HEY DUDE,
YOU BETTER CHECK UR SENSE ,HOW CAN U SAY THAT SHE IS VIRGINNNNNNNNNN.....
JUST ASCEPTING HER COMMENTS IS NOT SUFFICIENT FOR MARRIAGE LIFE..
BEFORE KNOWING ANYTHING DON'T ACT LIKE KIDS,
& FOR YOUR KIND INFORMATION U WILL KNOW ON WEDDING DAY THAT SHE IS VIRGIN OR NOT .
2006-08-02 22:20:59
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answered by Anonymous
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I hope you do not want to cause her pain. If you don't, then don't insist on going all the way the first night. Take some time to get acquainted with each other's bodies, carefully and slowly stretch her out (with fingers, for example) until something the size of your organ can fit in there comfortably and without pain or bleeding. It could take several days or even weeks before you reach that point together.
I think there is a reason that that membrane (hymen) is often there and that something has to be done. It shows that sex is not a toy, that you have to think about consequences before you do it. You should get married only if you are able to really put each other first and take 100% responsibility for your decisions and your life together, and make a really permanent commitment to each other (as in, breaking up - divorce - is not an option).
The respectful thing to do is take things slowly enough for them to be comfortable and not injure her body. If you insist on breaking her, instead of stretching her out, that will mean you are treating her like a piece of property. Which is wrong, because she is God's property, not yours. She is His gift to you. Treat Him with respect as well as her.
2006-08-02 22:26:45
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answered by songkaila 4
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The first time you have intercourse with her you should be very patient and considerate, it will be a new experience for her and she might be worried and a bit afraid of the experience, don't expect her to enjoy it from the first time, be gentle and take your time while penetrating her, if she hesitates and asks you to stop a few times don't get angry just comfort her with a lot of love and foreplay, remember it is something new to her and she might be afraid of feeling pain, she might hurt and she might bleed a little, and after she gives you her virginity show her a lot of love, and in the next few days she might feel a little discomfort down there so just take it easy on her, as the days go by she will be more confident and she will enjoy it better and so will you. Good luck,
2006-08-02 21:22:10
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answered by rabb b 3
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Ok it depends on ur dick size if u got a big thangy thang then of course she is expected to scream and tell u 2 stop r if ur thangy thang is average then she might scream and tell u 2 stop but then again it might feel a little strange 2 her but ur gonna have to take it slow of course and make sure she is relaxed u know play wit her a lil bit get her aroused and then do watchu do r if u small then she won't feel a thing and will look at u like u crazy r something of that nature
2006-08-02 21:22:02
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answered by yopoopy 2
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she will and probably cry and bleed but she should go to a gynecologist and she might have some ideas that will help also make her drink cranberry juice for 24 hrs before and 3 days after so she doesn't get a bladder infection that is very bad for your honeymoon.
2006-08-03 08:37:08
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answered by ashley 2
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That's a question only she can answer. Differs from women to women. i didn't scream. Some people take it quite bravely. But don't go cathing up what you've lost in one night.
Be romantic and passionate and i assure you she will take it a lot easier (and quieter).
2006-08-02 21:19:26
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answered by natasha 2
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Not if you take your time and arouse her properly, using foreplay. The essence to a girl losing her virginity, is to take as long as it needs. Don't go diving in there and expect everything to be OK. Listen to what she wants and she will listen to you.
2006-08-02 21:17:03
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answered by Susan W 2
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If I were your girlfriend and I found out you were asking such personal and intimate questions of strangers, not only would you not be getting any on the wedding night, but the wedding would be off.
2006-08-02 21:17:31
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answered by Tia 3
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Well Obviously she willl scream!!!!1
2006-08-02 21:17:09
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answered by Babe 2
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it all depends if shes into moaning then yea bt if ur talking about the pain wen ull first do it maybe.... it will show on her face bt if it hurts to much then she might just scream bt not moan ....
2006-08-02 21:19:37
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answered by jenn 3
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uhh yeah most likely if its her first time. she's prolly not gonna wake the neighbors by it hurting so bad but it will be painful for her so go slow and take your time. dont go fast cuz it will be worse for her.
2006-08-02 21:17:20
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answered by SiccMade 2
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