i slapped him for it and i didnt go along wth the wedding but i sat with my mum at the bak and watched him kiss the bride-hi boss-
and me goodbye
Now he has called me bak and wants to meet up
what do i do?
2006-09-21 19:37:50 · 25 answers · asked by Selly-Silly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wow, that sounds horrible. do not see him. he is a total bastard. you deserve better.
2006-09-21 19:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by rahulio 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This makes no sense. You say on your wedding night, your husband had sex with his boss. Then you "sat with my mum at the bak and watched him kiss the bride" Who was the bride???
Do you mean that at one time you and he had planned to be married, broke up and then he married his boss, and you went to their wedding? If this is the case and if he is still married to her, you should tell him that you do not date or "meet up" with married men.
2006-09-22 02:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by moekittykitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't talk to him. A person would have to stoop very low to do something like that even on a wedding nite. You are better than that. There are many people in this world that will treat you better. Your wedding nite is a night to remember for your whole life. It is suppose to be beautiful. Now you will remember that night and it will be horrible..
2006-09-22 02:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did right getting rid of him. Don't make a mistake now. He won't change. He has already shown you he has no respect for you or marriage to you. You can only go up from here. Your life started to improve the moment you said goodbye.
Good luck and good riddance.
2006-09-22 06:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know u had trusted his love and he betrayed u and broke ur heart.i would find out what he had 2 say and then i would leave him where he was sitting.tell him u were the best woman that came into his life but u found out that u can find better.love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness and he lost his key when he cheated on u.u r an angel and ur soulmate will find u.
2006-09-22 03:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to drop dead. He's a serious self centered jerk who has proved that he doesn't respect you or anyone else that came to the wedding at all. Tell him that he screwed up the best thing that ever happened to him and that he'll have to live with it the rest of his life and that you're doing better than ever without him (even if its not true) count your blessings that you didn't end up married to this louse
2006-09-22 02:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your decision not to go through with the wedding was the right one, and you should follow through with that by not taking him back. Ever.
Seriously, find someone who won't cheat on you ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT. Odds are pretty good you will find someone like that.
2006-09-22 02:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by The Ry-Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't make sense. On your wedding night...and then you say that he kissed the bride to be?
2006-09-22 02:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by missmoon_1953 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid I dont understand???
But If your husband had sex with another on your wedding night,
its best not to have anything to do with him EVER
You DESERVE better, someone who will respect you & treat you how you should be treated.Don't give him another chance!!!
2006-09-22 03:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible! don't give the jerk any attention ! ignore him and find a new man. He couldn't have loved you if he slept with someone on your wedding night
2006-09-22 05:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't go near him.
You spraypaint SLUTGUTTEDWHORE (sorry, I deleted the bad word. Apologies if I offended anyone) on his boss's car
You give me his name and address and I'll take to him with a stick.
2006-09-22 08:54:15 · answer #11 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋