Singles & Dating - 25 October 2007

i really need some help understanding this. My bf and i have been together for 3 years and our sex life is ok. It all started out ok and when i moved in, i found alot of porn on the comp. I asked he about it and said he didnt need it anymore so deleted it. I said i was happy to watch it with him but he wasnt comfortable with it. we got a new computer andall was ok. Then when i was pregnant, i found out that he was waking up to watch it downstairs while i was asleep. The thing is now, is that i found his porn and hid it, he said he didnt need it as he had me. Then he found it and said that he still wanted it. It makes me feel so useless as WHENEVER i went out, he would put it on and wouldnt want to make love for days after. I told him this but he just brushed me off.He knows i have insecurities and agreed to give it away. I was happy as he promised it was all gone, then i found some in his wardrobe that he had kept. This makes ME feel ill, what can i do?
Please help

2007-10-25 23:58:43 · 17 answers · asked by fleurt82 2

There is a gorgeous secretary in one of the departments at the university where I'm a student (I'm in my early 20's and she must be mid 30's). How could I, atleast hypothetically, approach her? (Note, I dont think I will seriously try anything but it is a great fantasy)

2007-10-25 23:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw my good male friend flirting with other women - slightly touching them and stuff.

I was around at this point - and then I went all quiet and left.

He seem concerned and called me asking me if I am okay because Ive gone all quiet (left a message on my phone as I didnt answer call).

Then he text me saying ''I have to go my friend. No doubt Ill talk to you soon xxxx''

Does he have feelings/care for me? I really like him - more than a friend.

And why doesnt he Ever flirt with Me? We talk a lot and he trusts me a Lot.

2007-10-25 23:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3

guy likes girl,
girl kisses guy once,
guy makes his feelings clear,
girl doesn't,
guy gets pissed off and verbally rips girl's head off,
girl stops talking to guy,
guy wants girl to explain,
girl doesn't

2007-10-25 23:47:49 · 14 answers · asked by scorpio_red_cat 2

quiet guys who know how to walk, reserved, don talk much, quite funny when they do speak, caring, masculine or do they prefer emo boys or feminine types or hip hop types? By the way im quite dark skinned

2007-10-25 23:18:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for over 2 years,His actions say that he loves me.I think It just might be weird for him to say the actual words.He has said the words when I asked him before.

2007-10-25 23:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by Missy 2

boyfriends, you dont think that I appeared just a little bit too desperate do you?I mean do you think people will mention it?

2007-10-25 23:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1

When im with my boyfriend and we kiss or touch each other i get a really nice feeling down below! Its like a rush of pleasure! I also get it when he sends dirty messages to me or says something sexual!

Why is this???

2007-10-25 23:02:43 · 11 answers · asked by xxxLiLbAbiGuRlxxx 1

What is the acceptable age. Is in her 30s too young or too old?


Just wondering.......................

2007-10-25 22:56:00 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

I was talking to my girlfriend on my cell phone last night..we are both in our mid-20s. Before we hung up she says that she needs me. What does this mean? This is the first time she has said this. It would be great if someone will shine some light onto this. I should have asked her what she meant.

2007-10-25 22:38:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i deal with a insecure boyfriend,who does not approve of me having male friends,going out with girlfriends,gets angry at the way i behave with him which is like a friend and when its time to behave like a couple i do...but i mean being in a relationship also means being friends and lovers right...some advice please...

2007-10-25 22:32:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl. she does not like me. she told me i'm cute and sweet, but i thinks she wants more of a badass. she talks dirty and she likes emo boys. if you look at her you would think she is shy and innocent. do you think i should move on or pursue her? i also think she has a high opinion about the way she looks. i'm really not sure people. what should i do?

2007-10-25 22:31:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 29, 5'11/5", 150 lbs, have a great job, dress well, and keep my hair cut and short. I love being intimate with a woman. I love sex and treating a woman right, giving them what they want and like to be a friend to them in the relationship.
I'm confident, I look people in the eyes, I'm intelligent, but I don't talk very much and I'm shy in talking aspect. I love photography. The reason I'm not outgoing is because I don't like idle banter or "chit-chat". However, when I do talk about things, I say what I mean and mean what I say. Actions speak louder than words. What I like to talk and think about are important, philosophical, like stuff about purpose, meaning, and reason.
What do you think? Opinions please.
Here is a picture of me,

http://www.flickr.com/photos/60766525@N00/1755946793/

2007-10-25 22:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 4

2007-10-25 22:29:23 · 2 answers · asked by alice n 1

ok so he is not gorgeous or hideous he is average....he is ALWAYS staring at me.durring all my classes.he is not like those super popular people but he is popular like me[everyone knows you exist]and eveyone always says why is he starring at you!and he has never had a girlfriend so thats good because ive only had one and it didnt even last for an hour...........so what should i do! should i ask him or havesomeone else ask him for me[btw in only 12]

2007-10-25 22:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a phone call from a guy the other night who I don't know. I'm a little bit concerned about it because I have no idea how he got my number. He said his name was Greg and that we met online before. I asked him how he got my number and all he would say is "I have my ways." I asked him how he knew me and he said that we met online back in June (which was no help to me bacause I am on tons of sites. (Myspace, Facebook, Bebo, Tagged, etc.) I have absolutley no recollection of this guy. He said that we had about 5 or 6 conversations back in June and haven't talked since then. I asked him why he hasn't talked to me for so long and he said "Well, I really like you a lot and I didn't want to scare you off." Well what the hell does he think mysteriously calling me and being all vague is doing? I NEVER give my number to ANYBODY I meet online, so I know I didn't give it to him. Besides, since June I have gotten a whole new phone and changed number and everything.

2007-10-25 22:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by Ex-Blondie 3

I spoke to an Indian friend of mine who claimed to be a good man. He says that women should put up with men cheating on them and men should put up with women doing the same to them because we are a modern society.

Um, somehow I don't think that this is what Jesus intended.

2007-10-25 22:08:02 · 23 answers · asked by FawneMine 3

Here is the deal, a guy that I like had been dating for 3 weeks now. But he doesnt know that I am a virgin and dont want to do anything until I'm married. Howe can I tell. (like the specific words) when is the best time? should I have told him from the start????

2007-10-25 22:07:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello me and my girlfriend r both 18 and have been going out for 3 weeks just been over each others houses and to dinner and movies so far. However this weekend i wanted to change it up a bit i was thinking of taking her down to this place called the beach house where i live its has lots of fun stuff there to do together like play putt putt and go on boat rides together and more. Then after that we would eat at restaurant then sit down on the beach and watch the sunset together. Now i was wondering if this sounded lame or is it ok? thank you in advance.

2007-10-25 22:05:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was talking with a friend of mine and we came onto the topic of horroscopes and he said he'll look our match up.

So he was translating it into English and I noticed something, so there's all the usual, the way we would work as partners, as friends, for a relationship etc...
The relationship bit was lets say third sentence and it said something like for a relationship to develop it would be in the long long term and some other stuff.

The (before the) last sentence of his translation was a friendship would suit both better but then he said, again, and if a relationship would develop it would be in the long long term.

Why did he repeat that? I doubt it would be in the actual horroscope thing, they've already mentioned it so why mention it again?
Did he deliberatley mention it so I wouldnt focus on the friendship bit and consider the effects of a relationship?

I know he kinda likes me, we discussed it once but our distance was the problem so I was curious...

2007-10-25 21:59:58 · 1 answers · asked by ██████████ 3

If you grew love someone and you never seen them, if when you seen them they were not what you expected would you just leave them alone never speaking again?, or would you stay with them reguardless? Why or why not?

2007-10-25 21:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Mattie T 2

2007-10-25 21:39:23 · 1 answers · asked by Rajinder K 1

2007-10-25 21:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by Angelique 4

Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels--usually women more-so than men, but both do. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences. Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels. That go on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences. Have you ever noticed that? That they write novels. That go on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Just a whole bunch of babble and redunancy. It's quite annoying. Don't you think? I mean, why? Why do they do that? After reading one of the novels, I could have summoned the same thought up in a mere two sentences

2007-10-25 21:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Jean-Francois 5

2007-10-25 21:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 20:46:26 · 29 answers · asked by ? 7

im 16 and this girl knew i have a girl friend that i care and love since im 14. we have not sex yet as we thought we're not ready so we're both virgins. this other girl is 18 and she always attend our basketball games even i'm with my GF. she calls me many times a day that i don't answer her anymore since i told her i have a GF and will will not cheat on her. she,s very determine and told me whatever it takes you will be mine, i told her just go to my older bro since he's also 18. she said its you that i like, i know you have a big penis it shows while you play and i like men who are still virgins. should i be scared and my team mates said just go ahead and play with her and dumped her after. i dont know if it correct...whats your thought on this?

2007-10-25 20:17:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read a post the other day that girls actually hate guys who spend money on cool toys and image. I was under the impression that "Image is everything" and so i wear designer clothes, shoes, gold jewellery, expensive TAG watch etc.. and drive a tricked-up convertible sports car all in the belief that it all helps to "impress the ladies". However i always see a lot of hot girls going out with guys who are unemployed, poorly dressed derro's, potheads and dropkicks and often wonder why i bother..Have i been misled? What's the go here?

2007-10-25 19:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my b/f hates his job and wished to make it as a musician. While he's very talented...he kind of plays around more and gets into the drinking and getting high part a bit too much with musician friends. I find they get a little delusional thinking they're going to make it and blow a lot of money, as well as on video games.
Well, they didn't make it yet and he can hardly keep up with his bills.
I'm in-between jobs but preparing to find one ASAP.

Lately, he's been so depressed. He'll just sit there and say he wished he could die and he's not a suicidal person. He's always the guy that has to be everyone's friend and is so chit-chatty. But he doesn't show them this side.
It's not bad enough to tell him to see a dr and he would NEVER go to one anyways. But I just feel awkward when he's like this. Nothing I say or do makes him feel any better....even when I offer him a hug, he doesn't want it.
*When he gets like this he lends up drinking more and acting like an a@@. What do I do?

The fact i

2007-10-25 19:57:31 · 2 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3

That's how tall i am, i was wondering if girls (even those taller) can find a guy of my height good looking if i had a good face, body and clothing sense + friendly, confident and happy personality.

I am 18

2007-10-25 19:52:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous