I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now... we get along great, and he says we are a good fit.However, when I mention living together (which would obviously involve eventual engagement, since I am 'the marrying kind of girl'), he dodges the subject or says I'm 'scaring' him' or making him nervous. When I ask if he is making plans for us, he says 'nothing is finalized yet'... however, we are both 34. I want marriage, babies, stability. I understand someone who has never even lived with a girl wanting to take their time, and 'be sure' they are with someone who isn't going to screw them over. however, don't you think at one year, a man should at the very least be able to tell you either YES, we are headed toward marriage; I just need a LITTLE more time to feel this out or NO, I can't see this evolving into marriage, though I am enjoying dating you (of course, he knows the second one would send me running!) Still, I know he is NOT using me for sex (believe me!!)...so what gives?
2006-08-01
07:38:35
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Brandywine
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