I have never encountered this problem! I know Im good in bed and take care of my body, but my bf n I never have sex! I have needs and only see him on the weekends, we talk for hours every night and I know he is not cheating. He is 26 and20. I am ALWAYS the one to initiate, and that gets old really fast. I want to feel...wanted. What can I do? I think he might have a low sex drive and that sucks but if theres any advice to give please do! I need some good hot lovin lol Im only 19!
2007-10-22 08:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have also asked him why we don't have sex as much as we did when we were first together, we've been together for 7 months, and he just says I don't know y its changed. soooo very frustrating., oh and edit i mean I am 20, srry.
2007-10-22 08:40:28 · update #1
It could be that he no longer lusts for you. Instead, it has settled to a more partner-like state (such as married couples). They are with each other because it's their time of life when they feel they should just raise a family.
2007-10-22 08:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by pertinential 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he sounds like he has depression or something to me, second of all **** the doctor because antidepressants will destroy his sex drive completely. Ship him to a therapist and maybe he will talk about his problems there because he won't talk about them with you this is already clear isn't it?
2014-06-04 08:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by mike s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be health related, or he's under a lot of pressure. And yes, he could be cheating, but don't jump to that conclusion. Tell him you miss the intimacy you used to share and want to have sex more often. If he still hesitates, something's up. He might not want to talk about it, but if you trust each other, he should admit when he's having some kind of difficulty.
2007-10-22 15:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem your boyfriend has now. But once my girlfriend stopped pushing me about it (well, pushing isn't the right word but stopped initiatiing all the time) my sex drive went up. Sit back and play it cool and he'll come to you. Then the ball just gets going from there. Also, I read that eating leafy greens helps so I tried and it helped. Or atleast I thought it did... either way my drive went way up.
2007-10-22 15:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If his problem is not health related, the issue may be that you are too much for him to handle. Obviously you two aren't the perfect match, there's plenty more guys out there keep your options and your eyes open and you might just find all that you are looking for.
Good luck!
2007-10-22 15:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are boring in bed. Try new positions and locations. Have sex in a different place besides the bedroom.
Give him oral a lot.
If that does not fix it , get a new BF!!! or two if you are still not satisfied.
If you are hot,,, I'd hit it at lease 3 times a day!!!!
Maybe he is gay?
2007-10-22 15:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by crasher 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a lot you can do on his end to spice up his drive unless he wants to take medicine. However, if you are happy in your relationship, other than his lack of participation, then you need to take a trip to an adult store or an on-line site and buy items to take care of your own needs. Believe me, after seeing you having so much fun he is sure to join in!
2007-10-22 15:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well a guy that young and not intrested in sex means hes either gay or he needs to see a doc, low testosterone can be caused by many things, he should see a doc for this.
2007-10-22 15:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by burner377 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He could have a medical condition. Ask him if he would consider seeing a doctor. If he won't...then he's not doing everything he can for you....and he's probably not the one.
2007-10-22 15:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't have a low sex drive, he's like that just around you. I bet he's not like that around other girls, leave him and look for someone that actually want to be with you.
2007-10-22 15:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋