my Hubby is telling me taht there is no chance that his mother will ok me to marry him. so wat to do?

Answer 1

if you are not married, how can he be your hubby?

Answer 2

Well, the question is, if he is your hubby then you are already married and he's afraid to tell his mother.
If he's only your boyfriend and he has to ask his Mommy for permission to get married why are you still with him. If you marry him he will be spending more time with Mommy than you anyway.
Either way he's a Primo loser. If he's your husband than it's too late, you're stuck with a Momma's Boy. If he isn't your husband, Run Like The Wind away from him as fast and as far as you can.
(I'm assuming that you are American. If you are from a culture, like India, where the parents are deeply involved in the marriage process then that is a whole different scenario. If you are married and he's afraid he can't get his parent's approval than this is a serious problem. If you're not married follow my previous advice for the American woman. Get rid of him fast!)

Answer 3

I'm confused as to whether or not you are already married to this person.

If you are already married, then you don't need her permission. You've already done it. What you need now is damage control. Your husband needs to sit down with her and tell her how important she is to him and that he loves her, but he's not willing to lose his marriage just because she feels like she doesn't like you. He shoud find out what specifically her objections are to you, because maybe she's misunderstanding your relationship.

If you are not already married, well...as long as you are both adults you still don't need her permission. But maybe it's something that can be worked through. It seemed up through my wedding that my in-laws never approved of me - but here we are a year later and they invited my husband and I to go on vacation with them. Things have really changed as they've gotten to know me and gotten to understand how happy I make their son. In time I hope his mom will see how happy you make him and understand why it is that you're getting married. Good luck!

Answer 4

i know the old say is that mother is always right,
NOT!!!!!
IN THIS CASE MOTHER NEEDS TO STAY OUT IF THINGS AND LET YOU TWO REALLY TALK ABOUT THING AND FIND A WAY TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES,RIGHT? DO YOU WANT MOTHER TO STAND IN THE WAY OF YOUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER,I KNOW YOUR ANSWER TO THIS IS no.
then don't let MOTHER stop you from love.
because love will never die.

Answer 5

Hmm thats a toughie...he probably does love you, but its hard when a persons rents dont like their future wife to be...does she have logical reasons or is she just being silly, have you tried discussing this with her? If not Id suggest so, if her reasoning is silly marry him if you love him...

Answer 6

If he cares that much what his mother thinks...ditch him now! I married a momma's boy and it was the worst mistake of my life!