2006-08-02 21:21:27 · 34 answers · asked by milandaworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I have so many answers to that stupid question, I'll be nice and only give you a couple. first of all don't you have enough respect for other women or yourself to be having an affair with someone that is married. You are causing pain and heartache on others because of what reason? What makes you think this won't happen to you next. Have a little self respect if not for yourself for us other women out there that wouldn't do it with your husband because it's just WRONG!
2006-08-02 21:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by sher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be married to a man that has such little regard for his wife? What is to stop this man from marrying wife number 3 after he marries you? I'm sure you already know this is a bad idea and I would suggest you leave this man alone and find yourself a single guy. Nothing good could come from being with someone Else's problem...I would have said husband ,but he is definitely a problem.
2006-08-02 21:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you should tell him where to go , how to do it and leave him with no doubts at to how he should get there, by the way - ask him if its ok if you can have a second husband to be your concubine when hes servicing his other mrs and tell him you'd like to compare the 2 of them and telll him who was best - as he will do to you. Dump him. wHY DOES A MAN NEED A SECOND WIFE - is it so he can can sex with her while youre on your period???????????? You must be good at something she isnt - is that all you want, plus your status will be nil, get yourself a western bloke from your own caste
2006-08-06 02:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mercy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. is he rich? Haha just a Q to ask urself. Would you be happy that u would not be able to announce/introduce him as ur lawful husband during gatherings, parties and other events? Can you withstand all the criticisms and nasty names on you? Can you imagine that your kid (with this married man) would be able to call him dad.. and the kid will be a laughing stock in school. This will leave a bad scar in the kid's childhood
2006-08-02 21:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by babelicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing is I assume having a second wife is legal in your country or it wouldn't be an issue, but the main thing is could you handle being a second wife? Have you met the first wife? What is your opinion of her? I think it's always better to be the first and only wife, but you need to make that decision for yourself.
2006-08-02 21:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away now. You don't deserved to be just a second wife. There is always a right guy at a right time and place.
2006-08-02 21:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by amber200271 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away for two reasons: (1) he's already married and you'll be ruining 1st wife's life and (2) you don't love him, it's just an affair from what i can gather from your questions. Hope this helps!
2006-08-02 21:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by khurram.faheem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must in fact feel guilty that you are having an affair with a married man, are you unfit to find a nice healthy gentleman? that man is shameless but you are not. how dare you accept you walk away with dignity, that will keep your chastity.
2006-08-02 21:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.
All married guys make all sorts of false promises to their other women to string them along. We pretend there is some 'light at the end of the tunnel'. But there is not. Wise up.
2006-08-02 23:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are u sure that he wudnt walk away as he is walking away from his first wife n marrying u ? So i think u can get someone better for sure
walk away...
2006-08-02 21:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by darkangel09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋