& we seemed to have a great connection, etc. When I met him, he told me that he had been broken up with his 1-year girlfriend for 3 months. I found out that was a lie, & they were still "hanging out" just a few weeks before he met me! Things started changing recently between us, & he told me that "he's not completely over his ex." He says he has no desire to be with her, & he loves me, & wants to be with me! So after I got VERY suspicious over some "red flags" I saw, I started listening to his voicemail on his cell phone! I know how shady & wrong that is, but I felt like I had a reason to & I was right! It turns out that they still talk A LOT during the day. They might see each other too. I live about 45 minutes away from him, & they only live 5 minutes apart! I stay with him 5 nights a week (including all weekend long), & we talk on the phone when I don't. I don't want to sound like a crazy, psycho chick & tell him how I invaded his privacy. What do I do? How can I catch him cheating?
2007-11-27
07:48:47
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