I am getting married June 14, 2008. My mother and father are divorced, but are both paying for most of the wedding, like porobably 75%, if not more. My question is, my fiance doesn't talk to his father at all who is divorced from his mother. He talks to his mother, but we're not thinking that she is going to contribute anything, or if she is able to. My mother, who I am not sure is being unfair, thinks that there is 20 months to save mony at least to help, if not to pay for the alcohol and rehersal dinner. Yes, I do have 3 people paying compared to his one that might help, but I dn't know what to do. My mom thinks that if they are paying for most of it then they get to invite more people and all that kind of thing. I am not marrying my fiance because his family has money, but I do think that it isn't fair for my parents to foot the bill for the whole thing. What do you htink I can do or should do so that this doesn't get out of control???
2006-09-22
01:36:36
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