shes older than i ,and isnt into sex as much as i am and says she doesnt want to lose me .but ive never even thaught of leaving
2007-10-22 08:41:49 · 14 answers · asked by lonly man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can we know if it's a test "or what"? We don't know either of you. Just be aware that people that make such offers, even if they think it's a good idea initially, often don't really dig it so much when their partner takes them up on it.
Be careful that this isn't the beginning of the end of your relationship.
2007-10-22 08:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people is this world that are married but are having open relationships. You know which mean your married but you guy can also sleep with other people.. This may be a test or she maybe serious.. You guys need to seriously talk about it.
2007-10-22 15:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be testing you to see what you say and or do about that. Or, she could have someone in mind that she wants to be with as well. Therefore, she is telling you this. It is a lose lose situation if you do so, so I definitely would not recommend it at all.
2007-10-22 15:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Dude!
I don't care what they say, it never works out well. Someone always gets jealous and someone always gets hurt.
It sounds like you both need to talk about any worries, concerns, feelings etc..., that you're having. Sounds like your girl friend is feeling insecure for some reason.
It may also be that she is bi-curious. Either way, it never works!
2007-10-22 15:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure wit herself and the relationship,. If you dont mind not having sex because of the wa she feels about it than you need to sit down and talk about that and let her know there is no need to be insecure
2007-10-22 15:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by aja d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant see something like that working out. I think she would eventually get jealous of you having sex with someone else..
2007-10-22 15:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds kinda desperate......she will even let u mess with someone else just to keep u around? Ur either a really lucky guy or she's extreamly desperate!
2007-10-22 15:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is strange. Definitely some kind of set up.
2007-10-22 15:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by hot06tc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a test and/or she's seeing someone on the side.
2007-10-22 15:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit your daydreaming. A woman involved with a younger man certainly isn't going to say, "Go get your self something on the side." Please...........
2007-10-22 15:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋