I am engaged to a wonderful man, i love him very much. I was so happy when he proposed his mother wants to help pay and of course plan our wedding and honeymoon. because she has never did for her son before, my fiance wants to make her happy. we plan on buying a house, his mother is helping him choose it, not me. since they have good taste and only because of my fiance can we afford a home. i will be helping pay for it, but he is putting up the downpayment. because of this i feel i have no desicion making power, he does not understand my feelings, he also informed me we would make his mother so happy if she could decorate this house for us also, having great taste. I wonder what my part is in this marriage, i am not yet seeing the benefit of marriage over living together as we are now. I feel my opinion is not valued or wanted, let me say this what few times i met his mother she is very nice to me, and does have good taste, etc, so this is not a dis to her. any thoughts?
2006-08-02
15:06:25
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Kentuckymist
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