Why is this taking so long? I am unable to find a girlfriend. I am in college and I tried joining clubs, going to parties, and I still can't get a girl. I tried meeting girls in class, and I lose contact with them. I have no idea on how to meet a girl. Maybe I don't have good personal skills with girls? What kind of attitude am I supposed to have around girls? I know you're supposed to be confident and have a sense of humor. I have those. I just...it is really getting depressing. All my friends are getting girlfriends, except me...what gives? I realize I'm complaining a lot, but this is really getting me depressed. I guess I'll just do my own thing until the right girl decides to show up.
2007-11-27 07:22:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I guess I'll just do my own thing until the right girl decides to show up."
There ya go. You answered your own question
2007-11-27 07:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ess D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deffinatly agreethat you should just do your own thing, you will find a girl eventually im sure. everyone hasthis problem at one point in their lives or another.
pluss why would you want a girlfriend so badly? i mean im a girl, but i know that forreal girls are bitches, espeically if you date them...they get jealous and needy and overall just annoying im sure.
dont let it get you down. have fun for now being single!! single is fun. flirt arund and just do what makes you happy, then you will find a girl who also does the things you like to do....ex-clubs, teams.
or through friends, get some of your friends to introduce you to some girls theyre friends with.
2007-11-27 15:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying way too hard. Just relax and be yourself. Focus on making friends and doing your own thing. Girls want someone who is confident in their own skin, not always trying to impress them.
2007-11-27 15:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Deanrijo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yeah, you should take your time and go with the flow. If you force things they will never happen! Plus just be yourself around girls and don't look so obvius about you trying to hook up with them.
These things take time and patience, just live your life and things will fall into place eventually ;)
2007-11-27 15:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not go on a dating site and highlite your in college. You may get a lot of responses with that.
2007-11-27 15:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Neil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going for the tuff girls.
Go get laid and end your misery.
Stop being the nice guy, that crap kills your confidence when your left on the sideline.
2007-11-27 15:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they always say the asholes get the girls, maybe start being a prick! LOL!! just don't come off too much like a pansy boy, be manly, aggressive, confident, sexy.
2007-11-27 15:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sarahz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up and thank god you aint me-34 and in the same boat.
2007-11-27 15:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by ncmudslinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know hon twenty one isn't very old. you're barely an adult and at this point many women are still fickle and essentially sensless count yourself blessed
2007-11-27 15:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by dramabythalia17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to stop looking. That's what I did and love found me.
2007-11-27 15:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋