now he just purposed me and i talked to my mum and sister.
both of them are agree
and rest of the family also agrees
i like him but not MUCH for marry
he is a very good buddy
he is handsome good looking and sober
and he cares for me so much.
he never touched me with wrong intentions never speak any dirty word in front of me
now i m so confused
cause i m not getting idea weather i should marry him or not
plz give me suggestion
2006-08-02 20:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Follow your heart.
2006-08-02 20:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some mixed feelings about this situation...so I'll give you both sides of what I think and hope either way that it can help you.
First...I think it is good that you and this guy are friends...it may work out for you...you can get engaged and make it a LONG engagement and take the time to get to know with each other if it will work...friends is a good place to start for any relationship. Second, on the other hand, I think you should not accept his proposal based on the limited amount of time you have both known each other and of your relation thus far...but he must love you...too bad his proposal is the first you have been known to this!!!! Tell him you need time and go with the getting to know each other better and see if it works out....either way...follow your heart and if he seems like he can be the one get to know each other better and develop and better relationship before you make the decision to actually get married. Also don't worry about what any one else says about your final choice...it is your life...choose wisely. Good luck.
2006-08-07 15:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by toe_roper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard when tradition meets modern times. I assume your family is used to arranged marriaged.
I know quite a few people who are in arranged marriages and are very happy, but i am sure there is a lot of miserable ones. i suggest you disscuss it with your family. Ultimately you have to make the decision.
2006-08-08 23:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the heck are you from? The land of marry who ever asks you? This makes no sense that you would contimplate marrying someone who you you don't even like. That makes absoultly no sense at all.
2006-08-03 07:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no you dont marry him,so if i asked you to marry me are you obligated ,hell no find yourself some true love and marry them,or tell your mum or sister to jump on it and they can have him ,unless you think thats the best you can do
2006-08-10 00:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by spinininthemud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋