Singles & Dating - 27 November 2007

I have a very controling and jealous boyfriend. He is unable to trust me and i have no idea why? I never do anything wrong. It has come to a point where i have even dropped my friends to be with him. I always did what he wanted me to, and he still did not trust me! Now that i have started talking to my old friends, he makes me feel guilty for it. Every decision i make for myself, i have to put myself on the defence and justify myself. I'm only 18. He always turns situations into my fault. Why do i feel guilty for everything i think and do? Quite frankly i am sick of it and i need to break this off. I love him. I've tried everything i can. I don't know how to break up with him, and how i will deal with it after. It's so hard to break up with your first love, that you stil llove, AND DOES NOT REALIZE what he is even doing wrong!(which i feel guilty for) Plz help me. What do i say?

2007-11-27 15:56:07 · 19 answers · asked by OverTheRainbow 4

Are you more likely to be attracted someone with a foreign sounding name or a name that is common in your country.

Example (for Americans):
Would you rather meet a woman named Karen Smith or Mika Fjolnarsson?

Anyone from any country can answer. Post your country, m/f and age (I just want to see if people from different places or of different ages like similar things or not).

2007-11-27 15:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been dating thgis guy for about 6 weeks and just recently told me he was an alcoholic.... i kinda figured that out because of his mood changes,,, says he wants to work on the problem ,,, but i havent seemed to notice any changes ,,,, what now.... last saturday he had seven beers in the am already

2007-11-27 15:44:40 · 18 answers · asked by silly one 1

im 17 ill be 18 late feb i wanna move to another state beacause i hate staying with my father. he letting me move with my grandma dec 22,2007 but i just cant wait that long i need to leave as soon as possible. please dont question this. just let me know if i can leave here in [north florida] without the ploice coming for me or my dad having the power to get me back. I just want to move and not have no legal drama or anything im 17 can i ?

2007-11-27 15:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

Ok, he's your friend, kind of shy and quiet around you, hardly can say a word or string sentences together. Like, when you say hi he gets a shock. He spends lots of time in class gazing at you, changing his bus route for yours. Spending 4 days texting. He's known to be a serious chap, never smiles, but he does smile alot when talking to you. Even when you went to his orchestral concert, he actually noticed you and was staring at you on stage, etc.

But he might never have known you liked him, you never give him any signs. So you casually asked him to hang out one day, he says he could be busy, so you just told him how you felt and if it wasn't mutual, he should say so. So far, no reply.

What would you do? Would you wait for him? Move on? Or try again at a right time? Would you accept his behaviour as just lame or shy or worse, un-interested?

I'd love to know what you think, thank you =)

2007-11-27 15:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Nat 2

She and I were togeth from 99-fall of 06. I proposed to her in Amsterdam, fat ring, live on the radio in 25 countries. Summer of 06 I really neglected her. She had an affair and got preg. now she HATES the guy and is realizing everything her familiy and I told her was true. I have career, this guy is loser sleeps till noon, cooks for living , and is druggie.should I forgive her and take on her & her baby?I really love her,but know I deserve better.right? She and I have been all over the world together. this guy was just a predator and only wanted to get his genes into the next genepool. he promised her to get a better job, stop smoking ect... He did breifly, but went right back to his old ways.hes 39 shes 25.Im 33 & confused right now.Espec@ x-mas. I just dont want to think she wants back togeth becaus "im a better provider" I know if I take this on..I will be saint.just paid ring off(which I have) help.any sug?shedue12-10.we have been intim whil preg! for furth insite see my otherques

2007-11-27 15:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by James H 1

Whats some crazy way to ask her to the Banquet? Something different. Something no one else has done before.

2007-11-27 15:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Cameron 3

OMG I think I am in love with my own teacher. Its not some sort of silly girly crush its real. When I see him I cant stop smiling and I start sweating and breathing really quickly and the whole world seems to stop. My heart beats so fast and my friend always says hes stares at me and is always smiling. What do I do? I love him so much! I think about him all the time and sometimes I get tears in my eyes when he smiles at me and I feel like im going to faint. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-11-27 15:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine5683 1

I am a 20 year old lady and deeply in love with this man whom I strongly believe is my soul mate.

2007-11-27 15:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

I know this is the MOST popular question, but all the previous answers didn't do. Im looking for a gift for her B-day (turning 18). We have been dating for 1 month, but have been very close freinds for a year. I dont want to buy hear jewlry because she is not big on it. I am on a VERY tight budget, and am trying to get something for about 50 dollars.I was going to give her a small gift, and then do something special with her, but any of my ideas seem impractical. She is not asian, but likes asian things like anime. Any suggestions would be welcome!

2007-11-27 15:27:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean when i girl tells you she gets lost in your eyes??

2007-11-27 15:24:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy i like. When he doesn't contact me for like two days i get worried. Its a mutual attraction.Many people tell me to take him off my mind, and that if he really likes me; he will contact me at his own will. How true is this? I don’t see the wrong in the woman doing some of the courting also.

2007-11-27 15:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by Indgrid 1

2007-11-27 15:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, i am ignoring a girl who is pretty interested in me and so am i. but due to our culture i am standing backwards, shall i keep the relationship going ? my main problem is , she is a bit younger than me.

2007-11-27 15:20:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

a boy who texts me everyday now, never even approached me when i was in his school for the first time. everyone practically said hi to each other when we were there (it was a gathering of prefects from different schools). he just gave me his number through friendster n, just 2 b friendly, i just texted him (the first time) 2 let him know that i got his number. Or, i dunno, do guys just act snobbish so that they seem cool?

2007-11-27 15:20:07 · 20 answers · asked by Syazana K 1

I am just wondering how many people email me.
You can send it through my profile.

2007-11-27 15:19:11 · 1 answers · asked by andy-mac 3

i have been with my bf for about a month and a half. we are both pretty young 26 & 20. i know this is totally toooo early but right from the start everything just seems right and seemed to fit and we would talk about the future, kids and all. we both talked about how crazy it was that we were feeling that way but we just did. well everything was really great until this past weekend when we started talking about religion (i was questioning him a lot b/c we believe different things) and we were drinking and i was bugging him about what faith our kids would be and stuff like that. i get a lot of obsessive thoughts that come along w/ anxiety and panic and somtimes don't think clearly. anyway, we got intoa drunken fight about it and almost broke up (most of which i can't even remember). we talked the next day a bit about what happened and he said everything was ok. since then he has been VERY different. like distant and unattentive. i was talling him this and he....

2007-11-27 15:16:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what type of feeling? like crush, lust, mere interest, just want to be friends or what?

2007-11-27 15:16:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He almost asked me out a few months ago... then told me he liked this mutual friend of ours. I've known him for 13 years. He's 20 I'm 16 almost 17. But then on Sunday, in front of both his mum and mine he jumped on me out of the blue and playfighted with me... his mum was shocked as and told not to be rough (lol, he was being really gentle... just made it look otherwise) and then whispered to my mum and asked her if we were friends... He and I have only started talkin to each other for a few months. Anyway, for the past 2 weeks (we go 2 da same church), he has asked me if I'm going to this dance... does this sound like he's interested in me again? I know it kinda does but I want a guy's opinion. he may just being friendly but not in front of our parents!! Please give me advice as to what I should say to him... I really REALLY like him a lot. thanx fellas

2007-11-27 15:15:27 · 4 answers · asked by Mez 2

Quick question:
If you don't plan on marrying the current guy i'm dating, then do you think i should still be with him, or exprience life more.
He's ninteen years old and i'm sixteen. He made me give up all my best guy friends for him, and takes this relationship extreamly seriously.
We have been together for four months now, and he's already told me he loved me.

I don't plan on marrying the guy, so is he holding me back?

How do i end such a serious relationship?

2007-11-27 15:11:41 · 21 answers · asked by Talik M 1

My parents have a dsl modem up in the front of the house, but instead of running a cable all the way out to my room I was wondering if it's possible to get wireless from the modem on my desktop. My desktop does not have wireless internet software, so what would I have to get for the computer and the modem 2 set up wireless internet. Thank you

2007-11-27 15:10:49 · 3 answers · asked by skanky 2

Lets say i like 2 boys one is in my reading class the other in my class im going out with joesph but another boy asked me out but joesph said that he was like his best friend and someone ruined me and joesph a little so i cant pick between joesph he is the gansta but funny and sweet and half black half white(my parents hate that fact) and the other boy justin who is sweet kind funny hot and likes to joke around who do i pick???Joesph is already mad and so is justin they tell me to pick but who???

2007-11-27 15:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by nikkie moore 2

2007-11-27 15:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I saw a girl I liked we would always look at each other when we walk past. And she seems interested in me. Then my friend told her that I liked her and now she's avoiding eye contact with me and sometimes hides behind her friends when she sees me pass by. Is she just not interested anymore or is she just shy?

2007-11-27 15:04:46 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you find them sexy enough to date?
Would they have to have a great job for you to date them?
What is your age?

I hear that women in their 30's and up are more apt to find these men attractive. Please do not bring ethics into this. This is a question based purely on physical attraction.

Thank you for your cooperation.

Disclaimer: I will not tolerate insults for me or my question. This is just a question. Please be an adult about this. This may not be for everyone.

2007-11-27 15:01:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke my heart 2 months ago and I miss him a lot right now. I don't know what to do

2007-11-27 15:01:15 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-11-27 14:56:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you do what is your favorite song? I love the song Thnks Fr Th Mmrs.

2007-11-27 14:53:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my girl friend talks to this guy that i really hate! i cant stand this guy! i just dnt like him! n i told her to stop talkin to him because i dnt like him at all. But she wont stop! Like if she tells me to not talk to some girl she dnt like she tells me n i try to do it! n i end up not talkin to the girl because my gf doesnt like her! n now that i told her not to talk to this guy she dnt lisen! But if i talk to the girl she dnt like she gets pissed off at me n we end up fightin and stuff like that! its hard cus i really like this girl n the last thing i wanna do is break up with her! But idk wat i can do... i told her it should be kind of the same, or the same! but shes always changin everythin! So can someone tell me wat i can do to make her understand that i dnt want her to not talk to this guy that is pissing me off??? The only reason i dnt kick his *** is because i dnt want any problems with my girl... if not i would totally kick his ***! i swear!!! lol well thanx

2007-11-27 14:46:54 · 18 answers · asked by ITZZ ME 1

I gotten in to customary marriage once, it was not a successfull ones. eventually we did not get married with her legally. Now, I am in this kind dilemma's again. "is she the right one i should get marriage with?? the right one that i spend the rest of my life with?"
Recently, i gotta know these 2 girls. both are extremely hot, both of them are from differents country. one is from China yet another was from neighbour country and both of them was falling in love with me and want to be my wife badly. they has make a decission to travel to singapore to be with me in next few months time.
This thing is getting me worry and nervous. As I love both of them. I think both of them has its unique personalities that attracts me.
I enjoy the moment of spending time with both of them.
and now i gotta choose 1. sigh.........................
as both of them was planning to come here to spend the rest of their life with me.
If i don't make decision now. there's high chances that i might lostboth

2007-11-27 14:44:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous