i met this girl at a party...and we made out to death i got her facebook and i was in contact with her...apparently she is a nice girl...i mean soo nice...im goin out with her this week or next week...would that be weird if i tell her " i love you " if i find out she is so nice when we are leaving ?
by the way im 19....
2007-11-27 18:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya way to early!!!!!!!!
2007-11-27 18:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by LT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
right now it sounds like you're still in the infactuation stage of a "relationship". Its good that you two have a date set up so here's what you do: get to know her, not just her name and bra size, what makes her unique, her likes, dislikes, hobbies, you get the idea. Its a whole person concept. Saying I love you now would be committing relationship suicide, it would definitely scare her off. Saying "I love you" is a powerful statement of committment and opens a relationship to a whole other level. Go out a few times permitting if you two really click on the first one, then see where it goes. When you two are really serious and you've been around each other for a while then you'll know when the time is right to say those three little words. Good Luck man
2007-11-28 03:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only "relationship" you've had with this girl is making out at a party and facebooking, and you're already in love with her because you think she's a nice girl, you have some issues. You're not only going to freak her out, but you're going to be heartbroken when she goes running for the hills.
That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. You're going to really be taken advantage of by women if you fall in love so quickly.
2007-11-28 02:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying I love you is a big step that scares most people away. If you really like this girl you better make sure that she will not run when you say it. It may turn out worse for you. You may want to wait a little longer.
2007-11-28 02:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. First of all, you LIKE her, and you are ATTRACTED to her and you are LUSTING after her, but you don't really know her well enough to LOVE her.
You are off to a good start. Let the relationship grow some and then start declaring your love. And make sure it's true. If she's as nice as you say, you don't want to hurt her.
2007-11-28 02:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait a while... don't scare her off. make sure this isn't just some short-term thing, because love takes a bit to recognise. the girl i'm in love with i have been for 2 years. she doesn't feel the same way, but she's my best friend, so i just don't bring it up anymore because i don't want to scare her away.
2007-11-28 02:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just like her, you don't love her! Love is different! So, if some guy would say to me "I love you" after less than a week... I wouldn't believe him and I would tihnk he's joking. I would also consider him unserious... But... I don't know, perhaps I' m too mature...
2007-11-28 02:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Signorina R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from the way you talk i don't think you're in love with her. and you should never tell someone that you love them unless you mean it! you love her just because she's nice? i'm nice do you love me?
2007-11-28 02:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on..
U can't show what u feels for the girl by say so..
It's not just word..
Act+words is much better..
Be a little sober can't u?
2007-11-28 02:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by systematzero 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toooooo fast and creepy. Just be chill, and dig being with her. get to know her more. date her for a few months at least before you say that.
2007-11-28 02:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by James W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its really too early. Say "I really Like you" Or something like that, but I love you will scare her unless she is nuts....
2007-11-28 02:38:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋