My fiancee and I are having huge problems and have been split for a couple of months, but we still live in the same house. It all started when he proposed in December and I was so happy to accept. As long as we were engaged, I was fine, but my mom and his mom and everyone kept asking when and where we were gonna get married and my mom wanted to start planning everything and I just freaked and started reconsidering. He quit his job as a new accts manager at a bank last July to persue his creative inclinations but then did nothing for the whole year, just spent all his savings, RRSP's, racked up credit card debt, borrowed $2000.00 from me (and I'm a university student who works part-time), hasn't paid it back. Is now looking for work (after huge arguments with me) but finding poor paying jobs. I've been really annoyed with that situation and it's bled into everything, I don't have fun with him anymore, we just argue. Our sex life hasn't been good for mths and I feel more like his friend
2006-09-23
03:05:22
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