ok this is really sad, but I'm just starting to obssess over guys and I'm...umm over 18 years old (yeah late bloomer). in middle/high school I was always calm, focused on school work. but I've been obsessing over a bunch of different crushes these past few months. i can't help it, I'm always thinking about a guy and it's driving me nuts cuz it's so unlike me. I feel like I need to focus on a guy in my life and it's so stupid. any tips on how to stop this madness?
2007-11-27 18:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by Katy H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aiyaah what stupid answers
2007-11-27 18:48:31 · update #1
no guys are interested in me
2007-11-27 18:49:58 · update #2
Well, I would say get out in the singles scene & start meeting a few guys. Just because you think there aren't guys interested in you doesn't mean you may not be noticing. Trust me, I've been interested in girls who were oblivious in the past. The thing is, what you're going through is completely normal, & finding some guys to date could be the best thing for you. I'm not saying go find the first guy that will wink at you & take him home for the night, but going on dates to movies or dinner, or just socializing in public places can help. Oh, & don't be afraid to show some interest. My most successful relationships have been with women who made the first move. Ultimately, the only way to quit feeling like you've succumbed to madness is to face this head on, deal with the issue, & take some of the mystery away from dating. Best of luck.
2007-11-27 18:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a temporary thing. Since you are a late bloomer, the feelings you should have experienced in high school are overwhelming you. Just try to stay focused. Don't blow all of that energy on guys that are not worth it!!! The right guy will come along when you stop looking. That is how it always happens!!! Desperate women are unattractive to men. If you are crushing that much, you probably are giving off the "desperate vibe". Men tend to like women who look more self confident for relationships, and desperate women for sexy only..
2007-11-28 02:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, just wait it out, it'll eventually die down.
I believe what you are feeling is natural, your hormones has been kicking in recently.
How to stop thinking about guys more often?
Exercising burns off hormones, though not completely. By exercising, it reduces the amount of hormones thus you think less about the opposite gender. Also works when you want to stop masturbating. Infact, exercising is a VERY good way to stop masturbating....lol but thats just side note.
Do you want to stop thinking about boys simply because you don't feel that any will you?
2007-11-28 02:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend)
2007-11-28 02:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a gigolo who will pretend to be your boyfriend in exchange for cash. That would probably help greatly in sating your desperate fantasies.
2007-11-28 02:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by maggot_boy2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-28 02:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a boyfriend or turn gay and obsess over females
2007-11-28 02:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by PaHomeZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry this is normal try not to worry too much and things will work out, good luck
2007-11-28 02:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Babette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going girl crazy i wish i could talk to you a little while so you should talk back holla
2007-11-28 03:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend
2007-11-28 02:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by vlad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋