Singles & Dating - 22 October 2007

ok heres the story. me & friend big fight, about a year. just started talkin. now shes sayin that my boy is cheatin with some girl she doesnt talk to. i have proof that he didnt. but im not sure, cuz hes cheated on a whole bunch of other girls. he says he loves me. its almost been a year we've been dating. plus my friend DOES NOT like him! then his friend said that he told the girl we broke up...and blah blah...idk wat to do! i need advice! who should i trust!?!?

2007-10-22 09:34:18 · 19 answers · asked by Sad.Depressed 1

i've grown up with very religious parents and i've been taught that you should remain a virgin until you are married. my b/f and i both know we're READY to have sex, but i feel like it's a sin. he doesn't believe until saving yourself until you're married. i've always wondered would oral sex/fingering count as "sex before marriage?" i guess that it depends on my definition of sex and i don't believe that oral sex is "real sex". what is the actual definition of "saving yourself until marriage"?

2007-10-22 09:31:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 40 and she is 28, im not sure if she fancys me but i do her, is the age gap too much?

2007-10-22 09:31:06 · 52 answers · asked by chris m 4

i really like this girl in high school. we walk together, talk, and phone each other. there were many times i could have kissed her. but i always paused and just said "see u later". this always happens. im afraid that she wouldnet want to kiss a man with acne. i have mild around cheeks mostly. im trying everything. also i dont want to be in the friend zone because i havent kissed her. what should i do about it? i keep thinking, "ok, she likes me for me right? and the acne should not be a big problem" but it is...any help please?

2007-10-22 09:29:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work in an office and am a loans manager for a large company. Im 47 years old and been divorced for 7 years i have 2 sons aged 10 and 12, they live with their mother. The thing is a new secretary started at the firm recently, she's 23. She has an amazing body, very curvy and wears some sexy outfits. She was in my office the other day and was looking for a file for my colleague she stretched up and i was looking at her breasts i looked at her and she was looking at me! I immediately looked away, i felt very embarassed. Though she still smiles at me and says 'hello', in fact she's started chatting with me alot more since then, she's very intelligent. She's only been with the company 3 months and seems a lovely girl! If only i was 15-20 years younger id ask her out. I do fantasise about her. I just hope she understands i didnt mean to stare at her, will she? I dont look too bad for my age but feel she must think im a dirty old man. I wish i wasnt so attracted to her.

2007-10-22 09:28:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Holds your hand

Gets jealous when other guys are around

Really needs you to answer his phone call even if he is not coming over

Says, lets keep this to ourselves and then romantically kisses your cheek in front of ten people??

Its like he wants a relationship in the back of his mind but cant get think of it in his life or something...

This is too much AND not ENOUGH...

SUGGESTIONS...??

2007-10-22 09:24:06 · 5 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3

I'm cape verdian and dominican and I come from a family of many different races. I was raised not to see "color" or be very judgmental towards people of a different race. Anyway My girlfriend is a latina (puertorican) she says that her parents like me but sometimes I get the feeling that they would "love" me if i was puertorican! What should I do?

2007-10-22 09:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by ~$~Ace~$~ 3

so I took a girl out two weeks ago, she was really excited and the date went very well, I waited five days to call her and thanked her for going to dinner with me and asked her out again, she seemed excited and said that would be verry good. I told her I would take her to a movie or to a party (i wasn't sure how comfortable she was with me). She took a very long time to respond (txt) as she usually does, but when she did it said "I just got a boyfriend so dating isn't an option any more, but I would love to hang out sometime if that's cool.

I know I got shot down and there's probably not another guy, but I'm really shook up about it. Her X treated her like crap and to think that someone would go out with him and then shoot me down kills me. (not to be self-centered)

I know you guys don't know her or I, but what do you guys think? what went wrong?

2007-10-22 09:20:23 · 4 answers · asked by Nate 6

We have been going out for 5 months almost 6 months. It will be 6 on the 24th of october. He always gets me flowers and cute stuff like that and i have no idea what to get him...?

2007-10-22 09:20:13 · 19 answers · asked by pear~bear 2

My bf has been fingering me for a few months, and the last 3 times, i got blood on his sheets and his hand. It also hurts now and I tell him to stop but he won't. I would tell my mom, but she'd kill me, and my stomach hurts when i leave to. He is really changing, more aggressive, like he does'nt ask, just sticks like 3 or 4 fingers REALLY far up and i tell him it hurts, but he dose'nt listen. Is this a rape? Do i break up with him? How do I get him to stop being so aggressive even if i already told him?

2007-10-22 09:09:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so i have high self esteem, most people tell me i am quite , i am shy around hot cute guys especially the ones i don't talk to much, when i am around my guy friends i am pretty loud towards them i mean i am more outgoing towards them, i think i am cute and nice girl to get along with, now what i have found out is that one of my guy friends liked me and he didn't dare to ask me out. Now i am a nice girl and i can be a great girlfriend, but i am wondering why do most guys go ask out those loud, fast, want every guy type of girls but don't ask me out even when they like me. They wait till it wears off and move on. Is there any reason for that?

2007-10-22 09:02:54 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said that she likes me, but deep down inside i know she likes another guy too. She tells me she does not know who she likes and she feels confused. i like her too i dont want to let her go. wat do i do?

2007-10-22 08:58:55 · 1 answers · asked by HITCH 2

my wife is 21 and has a few male friends whick is ok with me. There is one friend that is 43 years old and has been her parents neighbor for about 11 years. They have recently started to meet up at some local clubs on Thursday nights. They are never usually alone they meet up with some other friends. My question is that I am worried why they are friends. i asked my wife why she is friends with him and if she is attracted to him. She says that she seems him as a brother and that it would be gross to hook up with him since he is so much older than him and since he saw her grow up. I am friends with this man too and do not get any funny vibes from at all. He is currently in love with another woman and does not date any woman under 30 and he only loves ethnic women. Why am i so insecure about this and am i wrong for thinking this

2007-10-22 08:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by iamconfused 1

I have been best friends with my girlfriend for years now, and we decided to get together six months ago. During that time my girlfriend hit some rough spots and broke up with me, she was alone and confused and I was still there as her friend, she later worked out things and got back together with me. (w/o me offering or anything).

Her parents still seem to think that I am a bad person, I mean for some reason they do not like me, nor does her sister. I have never done anything to her, I mean it's been 5 months and she still doesn't want to kiss me and I am waiting not pressuring her or anything.

Can they not see how much I do love her? Since we got together her grades have come up, she is a more enjoyable person and WE let God take control in our relationship to help both of us out.

I love her and she loves me, I just don't understand could someone help me out?

God Bless.

2007-10-22 08:53:16 · 9 answers · asked by ??IuM?y?? 1

Like guys who like to shop, smell good and take care of themselves? I mean not those guys that are a complete fruit cake. I'm the type who will take my time to get ready if I'm going on a hot date with a girl or if I was going out in public. So my question is Would you rather have a guy who is kind of metro (but not to the extreme)?

-I'm straight but I like to represent a good appearance.

2007-10-22 08:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY SCHOOL IS HAVING A DANCE FRIDAY. I like this girl named Krystal and we are going to the dance together but as friends (her suggestion). Today she gave me her # and email address. Is this a good oppertunity to ask her to be my girlfriend?

2007-10-22 08:49:59 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3

im a 15.5 yr old female..and yea ive like always been interested in sex since i hit the "maturity stage"..but was nervous, and held off, i wanted to stay a virgin. but now...im growing up, understand the chances, consequences, and all that. but i think hey...i'll be protected, i can act resposible about it, and im better then to just go out on a wild goose chase and have sex, just if the right moment comes with the right guy, is it okay to well...have sex?

2007-10-22 08:46:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you all do if you fell in love with a man who was 22 years older than you? Would you be able to resolve all the issues that the huge age gap might bring? How would you explain this to your parents, friends, society?

You see I am a 20 yr old lady and I love a man who is 22 years older. I have never liked men because I have issues with them...like all females have. I never had a boyfriend because I never found a boy that I liked enough to have a serious relationship with. Then, along comes this man, who I feel is so similar to me in terms of personality and I feel like he is the only one who understands me.

Is it alright to marry someone whom you love that is 22 years older than you? I know it sounds wierd, but I really love this man. You don't even want me to tell you how much I love him. He is the only one who fits me so well in personality. I need him; I need a man like that in my life.

I don't know how to explain this to my parents. I asked this question before

2007-10-22 08:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

shes older than i ,and isnt into sex as much as i am and says she doesnt want to lose me .but ive never even thaught of leaving

2007-10-22 08:41:49 · 14 answers · asked by lonly man 1

2007-10-22 08:41:25 · 3 answers · asked by AdrianF-22 1

I have never encountered this problem! I know Im good in bed and take care of my body, but my bf n I never have sex! I have needs and only see him on the weekends, we talk for hours every night and I know he is not cheating. He is 26 and20. I am ALWAYS the one to initiate, and that gets old really fast. I want to feel...wanted. What can I do? I think he might have a low sex drive and that sucks but if theres any advice to give please do! I need some good hot lovin lol Im only 19!

2007-10-22 08:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4

Okay so I will be sitting in class, at my desk, doing my work, and everyday the same boy [Who is very creepy, never talks, and always hides under his hoodie!] will walk by me to get a tissue, and then on the way back he grabes my elbow and like sqizzes it or something, it is very creepy.
But thats not the wierdest part, when he gets to his seat, he throws the tissue in the trashcan right next to him away before he uses it, he saw me watch him do it once and smiled at me. I am afraid to tell my boyfriend becuase he would beat him up.
What should I do this is realy bothering me?!

2007-10-22 08:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy I like, we flirted when we were a bit drunk.I know.but people there that night said I think he does like you.This guy has never had a gf and doesnt have a whole lot of confidence. I almost told him I liked him but backed out and left.He left me a voicemail sayin"Hope u got back 2 your room ok I'll IM u tomorrow" and he did,kept asking me ?'s and if I was in headacheland. Ppl there that night pestered him afterwards, I guess nudgin him on to do something about me. They also did that "that night" but my crush didnt get mad then.1 of my pals there that night told me "He doesnt have feelings for you, simple as that, a 1000 ppl meddlin didnt help alot" He didnt tell any1 about the messages but my pal said "hes just stupid" He now knows Ive liked him since last yr.He keeps randomly sayin hi 2 me when he doesnt even look my way. 1 night when hangin out, he said hi 2 me when he entered the room.I wish if he didnt like me back he would ignore me.cHe doesnt know my pal told me that stuff

2007-10-22 08:36:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to give a scenario and then please tell me what you would do:
There's a woman, who was your best friend when you were in high school, and for almost a year after high school. After high school she got into a bad relationship with a guy everyone hates, but she was tricked into marrying him, and ended up having a baby a year later. You've been talking with this woman, and are still distant friends, and now she's divorced and moves out with her son back to the city you're in. She's independent, supporting herself, and comes to you with a question. She loves being a mom and wants another baby but doesn't want to wait because of the horrible relationship experience she had, and trusts you, and wants to know if you'll "donate" so that she can have a baby. It would be yours and hers, but you have the choice to be totally unconnected and it's mainly her asking so she can have another baby. You know she's a good mother, and attractive. Maybe you even liked her in high school. WW u do

2007-10-22 08:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by Alice 1

I'm TERRIBLE at math(and I mean TERRIBLE) but this guy I love is a genius at it and LOVES it while I HATE it.
Will he still date me if I don't like math?

2007-10-22 08:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, my wedding party has not adults, no teens. It goes as follow:
ring bearer: 3
flower girl: 2 (What should she have in her hands...she is so attached to me and so moody that I am afraid that she is going to make a scene...any solutions?)
2 six-year old girls, (at firt I wanted to give them a small round bouquet- but one of them is just dying to have a basket with petals!)

2 eight-year old boys

2007-10-22 08:28:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 08:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you go back to an ex to stay in that comfort zone? Why would you want to if he/she treated you bad and/or has someone?

2007-10-22 08:22:41 · 3 answers · asked by peaches6 7

Okay, so long story short...my bf and I had a fight Friday night/Sat morn. We talked on Sat. afternoon and he said we were okay but, "shaky". He said, "Remember when I said I didn't want you to live your life around me? Well, that's what it's been feeling like lately." I explained that I was sory for being so clingy lately and that I'd work on it. He wanted me to live my own life too. His work schedule has really been screwed up lately and he hadn't slept in 22 hours or more, so I went home. He said that he'd call later.

So, I went home and started contimplating what he said and what I needed to do with myself. I invited friends over for the night and invited one of MY friends from back home. 'Cept, it's a guy...who knows I have a bf, and my bf knows about him but has never met him. I thought it would be okay...it wasn't. My bf flipped out mostly bc he was so tired and wanted to sleep. His phone is out of min. and I haven't heard from him since Sat night. Am I doomed?

2007-10-22 08:17:59 · 8 answers · asked by marigoldkelly95 4

post a pic of the 3 hottest people in your opinion.

2007-10-22 08:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous