I went out with this guy in high school for nearly 3 years. I broke up with him for various reasons but it really was kind of an unclear break up since i was going through some changes and i really felt like it was just time to end that "good thing",as they may say. Anyways, after the break up we tried to be friends but i had this other boyfriend that made things complicated. And to make it worst, i got pregnant with the other boyfriend and had a kis but now we arn't together....to make a long story short there. so now its been over 2 years since i've talked or even herd from the first boyfriend and he finds me on myspace.com a few days ago and sends just a friendly "hi, how are you?" kind of message. should i start up a friendship again or will it just be akward? i sent a short and sweet message back but i'm kind of confused. I really broke hi heart and i felt guilty about it for a long time. how should i handle this?...........p.s. this guy was my first everything.
2007-11-27 18:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by Y Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya u should.
2007-11-27 19:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by manohar v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
There's no reason you can't be friends with an ex, especially from so long ago. He contacted you, which suggests he's probably over that whole thing. I wouldn't try to have a relationship but there's no reason you can't be friends, except for the media telling us that exes can never be friends.
2007-11-28 03:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with him for reasons.... and maybe it's ok to be nice, but i wouldn't start anything up again... seems to me you have a young child to focus on right now, just got out of another bad relationship.. why complicate your life?
maybe focus on your future and adjust to life... think about what YOU want.... you don't have to depend on some guy to be happy... happiness comes from within.
take care of you first.
2007-11-28 03:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to him and see how things go. It couldn't hurt right?
2007-11-28 03:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it migh be worth it in the long run.good luck
2007-11-28 03:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋