Do you ask for a Phone Number or Email?

Question

I thinking today about how things have changed, then wondered: Do people still ask for "a number" (as in a Guy getting a Girl's Phone Number), or do they get an email address instead? If your at a bar / club etc... and talk to someone your interested in dating, do you still ask if you can have her number or has that changed.

Thanks everyone for the advice, but I really was "just curious". I'm happily married, plan to saty that way, and truth is have never been to a bar, and only been to a few clubs like 20 years again anfd thought it too crowed then. But it was fun the read the responses. Hey, if you have more... you can always email me ;)

Answer 1

Honey, what planet are you from? honestly, it kinda does not matter, which one you think is happening, it should be that you get a contact #.

So, Mr. probably cute as hell w/ no digits
and don't tell the girl, "I lost my number, can I have yours, she will laugh her *** all the way to the restroom with her friends. Yes, we go in groups (not that I go to the bar, I don't have time) i'd rather dance.
but, she'll laugh and talk about your ***, and tell all her girls not to talk to you. This i have seen happen, and it was not nice. and the guy didn't have a good comeback.

so..... ready?

this is what you say:
Keep this for after you are are about to leave, and you walk her to her car, or bus stop whatever..
Say " I had fun talking with you, how can i contact you?

that's it. keep it simple and only say you had fun talking to her if you really did, don't say this if she was talking to joe schmoe the whole time or drinking alot, or busy w/ makeup, you will look like a liar basically.

This is a straight forward question already telling her you want to keep in contact with her, or you can add,
..... contact you for a date, since the bar is already a no. no
a nice place could be the grocery store, strike up a conversation, say something funny, we like that, so we can check out your grill.......... I think teeth are sexy.

Okay, with this question she can decide whether or not to give you her home, work, cell, email. and no matter what you hear, do not call the woman every damn day. That is so not right. If you call her, she answers, and says: "OH it's you," or there's alot of silence on the phone or she has to get off the phone quick, like right after you ask her if she's busy, that's not a good sign for anything.
Just be yourself that is always sexy, never changes!!!
honeychild

Answer 2

asking for the phone number is best. it's usually easier to get in contact with the person and it's much more personal than an email. computers also can't convey any emotion or passion like a voice over the phone can. also in a phone conversation, it's a two-sided thing unlike an email. it's much better to feel closer and get immediate feedback.

Answer 3

Definetly her number. She may not check her e-mails regularly. With a phone number you have a better chance of talking to her in person and see if she's being sarcastic or not etc.

Answer 4

No it hasn't changed at all , men still ask for phone numbers.

Answer 5

things changed but not this. for most practical reasons, you still need a number to get in touch don't you? i do. do worry, just do it!

Answer 6

I was at a favorite watering hole of mine and a lady asked me for my Myspace page. My What?

Answer 7

Still a number, just that cells have replaced "old telephone" :)

Answer 8

phone number. email is not as personal.

Answer 9

get their number

Answer 10

I always ask for both, If possible.