Singles & Dating - 27 November 2007

should`nt of. in a txt now it`s been 2-3 days and i don`t know what to say or do next feel like asking what she means feel like getting to point feel like getting a bit funny (which i don`t want to do) or keep it as light hearted and friendly as possible my choice what would you do next please any help ?

2007-11-27 12:43:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need help to stop lying. I do it to just about anyone. I tell people what I think they want to hear so they will continue to like me. What do I do? I feel bad about it, but I feel like I can't stop. I do it on impulse now, and its like I've dug a hole. Help?

2007-11-27 12:41:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 12:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by sharon b 1

my cusin, whos like my bff, is pretty, blonde and skinny. shes got plenty of guys chasing after her. theres a supposedly popular guy at school, who always tells me stuff like "i like ur bracelet," and cheers me on when i say somethin funny. i can totally tell my cusin likes him, believe me... she does. and she sees he doesnt even talk to her lol, just to me. i did something not so nice the other day, "the guy" asked me if my cusin liked him, and i was like ...yeah, she loves u. do u think this is like betraying her?? she never told me she liked him or that it was a secret or anything, and i know i told the truth. but i know she wouldnt like to know i told him that... do u think i was mean?? just wondering

2007-11-27 12:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 12:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out last week that my to-be-wife has a bridesmaid that wanted me to know she liked me...............this is crazy because i am getting married next month...........and though she is hot i dont like her like that............she is needy and clingy and annoying as hell...............do i tell my girl? or do i just act like nothing happened and not act on it at all?

2007-11-27 12:35:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 12:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know money isn't everything but it counts for something evidently. I have been dating this 24 year old guy. He's really nice but he needs a form of income. He still lives with his parents and he borrows money from his friend to do simple stuff like go to the movies. He ask me to go to lunch but we always pay seperately. He use to tell me he was looking for a job but lately I haven't even gotten that excuse. There are things I want to do that I know are out of the question. I just think at 24 you need to do for yourself. I am 22 and working. I have always had a job because there was no way I could live with my mom without a job. How do I tell this man to get a job. How long should I wait until I give up on this relationship. Its been 4 months already.

2007-11-27 12:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3

Oh no... my boyfriend did cheat on me. I mean, yes I felt that he did... and he did. Remember when I was so proud of him being faithful 2 me? Well, I was going to write something to him on his myspace when i thought that his profile was mine... anyway it was an accident that i read his mssgs. This was what I found in his box:
"[his name] i am just going to tell you one thing and then i think i need to stay away from you for a while. if you ever remember what we talked about last night i meant what i said. But i take it all back seeing as you don remember . In the future please don't say or do that to me again unless you mean it next time okay. I guess i talk to you in a few months so that way i can forget about all that went on last night.

p.S. i guess i really will never know

I..........can't really say anything else"

WHAT IS THIS SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!

2007-11-27 12:28:53 · 17 answers · asked by tinybubbles 5

Me and my boyfriend broke up about four weeks ago,
& I've been trying to move on.
he was the second hottest sophomore at our school.
and i missss him =[

Soo there's this other guy...
who everyone calls the "sexiii mexi."
cause he's like 1/4 spanish
&& he's soooo hott =]
oh and he's a freshman like me.

but anywayyys...
the sexi mexi has beeen texting me
for like the past four days...

is he hinting me?
or anything?
how should i flirt with him through text?!




ahhhh

[any advice would be amazingggg]
thanks much♥

and he's been

2007-11-27 12:26:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m a college student and I live in a townhouse style apartment. I have 4 other roommates. So any way this one roommate of mine has this boyfriend, he is kind of older, we are both 20 and he is like 27. So anyway he always gets trashed on Thursday nights, usually, I don’t know why Thursdays, and then comes over and gets in bed with my roommate, I think he might have a key. So anyway the bar he goes to is pretty close, he comes over and can barley get down the hall to her room. This has gone on for months.

So anyway one Thursday night my roommate was at her parent’s house. I had been drinking, not a whole lot, and I started to think, her boyfriend is kind of cute, he is self employed and has a lot of free time it seems. So anyways as I had a few drinks with my roommates and I wondered if he would even notice if I was asleep in her bed when he stumbled in. I thought it would be funny.

2007-11-27 12:25:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 2 years now is a great guy, when he isn't going wacko, he wont take meds from one excuse to another, he has high and low days and i have finely come to the point to avoid them. he stays with me all the time but wont work to help around here. he has fits like a child, he b*tch's like a woman. i feel traped on being with him but i love him so much to let him go. we fight nonstop, day in day out. he smokes pot alot but heck that clams him down so i dont mind it. i have 2 daughters from a past marriage just seems i cant do nothing right for him. he finds some mean words all the time. how can i change this? what can i do to make this work with out wanting to always dump him. i do that alot. i love him thats all that matters. so any info please.i am 27 he is 28

2007-11-27 12:21:49 · 4 answers · asked by scrumptious_lora 2

Ok. There's this guy in one of my classes. And he goes to my church too. He sits somewhere in church so I can sometimes see him. Anyway, he's such a pervert. But i think he would be an okay friend as long as he wasn't so perverted and he can be a jerk sometimes but if u slap him, he'll stop. anyway, he always mentions this girl and remarks on how she's so hot and everything. But at the same time, he kinda flirts with me. i don't think i like him since he's too perverted but i was just wondering... he is a jerk to everyone but her has never ever said anything mean to me. im a shy goody goody so he never says anything sexual about me which is a good thing, i guess...
he always teases me in a nice way and sometimes i catch him looking at me in church and his friend always keeps on asking me if I like him. And once he said something about seeing me in church and i was like "so." I mean of coarse he sees me in church every time. and his friend was sitting next to us and he's like,

2007-11-27 12:13:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. But he still contacts be alot. Recenlty he's been sending me text messages and I respond but with short responses. I really want him back. Last time I saw him he said he still loved me a lot, but want's to be single right now and hang with his friends. Which was weird cuz while together he was the one that was taking things fast. Anyways, He knows I still love him and want him back...but will the no cantact at all bring him back faster? I'm 24 and he's 22...so I guess thats why he's still immature and doesn't know what he wants.

2007-11-27 12:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by Helen 1

We usually spend alot of time together. I spend the night over his house and he calls me often. But for the last 3 days it's been different. His cell has been broken for the last 2 weeks but he still found ways to call (since he doesnt have a home phone) but these last 3 days he has only called me 3 times. He used to just pop over my house if he didn't have a phone to use but he hasn't even done that. The last I've talked to him he seems distant and like it hasn't even bothered him that we haven't seen each other. Today I didn't talk to him til 5pm and when he called he was just asking me for my phone charger. It didn't even seem like he called just to talk to me or see whats up. I don't understand how he's doing a complete 180 on me. He hasn't tried to see me and he told me he was picking up his charger1 1/2 ago and still no call no show. I feel like he is pulling away & I don't know why. I dont understand how it is so easy for him to not call or see me when it's drivin me nuts

2007-11-27 12:01:49 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3

My wife of 11 years died a while back aged only 35. We were very much in love & very highly sexed & whilst I now feel ready (gagging) for a physical relationship I'm not ready for an emotional one or the pretence that the sex may lead to one. Do I spend cash that I can't really afford (would rather spend it on the kids) & go to an 'escort', or is there some sort of club/meeting place for people in similar position, with similar desires?

2007-11-27 12:00:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've liked this one girl for a while, and have started talking to her a little bit. How can I hint that I like her, and see how she responds if she likes me without being to much in her face about it?

2007-11-27 11:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 15 years old and have only had 1 Gf in my whole life. Im not at all a bad person and I know I don't look to bad because I know more than a few girls like me. I however only like one girl, and I don't know if I'll ever go out with her. My school is pretty big with 1000 people( its a Jr High School 2 years) so that means about 500 girls. I hardly ever get in relationships because I don't think I've found the perfect girl yet. Am I being too strict in what I;m looking for? Should I go out with the girl thats the most like me, or wait, Does not going out with somebody say until mayby even college hurt me and does having relationships( or not) really benefit me in the future?

2007-11-27 11:50:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well....I sorta have the biggest crush on a junior at my school. i am a freshmen. He is really hott and he gets really good grades and so many people tell me he's such a sweet and nice guy! He doesn't get into drugs and he seems like a good guy. Whenever I am around him i can't stop blushing and whenever i see him he makes me happy. i can't stop thinking or talking about him. but i barely know him and i have not said one word to him but i really want to get to know him. but i found out today that he is going out with some girl from a diff. town i don't kno why it is bothering me so much that he has a GF when i barely know him....what is up with that?? Do I still like him??? Plz give me some advice.....i really need it!!!! and at lunch i sit across the aisle from him and he always glances at me and makes eye contact with me like 5 times....why does he do that if he has a gf...what does that mean???

2007-11-27 11:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is honestly what I wonder. So please, PLEASE don't say anything rude about my question, okay? I am 18 years old and have NEVER had a boyfriend, mainly because I am very shy. I don't feel like I'm interesting enough to have one, either. Anyway, do boyfriends ever get sick of their girlfriends, I mean, do they start to think that they aren't pretty enough, after all, after seeing them every day? Do they start to get sick of their personality? Honestly, I think about this all the time and it keeps me from considering a relationship because I'm always hung up by this thought. What do you have to say to this?

2007-11-27 11:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok theres this girl i like and i can tell she likes me and so her and i talk we text eachother so she was going through a hard time with her boyfriend and i was there for her and so she appreciated that but i asked her how her bf is doing and she said idk the last thing she said was he wanted a break all of a sudden
but i want to tell her how i feel about her how do i do it
or should i wait
please help me

2007-11-27 11:41:09 · 40 answers · asked by brandon f 1

There is this girl i am interested in asking out and i was talking to her today and she said that she was talking with her "guy friend" about moving into an apartment with another girl and another guy. Does that sound like she has a boy friend or just a friend who is a guy?

2007-11-27 11:38:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

so what the heck do you all think about that yahoo rock-n-roll? Man are they rockin' tonight,yeah!!!

2007-11-27 11:37:40 · 1 answers · asked by nanna 5

So I'm in eighth grade and lots of my friends talk about like kissing and making out at the movies and stuff. I have a girlfriend and we've been going out for like a month. She's basically ready to like take our relationship to a new level. Anyways, we're going to the movies on friday... and she's already like kissed me on the cheek and stuff, so when we go and we kiss, which I am assuming will be on the lips, because neither of us are very prude, should i use my tongue?

2007-11-27 11:37:02 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

in p.e we were playing baseball and he was behind me in line to bat and i asked him if he wanted to go in front of me and he just looked straight ahead, but not my way like he was zoneing out, he was doing that before i asked him too. and just said a quiet no or something, idk what he said exactly but then moved in front of me anyways. idk what was up with that. i added him as a friend on bebo (like myspace) and he asked me who i was, even though our school has only like 240 people and hes in my p.e class with only 6 girls including me. we he just sidetracked or just doesnt like me as a person already? help me! and i HAD to interveiw him for an article for the school newspaper and he seemed pretty friendly then. he was just staring at something. you know? like looking off into nowhere and i dont think he was listening anyways. so... and im the next grade up from him.

2007-11-27 11:34:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy flurt....and he used to sit next to me and they changed him because we talk alot..should i tell him

u dnt talk anymore?
i dont c you?
or something else?
my friends think i should because it seems like he likes me and he asked me out to the movies

2007-11-27 11:28:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my boyfriend and I were kissing very passionately. He was lying on top of me, and we were both fully clothed. However, the deeper into the kissing we got, I noticed he began to sort of get fidgety. He starts lightly thrusting his hips into mine. I take this as a signal that I need to up the pace a little, so i sort of adjust my position for a better angle, however every time I adjust my position he breathes in really deep and grinds into me... He seemed like he was having a good time... am I not performing well enough?

2007-11-27 11:27:09 · 51 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1

I just introduced myself to a girl I like today and I was wondering when is the best time to ask for her number, email, aim, facebook, or whatever. I don't wanna ask at the wrong time. I wanna get closer to her by being friends and talking to each other first. If I just met her and ask for it, it would seem like my intentions are for something else other than friendship...I think it would be creepy if so.

So am I over thinking? Whens the best time to get her contact?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-27 11:24:01 · 4 answers · asked by Closed 5

and he lloves and all i like him but i dont think i can go so far like that cause im still young and then he said if youre not going to give it up then i can get it from another girl
then again on tha phone he said that any time he brings up sex its just that hes playing but i think not. So what do u think

2007-11-27 11:23:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or do you like to be?

I know some women have and enjoy it.

I have never been groped, and doesn't fancy that either...

2007-11-27 11:22:35 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetness_and_Light 3