im a 15.5 yr old female..and yea ive like always been interested in sex since i hit the "maturity stage"..but was nervous, and held off, i wanted to stay a virgin. but now...im growing up, understand the chances, consequences, and all that. but i think hey...i'll be protected, i can act resposible about it, and im better then to just go out on a wild goose chase and have sex, just if the right moment comes with the right guy, is it okay to well...have sex?
2007-10-22 08:46:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright for everyone talking about God and the Bible, let me clarify my self!..i am a strong Christian, and yes i understand the Bible says to wait, and that God has the person you will marry, spend the rest of your life with, (have sex with ) planned out, but you know...sometimes..i belive it..and wanna stay pure untill my marrige, others..im just like i want to do...the whole wiating stuff gets on my nerves....its complicated..i just feel that if i find the right guy....or atleast one i truley care about....ill be fine. and wont regret it.
2007-10-22 08:55:23 · update #1
well i bet you get lots of dumb answers to this question...but.....at 15 if you are mature enough and stable enough you may be ready....some will say your 2 young some will say you are dumb don't do it....but no one can control your needs or feelings except you...if you would want to talk about this just send me an email...good luck
2007-10-22 08:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes and illigal! She may not think this now and say oh no i'll never feel like that but she WILL REGRET IT when you are older! At 15 there is no such thing as a stable relationship, just high school flings I'm affraid and when may seem like true and real love now is just a mixture of hormones flying all over the place and wanting to grow up. At 15 there is far more important stuff for her to focus on, she needs to set herself good grounding now for a career and after that everything else will fall into place... she have her entire adult life for a physical relationship... at 15 she is still a child, tell her to enjoy her childhood!
2016-05-24 18:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with a guy that you trust and have been with for a while then I don't see the problem with it as long as you stay protected. But don't go looking for someone just because you feel that you are ready for sex. SEX will be there, just make sure you make a guy wait a little while when you get a boyfriend and stay safe. Hope this helps.
2007-10-22 09:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that last sentence is the most important. The right moment with the right guy. If that moment comes, and you're not gonna be interrupted, I say yes. As long as you don't think you're gonna regret it. I'm thinking along the same lines, because I think I'm with that right guy. I want to have sex with him [and he wants to as well...haha], but I'm making myself wait, pretty much just so I can keep my parents' trust, as well as his parents. If not for them...I think I would've had sex two weeks ago when that moment came...XD
2007-10-22 08:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body is physically mature enough for sex, but emotionally it takes a long time to be ready for sex. If you even have to ask then your not ready. You should be in a committed well-adjusted relationship before you even consider the possibility of having sex. Once you do it, you can't take it back. There's more to it than just the act itself. Good luck and wait until you're older and ready. 2D
2007-10-22 08:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by 2D 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Im in the u.k. so legal age 2 have sex is 16.
If the right guy comes along than of course but seriously make sure it is the right guy because if it isnt you have 2 live with the fact that you lost your virginity to a loser!!!
make sure you use contraception (condom and pill, injection ect........).
2007-10-22 08:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sam T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. females tend to fall in love with their sex partners and males don't. I don't think any 15 year old, male or female, has the emotional maturity to handle that kind of a relationship. you can still get a disease or pregnant with protection. if you feel you must, make sure he uses a condom. it's better protection against disease.
2007-10-22 08:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marriage. You want your first time to be with that special person. How do you think your future husband would feel if you had already violated that special time for you two to have?
2007-10-22 08:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bessie D 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
i think 15 is too young but thats just my opion and i do think we should wait till marriage to have sex. the bible says that every one you have sex with your one with that person and you will have soul ties.but if your going to do it. get on birth control and USE CONDOMS! you don't wait to catch hiv or any other std!
2007-10-22 08:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Star DUst 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Depends. I had sex when I was 14 years old. I thought I was ready, but I was wrong. Just make sure you use protection and it is with someone you really care about. Also make sure it is legal consent in your state/country. If you below age DON'T GET CAUGHT!
2007-10-22 08:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋