine/champaign/liquor etc, give the pilot a copy of her/yr/both most loved music/songs and play from onset. Give yr girlfriend enough time to really soak in and enjoy the scenery below… take her hand, affirm yr love for her, and kiss her hand… (Even get on yr knees if you think this will make it more memorable), and ask her for her to marry you/be yr wife! This can be relatively cheap, or very expensive, depends on the company and aircraft used, but either way it will be worth your while in years to come, the memories, photos experience will most certainly be worth yr while, after all you are her knight in shinning armour! (if you decide to take other people with you, make sure they are well organised with a good camera, film etc) Good luck, and a very Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 03:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are tons of great ideas for proposing at a restaurant such as having the waiter bring your ring out on a dessert platter to proposing during a romantic toast. If you and your girlfriend are more private people though, I'd skip the restaurant and have a more intimate proposal. There are tons of great proposal ideas at this site: http://www.romancestuck.com/romantic-wedding-proposal.htm
Some of the romantic restaurant proposals:
- Have the ring placed on the dessert tray as a dessert with the words 'will you marry me' written in chocolate on the dessert plate.
- Have your proposal written in the menu
- Make it more intimate with a toast to your future life together during dessert and then get down on one knee and ask for her hand in marriage
Best of luck to you!!
2006-12-23 02:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by RomanceStuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose in a way that involves your interest. Some examples of interest could be:
cooking-put it on top of her meal that you have made for her
outdoors-go hiking someplace scenic and do it (btw that is how I was proposed to and it was amazing)
pets-tie the ring to a pets collar
sightseeing-take her to a public place and do it there
the beach-place it in a seashell
the possibilities are endless. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-23 15:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by happygirlkriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I invited all of our family and Friends over for a cook out. They all knew what I was going to do, but she was left in the dark. It was very special for her because her grandmother, mother, sister, brothers, aunts, and uncle where all there. M wife is really big on family. I hope this might help. Good Luck.
2006-12-23 00:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by REV MCD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have some really beautiful natural setting near you? a lake, an ocean, a desert? I find that coming into a setting like that really helps that kind of effort, because it puts God's eyes on the proceedings.
2006-12-23 00:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a romantic picnic by the lake or something. Sunset is a very romantic time of day too. Good luck!
2006-12-23 08:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask permission from her parents. if her family approves then she should too.
taker her to a place she loves or a place where you first met or somewhere that means a lot to you two. put the ring in a necklace or bracelet box and don't get on your knee until she opens the box and sees that it's a ring, not a bracelet. or
share a box of cracker jacks with her and put the ring in it.
best wishes! and GOD BLESSâ¥
2006-12-23 06:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by SaraH ♥'s Jesus! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!
How do u know my girl. Hands off unless you want to have three some. Maybe than. I hope she doesn't say yes. I will just die. Give me a break. You know she wants you. Take her to the highest mountain to the deepest sea. Take her around the world in a basket and say I love thee. Do in in the barn or behind the barn. Do it on the stairs. Do it every where. Just do it. Don't forget to ask her father for permission first. Take her in the rose garden and say I love you. Will you marry me while on one knee. Parachute from a plane and if she says no ! Don't pull her rip cord. That will show her. Don't forget to pull yours.
2006-12-23 00:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compose a poem or song, then surprise her by having her friends and your friends hiding at a nice spot you will take her to (without her knowing your intentions), then declare your love to her or sing the song you made especially for her, followed by the classic kneeling down whilst you confess your love and desire to spend the rest of your love with her.
2006-12-23 00:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋