I told him that his still having sex with this girl,and you know what he said acord something real dumb. He say wow! what $14.00 go pair to $700.00 that put your finger I told him that not the point your engage to me.So you werw wrong to do that.
2006-09-22 00:35:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
GIVE THE RING BACK!!!, he's a jerk if he is doing this now and he speaks to you in such manner... he isn't worth the sunshine that goes down on him..... I had an uncle like him and he still lives and i don't know why .....because he did the same thing and treated my aunt like crap...for all their living days..and now she has old timers disease.. and he is blind..meaner than ever...nope you should be happy .....not having to worry about stuff like that and if it makes uncomfortable now it wll always make you feel that way.. GO with you gut instinct its never wrong... Good Luck!
2006-09-22 00:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him what the occasion was, maybe it was her birthday or something. Do they see each other real often, are they still good friends. Is the problem really about him maybe having sex with her or is it about him still seeing her. Is this the first time you noticed him spending on her or is this just becoming to much for you to bare. Whats up with your English though?
2006-09-22 07:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH??? He's still having s*x with this girl too? That's your problem if you're putting up with it. If he's sleepling with her, you don't need him. No woman deserves to put up with a man who's "tomcatting" around on her. However, if the shoes are the only issue, either grow up or get out. If you really let petty jealousies get in the way, you're not mature enough to get married. Sorry!!
2006-09-22 07:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get your details but if you are egaged to the guy tell the whore to go find someone else and tell him to stop or leave, though there is always a chance he will choose her side...my ex did it for me alot with his gfs
700 for a engagement ring LOL, I know guys that bearly had a penny to their name that spent more, 6 or 7,000 is alot not 700
2006-09-22 07:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need a spelling check. when your engage man are always going to use the line put a ring on you finger. just because its on there don't mean he love he could have did it just to make you happy .dint take that and if you do your stupid cause you should know the games guys play
2006-09-22 07:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to get your $700.00 ring and what pride you have left and get out of there NOW! This man is a manipulator and will always do this to you. You have to stand up for yourself! if you dont then no one will! good luck to you.
2006-09-22 08:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shana H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound crazy but the idea of giving someone a pair shoes represents the fact that your want them to walk out of your life.
So it's only $14 for him to to get her out of his life. What a bargain.
For anyone who wants to comment about how they have bought shoes for people and it was not thier intention to have them out of thier lives....not everyone gives shoes for those reasons. Its for the people who do!
2006-09-22 08:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by jazz_thieves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the man a bit of slack ...what were the circumstances of his buying her the pair of shoes ? was she by chance looking for work ?
did her shoe happen to break and she saw him across the road ?
Don't jump to conclusions you may just goof up the relationship you have before it even starts ..
2006-09-22 07:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am guessing that he told you he spent $14 on her shoes and $700 on your ring. He's cheap!!!! I wouldn't accept a $700 ring. He thinks he's a hero because he spent $700 on your ring??? I don't know who is crazier - him or you. Dump the idiot and trade in your ring for a pair of Gucci's.
2006-09-22 07:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one....he's a cheapskate !! Fourteen dollars for a pair of shoes! No, you are right....he shouldn't be doing that. Why don't you go buy your exboyfriend something inexpensive and see how he likes it! Even up the score! And if he is having sex with her, you need to leave him.
2006-09-22 07:40:38 · answer #10 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋