ok well my girl friend talks to this guy that i really hate! i cant stand this guy! i just dnt like him! n i told her to stop talkin to him because i dnt like him at all. But she wont stop! Like if she tells me to not talk to some girl she dnt like she tells me n i try to do it! n i end up not talkin to the girl because my gf doesnt like her! n now that i told her not to talk to this guy she dnt lisen! But if i talk to the girl she dnt like she gets pissed off at me n we end up fightin and stuff like that! its hard cus i really like this girl n the last thing i wanna do is break up with her! But idk wat i can do... i told her it should be kind of the same, or the same! but shes always changin everythin! So can someone tell me wat i can do to make her understand that i dnt want her to not talk to this guy that is pissing me off??? The only reason i dnt kick his *** is because i dnt want any problems with my girl... if not i would totally kick his ***! i swear!!! lol well thanx
2007-11-27 14:46:54 · 18 answers · asked by ITZZ ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I stopped reading after the second line because your writing is so annoying. Learn to write properly, txt talk is meant for mobile phones when you run out of room in a text message, not for the internet. :/
2007-11-27 15:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Arther 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I don't claim to know everything about relationships, but one thing I do know, is NEVER tell your significant other not to do something, because when your do that will be the first thing they do. Your really should exspress to her that your wish she wouldn't talk to this guy, unless she just has to, because it is going to end up causing problems and you don't want that. But, as I said before, your first mistake was telling her not to talk to him. No one likes to be controlled do they. So try approaching it in a different way next time the situation comes up and see if you don't get a better reaction. Oh yeah, and don't go out and talk to some girl she doesn't like, just to get back at her, because it may be an old saying but, a true one. Two wrongs don't make a right, it only makes a bigger mess. Good luck.
2007-11-27 22:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Strawberry Whine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off, the girl is always right, she likes you obviously because she doesn't want you talking to other girls, and every girl talks to guys, you're the one who got her as a gf so you shouldn't be worried about other guys trying to get with her. and what you can do is tell her how you feel about her talking to other guys, but what I would do is learn to deal with it and tell her that you understand that she is gonna talk to other guys, most likely if she cares about your relationship she'll know that you don't want talking to other guys and not get too close to these guys
2007-11-27 22:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by rockwallman21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave sensibly. It is ridiculous to think of beating someone up just because "I just don't like him!" That's just plain silly. And the same goes for letting someone dictate your life to the extent that she tells you who you are permitted to talk to! Really now, does she OWN you?
You can make your own decisions about who to speak to, and so can your girlfriend. If you don't like the choices or lifestyle of your girlfriend, she's really not the right girl for you. Why do you think you like her?
2007-11-27 22:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try explaining again how important this is to you and if she doesnt understand what youre saying than she's being a hoe lol and you should dump her and look else where!
ps: a good gf would be willing to at least compromise, and would wanna make you happy :]
2007-11-27 22:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age, but you'll learn soon enough friend that you can't put demands on other ppl. Can't give them orders and tell them how to live their lives. Can't make their decisions for them. If I were in your place, I'd do what I want to do and let her like it or leave. It's your call hon.
2007-11-27 22:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is fair for her is what is fair for you. So if she is going to talk to a guy that you asked her not to, then you go ahead and talk to your friend of the opposite sex. If she does not like it then tell her when she stops talking to this guy you don't like, you will stop talking to the girl she doesn't like.
Simple as that.
be cool...
2007-11-27 22:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, try actually sitting down with her and having a heart to heart. If she still wants to talk to they guy, just keep in mind that keeping your GF from talking to another guy is just a form of abuse, and i'm sure you don't want to do that.
2007-11-27 22:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Vinja the Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep telling her and if she doesn't listen, i'm sorry, but you'd better dump her, cus if she does that it probably means that she's trying to piss you off on purpose or that she's trying to get you to break up with her but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. if you ask me, she don't care about your feelings.
2007-11-27 22:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
three choices
1) ignore the problem
2)kick the guys azz with out her knowing
3)bribe the guy to stop talking with you chick
2007-11-27 22:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋