2007-11-27 06:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by KingChaLukeRaNeteru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you had to face 9 mo. of pregnancy with all the miserable stuff that goes with it (nausea, wt. gain, etc.), back breaking labor and delivery, and then still have to raise the child for 18 years--maybe alone--you'd think twice as well. Add to that the possibility of getting a STD and worrying about being dumped by the guy you thought cared about you, you'd be scared to have sex too.
2007-11-27 06:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because if a girl has sex with any guy, she is worried about what she is seen as plus, I couldn't do that to a guy. To girls, sex is more about actual love, and being deep into a relationship with that person, whereas a guy doesn't care as much and can do it with a person he really doesn't care about. We also want a guy that sees us as a person, not as a peace of meet or a sexual object. I am a girl, so I know exactly how we tend to think. Guys have asked me about sex, and it's a complete turn off when they do.
2007-11-27 15:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by DMC C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared or smart?
Uh, let's see. Unplanned pregnancy - and all that goes with either an abortion or being a single mom.. Sure. Right.
STDs - some of which are resistant to medications - some of which are incurable - and some of which will kill you. Sure. Yep. Take that chance.
Reputation - may be old fashioned - but who wants to be thought of as a piece of @ss just to please some loser of a guy who's only interested in getting "some?"
Naw - we're not scared of sex - we're just picky. And we should be.
What the real issue is - why don't you measure up?
2007-11-27 14:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls want to be in a relationship and want to love and care about the person they are with. plus we dont want to worry about what about if he doesnt call us the next day or what if he used me for just sex. also there are alot of diseases out there and if a guy is going to sleep with you on the first time he probobly has slept with a whole bunch of other girls as well.
2007-11-27 15:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ missing a soldier in Iraq ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls r scared to have sex. its more that we fear that u just want us for sex thats all. trust me im not scared of it i just dont want to be in a relationship thats all about sex and nothing else. most girls will agree with me, well at least most of the girls i no.
2007-11-27 14:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by April M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not what they are looking for in a relationship. Is part of their nature. They want LOVE from you. The sex comes usually after you are married.
2007-11-27 14:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by computer whiz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never pressure a girl to have sex!
2007-11-27 14:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me that not the way i wanted it too but my ex forced it
but for me i wont want to have sex with someone that im not gonna get married to
if ur in ah relationship i dont think sex is so freakin important thats wack
everyone has their own point of view
2007-11-27 15:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by dE DeViLZ WoRkIN iTs WaY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because of all of the decease that is out there.
2007-11-27 14:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by skunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's so many diseases.
could get pregnant.
first time jitters.
dont wanna rush things.
2007-11-27 14:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by JennJenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋