After My ex(4 years together) and I broke up I tried to win her back but failed. She fell for another guy afterward and though they aren't going out she likes him a lot. Anyway I guess the last 6 months I have been very needy and she even told me she doesn't feel comfortable completely around me cuz she knows I still like her and suggested not speaking to one another until at least when winter break starts but seems like she isn't going through with it. She called JUST at first but I didn't pick up. Im planing to not pick up anymore at least until New Years so I can get over her and show her I ain't attached anymore (which I really dont want to be anymore). Thing is I dont want her to think I don't want to be friends and be mad that I didn't pick up for so long since we both do want to be friends still...so I was thinking about getting her a nice thoughtful gift (nothing fancy) for Xmas and explaining to her why I didn't pick up then. Is this a good idea?
2007-11-27 18:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No gift! Just pick up next time and say hi then tell her you wish you could talk longer but you have to be somewhere.
2007-11-27 18:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by texasmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't buy her a gift if I were you. Even if it's not fancy, a gift implies more than answering the phone would. I think your plan to not talk to her is a good one, even if you do tell her that's what you're doing. Like you said, that would be taking back the power in the relationship. Buying her a gift would be giving it all away again.
2007-11-28 02:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a card explaining that you are trying to work through everything, and will call when you feel better about resuming the friendship.
2007-11-28 02:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on dude find a hawty with a naughty body.
ur only feeling lonely because its the holidays. its a fact
2007-11-30 03:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah yes games...I want to say don't play games, but it's easier said than done.
Just talk to her.
2007-11-28 02:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, screw the friendship thing for now.
Just get clear of one another and get your heads in a good space.
THEN worry about friendship
2007-11-28 02:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you made this for a reason, are you trying to talk yourself out or in?
2007-11-28 02:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by fox ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋