and he lloves and all i like him but i dont think i can go so far like that cause im still young and then he said if youre not going to give it up then i can get it from another girl
then again on tha phone he said that any time he brings up sex its just that hes playing but i think not. So what do u think
2007-11-27 11:23:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dats 4nication
2007-11-27 11:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by nil8_360 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you the same thing I just told another girl in the same situation. I waited until I was married. Seriously. So when I did do it, I had several things going for me:
1. No children from other relationships.
2. No sexually transmitted diseases.
3. No questions about my respectability, loyalty, or motivations.
I am not a moral Orel here to tell you not to have sex before you get married, but I WILL tell you this: every time you have sex before you are an adult, you take a chance of ruining your life through being used, getting pregnant, or getting a disease. It is not worth it.
2007-11-27 11:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're not ready and he doesn't respect that, then he's not the one. Think of it this way...if he "loves you" why would he want to pressure you into giving up something that you own, that is so priceless that'd he'd tell you that he will just get it from another girl? If he loved you, he would not say that. And after you give it to him, what else is there? What can you give him that would make him stay with you and not look somewhere else because what he got from you "really wasn't all that great." Stay strong and wait until you're older. Stay strong sweetie.
2007-11-27 11:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you best be careful with this guy cuz he only wants to hit it and then when its over chances are good that he'll be gone too. By him making those threats of getting it from someone else speaks volumes about how little he really cares for you. He sees you as a potential conquest and that's it, there's no true love there. If I were you, I'd run far far away from this dog.
2007-11-27 11:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not old enough or mature enough to handle pregnancy or STD or even the emotional part of having had sex before you are ready, YOU ARE NOT READY. If you are not ready to raise a child - don't do it. I'm sorry but from the spelling here, you are NOT ready to raise and teach a child.
2007-11-27 11:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious what he wants from you, so dump him. In the future, if not currently, he'll cheat on you and use the excuse that he wasn't getting any from you. Also it's really mean for a guy not to respect your wishes and keep nagging and threatening you by going to other girls.
2007-11-27 11:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by snipe_d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, don't let him use that excuse. Your better than that, and if you feel your not ready then girl, your not ready, and no means no. Tell him to get lost, he is a player and no good can come from his sorry excuses. You are the one who has to live with the consequenses, not him, so if you don't feel ready then it's simple don't.
2007-11-27 11:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is an a**hole. Even if you "give it up" to him there is no guarantee he will not go get it from somewhere else.
He is trying to pressure you into doing something you are not ready for.
Just dump him and find someone who will respect your decisions.
2007-11-27 11:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i would never be with a guy that said that to me even as a joke thats mean and wrong, if you dont want to give it up that is your decision not his, he can't make you do anything that you do not want too. and if he wants some other girl let him , just say "peace" and find some other guy then he will see how it feels.
2007-11-27 11:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by -ella- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him for a treat like that, no one wants to have a baby if he just wants to do it, then just leave while your in pregnancy, then get a baby. Just stay away from him and get another guy who cares about you not just to do it.
2007-11-27 11:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by jaz10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's definitely thinking it, but if he likes you a lot he'd respect your decision and he's just saying that he he playing around just so he wouldn't mess up anything or make anything awkward between you guys.
2007-11-27 11:29:35 · answer #11 · answered by Bellanova123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋