I've been friends with my best friend for 17 years, and she is getting married on Saturday. She approached me to be in her wedding, which I said yes to. She said that when I got back from vacation, we would go pick out bridesmaid dresses. When I got back, I made several failed attempts to contact her, and because of it, she picked out the dresses, which were in the $200 range. She knows that I couldn't afford it, raising a child and going to school. I talked to her about it, and she just brushed me off like it was nothing, and made one of my friends a bridesmaid. I had asked her to be a witness at my wedding 4 years prior, and she never showed up. Then, to top it off, she came by my house tonight to rub it in my face about the dresses (she brought one over). What should I do? Should I go to the wedding, or should I talk to her about the very hurt feelings? I went to her bridal shower and bachelorette parties, and I felt so out of place it was embarrassing. What should I do?
2006-07-18
21:13:26
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