I'm just curious because it seems like there are some girls that would only date guys with darker hair and that are taller because they think it's more masculine. I'm not saying all girls but It seems like quite a bit. I mean don't get me wrong I do have dark brown hair and I'm tall but I don't think little things like that should matter in a relationship.
PS- I actually originally have dark blonde/light brown hair in case anyone was wondering.
2007-11-27 06:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sexy *****.... That is shallow..... lol. How else could I put it.
2007-11-27 16:22:34 · update #1
Yes man, get used to it... You are blessed though, cause there are plenty of people that would even date you. Enjoy life...
2007-11-27 07:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by HotDockett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it is very nice when your boyfriend is taller then you, but the hair colour doesn't matter. Maybe the girls has a ideal picture of tall dark hair and deep blue eyes man, but in real world... Myself had such picture 10 years ago. Now i am happy married with tall but natural blond and amazing slim guy. I never dated any really masculine guy it was just a naive picture. ;-)
2007-11-27 15:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Giedre 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually every single guy I have ever been with I have not found attractive. They became attractive to me after I became friends or more with them and it was their personality that made them attractive to me. I do prefer guys to be taller and heavier than I am - I am 5'6" and about 130lbs so it isn't tough :o) I agree though - I would not allow a physical difference in what a person looks like vs what I prefer stop me from befriending or loving someone! You are totally minimizing a chance to have a very happy relationship and life if you are shallow!
2007-11-27 15:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally I don't date people with green hair, but I have a feeling that wasn't your point.
People's hair is just a display of their style, so hair really isn't a thing to base an opinion from, but you can get a general sense. I know that people who change their hair every day to something different -exaggeration, but still- that are just like veryone else, but a lil bit stylistic, and I also know people with natural hair color who are friggin nuts. But people with irate colors such as lime green and bright pink may be a deterrent towards others, so it may not be a matter of being 'shallow', just uninterested.
2007-11-27 15:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lost in Translation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go as far to call myself shallow, I can't help what I find attractive. I just do. I have a real problem dating shorter guys, makes me feel like an amazon or like I'll break him. I don't need anymore insecurities, so I like guys who are larger than I am. Before you go getting all high and mighty with me, I have dated fat men b4, so there!
2007-11-27 15:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair color and height are two different animals. I didn't think I would date a shorter man but actually I'm hooked on one currently and most of his hair is gray. I love it. He wants to color it but I don't see any reason to. Everyone is always preaching about how it's about 'what's inside that counts' but very few actually practice it. I have to agree with you that most women won't consider shorter men with graying hair but then again most men won't consider a woman that's overweight or has gray hair so I guess we are even.
2007-11-27 15:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit I tend to avoid the short bald ones...ONLY because I dated one who had real issues with it. I never had any problem with it...but he always said comments like...you'd leave me for someone who was 6' and had a full head of hair...or if I wore heals he would say stuff like....could ya be any taller with a kind of embarrassed chuckle. His insecurities were a big problem. There is something to be said about the short man syndrome. If they had more confidence it would be a different story.
2007-11-27 15:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by bulldogclover75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are attracted to certain looks. They do want taller men. Hair color is not a big deal to them. But they have a thing about height.
2007-11-27 15:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Neil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. A lot of girls will only date guys who are taller than they are. I have no problem dating guys who are shorter than I am. In fact, I prefer blond guys.
2007-11-27 15:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tadow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest. I don't date guys shorter than me. (I'm 5'8) My current boyfriend is 6'4 and I LOVE that he is taller. I have tried dating guys that are shorter and i just didn't like it. It's not about being shallow. It's about what you're attracted to. I think it would be worse to date someone you weren't attracted to.
2007-11-27 15:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Rei-Rei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyone shallow enough out there that wouldn't date someone due to their hair colour or their height? ~
Yes..... But then my wife is like that, she really wouldn't be happy for me to date any of these - or for my attempted date to be actually breathing either.
She can be really 'mean minded' like that.
Sash.
2007-11-27 15:01:58 · answer #11 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋