Singles & Dating - 27 November 2007

k so here's the thing... I'm a 2nd year in a boarding skool... and iv gt a thing fr this girl in the year below me.. There have been several occassions were i caught her eye and she looked away or both of us traded glances for a second or 2...( i can't figure out whether that means anyting) haven't really spoken.. i never really get the chance to.. considering she's in a different house and we dont share the same lessons & she's always surrounded by her friends when i do bump into her....

but anyways.. im going crazy! literally.. i just cant get her outta my head.. and i can't seem to understand what to do! she's really pretty maybe not as hot as some others.. but theres just something about her!

Pleaase help me!!!! what do i do?

2007-11-27 19:59:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean where I'm from.If you tell a guy how you feel,you're desperate.They say you should wait for the guy to come and talk to you and tell you how HE feels.
What if he's too shy to do that?

2007-11-27 19:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by Straight Up! 1

I recently started a relationship with this guy who really likes me, but I always go back and forth in my mind whether I truly like him or not, and whether I should be with him. I would like to keep the relationship going just to see where it goes, but on the other hand I don't know if I can be with him if I don't truly like him. I would really rather just be friends, but I don't think it'd work out since we have already passed the friendship part and I don't think we could return to that b/c it'd be too awkward. Please help I'm going crazy thinking about this all the time!

2007-11-27 19:49:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok now , my elder brother got a store and i help him out there.... a guy who usually come to the store , he jokes around ,friend of my brother , and i really like him ......he told me everyday , that i m beautiful and pretty .........and couple of times he ask for my fone number , but my brother always there ,and when i didnt respond he just make it a joke .....everytime he told me that " U MAKE MY DAY WHENEVER I COME TO THE STORE"......now

WHAT THIS ALL MEANS????
WHAT DO U THINK SHOULD I GIVE HIM MY NUMBER AND IF YES THEN HOWWWW ???? I really like him but i m not sure if he likes me too or just kidding...plus he is my brother's friend so i dont wanna make fun of myself...may be he dont like me and i m just thinking it this way............. I dont know , please help ...THANX

2007-11-27 19:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 19:32:35 · 16 answers · asked by Raj 1

hes asked me to decide and let him know tonight....on the first and second dates we went for a meal then a couple of drinks. any ideas??

2007-11-27 19:25:39 · 4 answers · asked by Invincible! 3

i wanna xpress my feeling to my boyfriend without saying i love you. cuz i do that all the time.. i want sumthing different, sumthing not stupid. just nice n loving. any suggestions on websites will b great as well.

2007-11-27 19:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend feels a little sad. he doesnt really know why. i wanna help him out.what can i do?

2007-11-27 19:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship for the past two years; we live together. I'm 23, he's 25. Same old story, sex has dwindled off to the point that it's less than once a month these days... and it's both of our faults. Now that the relationship has gone stale, I'm contemplating future choices. What do you think - - is it best to wait until marriage? Or at least until engagement? Interested to hear both males' and females' responses. Thanks in advance... :-)

2007-11-27 19:01:02 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah 4

I went out with this guy in high school for nearly 3 years. I broke up with him for various reasons but it really was kind of an unclear break up since i was going through some changes and i really felt like it was just time to end that "good thing",as they may say. Anyways, after the break up we tried to be friends but i had this other boyfriend that made things complicated. And to make it worst, i got pregnant with the other boyfriend and had a kis but now we arn't together....to make a long story short there. so now its been over 2 years since i've talked or even herd from the first boyfriend and he finds me on myspace.com a few days ago and sends just a friendly "hi, how are you?" kind of message. should i start up a friendship again or will it just be akward? i sent a short and sweet message back but i'm kind of confused. I really broke hi heart and i felt guilty about it for a long time. how should i handle this?...........p.s. this guy was my first everything.

2007-11-27 18:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by Y Y 1

i understand that people can be shallow cause they can't help it. but my friends are kind of pretty but it seems like all these guys are crushing on them and not me. i don't really get it because there have been guys that tell me i'm cute/ pretty but they aren't the guys i want to like me.

2007-11-27 18:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by krissy 2

ok this is really sad, but I'm just starting to obssess over guys and I'm...umm over 18 years old (yeah late bloomer). in middle/high school I was always calm, focused on school work. but I've been obsessing over a bunch of different crushes these past few months. i can't help it, I'm always thinking about a guy and it's driving me nuts cuz it's so unlike me. I feel like I need to focus on a guy in my life and it's so stupid. any tips on how to stop this madness?

2007-11-27 18:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by Katy H 3

My love and I have been through hell and back with each other and both feel that we should just wipe the slate clean and start over, you know.....start new memories to erase the old ones. The problem is, the past always has a way of sneaking up on us and it tries to cause problems. We've both did our share of misbehaving, but we're wiser and more mature now. Nothing would make us happier than acting as if the things that we have dealt with never happened but it is way easier said than done. What are some ways that we can stop ourselves from dwelling on the past. We really love each other and we've both done a lot of growing up. We also have a daughter on the way and we really want to be a loving family. Please help us, what are some ways that you all lost focus on the past?

2007-11-27 18:38:18 · 1 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

i met this girl at a party...and we made out to death i got her facebook and i was in contact with her...apparently she is a nice girl...i mean soo nice...im goin out with her this week or next week...would that be weird if i tell her " i love you " if i find out she is so nice when we are leaving ?
by the way im 19....

2007-11-27 18:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ali 4

My boy, like any other has been checkin out porn. I know it's normal and its natural... but i can't help but feel a little self concious and play the blame game on myself every now and then.

I just want to be able to do something to make me feel like I'm getting even...

Any suggestions?

2007-11-27 18:29:40 · 7 answers · asked by Megzy N 2

After My ex(4 years together) and I broke up I tried to win her back but failed. She fell for another guy afterward and though they aren't going out she likes him a lot. Anyway I guess the last 6 months I have been very needy and she even told me she doesn't feel comfortable completely around me cuz she knows I still like her and suggested not speaking to one another until at least when winter break starts but seems like she isn't going through with it. She called JUST at first but I didn't pick up. Im planing to not pick up anymore at least until New Years so I can get over her and show her I ain't attached anymore (which I really dont want to be anymore). Thing is I dont want her to think I don't want to be friends and be mad that I didn't pick up for so long since we both do want to be friends still...so I was thinking about getting her a nice thoughtful gift (nothing fancy) for Xmas and explaining to her why I didn't pick up then. Is this a good idea?

2007-11-27 18:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thinking today about how things have changed, then wondered: Do people still ask for "a number" (as in a Guy getting a Girl's Phone Number), or do they get an email address instead? If your at a bar / club etc... and talk to someone your interested in dating, do you still ask if you can have her number or has that changed.

2007-11-27 18:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by tom s 3

i cannt hide my emotions when i saw a girl or woman, when they wore tights showing there things, how can i control my emotions

2007-11-27 18:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Raj veer 1

I have yet to pursue my dreams ......and am thinking of moving to be with him..... i need advice asap,,,,,,pleaze

2007-11-27 18:21:11 · 15 answers · asked by love 2222 1

So ok not to be cocky or anything but I'm used to girls coming on to me. And all the girls I've liked have always been talking to me and stuff. But now I like this girl in my English 10 class and shes kind of quiet and shy. She's really cute and I love her personality. I don't know that from experience but I've seen how she is. I don't know how to approach her since I'm not used to being the one making the first move so what should I do? I Forgot to add that I did try a couple of things to talk to her. First time I had a shocking pen and I tried to get her with it but she didn't fall for it. The second time I ask to see her homework from English and she let me but she didn't say much. And today I asked her did she know my name after I gave the homework back to her and she said no so I told her my name. And what should i do tomorrow when i see her?

2007-11-27 18:16:05 · 15 answers · asked by Young J 2

What animal best describes you?

2007-11-27 18:15:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

more than one man to make the perfect one..........Ladies um sure you understand me........

2007-11-27 18:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy at my college who i like a lot, we argue some but mostly we get along great. He doesn’t have a girl friend and i haven’t herd him mention that he likes anyone. So how do i get his interest? How do i get his attention and see if i can get him to like me? We talk all the time he’s two year older and normally we hang out with the same crowd. How do i take the relationship from friends to more?

2007-11-27 18:15:01 · 16 answers · asked by Qwen 2

theres this guy that i completely adore; we arent going out (well we did once before, but things werent workin out on that level) but we have strong feelings for each other, and we are having sex - would he be considered a fxxx buddy? is it slutty to have sex with someone ur not in a relationship with?

2007-11-27 18:12:32 · 21 answers · asked by aprili 1

I want to woo her.

2007-11-27 17:54:55 · 19 answers · asked by comfort eagle 6

Okay, this question is not for my relationship, but for a dear friend who I am supporting as he goes about trying to break up with someone. Here's the story:

He was married for more than ten years, and he and his wife were separated for the last three years of their marriage. She was really hard on him and pretty much destroyed his self-esteem. He wanted to try counseling, but she was unwilling to own up to her junk (and still won't), so the marriage tanked. He tried really hard to save things, and it just didn't work.

After the divorce, he met a girl and they hit it off really well. For a few months they were inseparable and they decided they would get married. They decided to take things slowly because they have to deal with his ex and the head games she plays with both him and their child. Now it turns out the new girlfriend has some really serious issues, is not willing to own them or work on them, and it just isn't going to work.

2007-11-27 17:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by Bronwen 7

I was on the bus today and my lunch bag fell on the floor under the seat and when the bus stopped the girl in front of me got out of her seat so I went to get my lunch out from under where she was sitting and she came back and accused me of sniffing her bus seat and started screaming , now the bus driver said I have to walk to school...

2007-11-27 17:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by Confused 6

I get annoyed very easy and usually find a way to get out of any relationship. I come up with any lame excuse tio cut all ties with that person. I have done it to just about every female friend I have and I am slowly realizing that these women were amaxing, but I was to self centered and afaird to commit. I know it's way to late for trying to reconnect with women that I just would never call back.( they would make plans with me and I wouldn't show up, because I was messing with another women or doing something else) they would call me for about a week, then they would give up and stop calling. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? everyone in my life has let me down, so I guess I wanted to leave before they hurt me???? Could you give me some advice? thanks>

2007-11-27 17:38:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine asked: How do you tell your girlfriend that she is too hairy down there? Be gentle please.

2007-11-27 17:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am almost twenty and I haven't had sex, the reason for this is mainly because I am overweight and I am worried I don't look "normal" or "attractive" naked, another worry is constantly that guys don't know how wreched I look naked. I feel terrible about myself, does anyone have some advice? It's starting to get in the way of my relationships...

2007-11-27 17:36:35 · 33 answers · asked by breathe___x 2