Singles & Dating - 25 October 2007

We've been talking for a long while (4 months) mainly over the phone and through emails. I've seen pictures of him and he's seen pictures of me. I wouldn't say he's the most attractive person to society standards, but I find him EXTREMELY adorable and handsome.

He thinks I'm "hot/beautiful". I think I'm average looking, if not a little below average (for reasons explained in the next paragraph). I've been told that I'm pretty/cute and I always, "Thank" people for the compliment (I don't fish for compliments).

The problem is, I have really bad ACNE and weird acne scars on my face. Most of the pictures he's seen of me are in group photos or photos that are taken from a certain distance so my ACNE isn't THAT visible. The pictures of me that he's seen close up of me were photoshopped (I know, I'm so horrible because this is lying, but I photoshop all my photos and my friends know it and it doesn't bother them...)

2007-10-25 13:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 2

I talked to my ex-fiance today---She actually stayed on the phone...I told her I wanted her back and that I loved her and miss her. She told me that wasn't a good enough reason to get back together. I explained to her that I had an stupidity lapse and I hope she could forgive me; she was silent. Then she said "well, I wish you well in all your endeavors"...

WTF is that!!! I'm not just a regular joe, I was your ******* fiance for pete's sake! I'm sorry but that comment threw me off...I'm pouring my heart out.....(anyways, I deserve it...but DAMN!!!)

What should I do? I'm planning on going up there this weekend to pretty much beg on my knees for her forgiveness but I'm getting frustrated.

2007-10-25 13:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really kind of complicated but to shorten it up, I've known this girl for nearly 6 years and I really like her and I want her to know even if It doesn't work out in the end, i just want her to know so that i can get some sleep at night and not have my mind endlessly thinking about what if....ya know?

2007-10-25 13:31:54 · 35 answers · asked by william 1

1)We play fight and joke around all the time
2)He gave me the first cd he had ever made
3)Texts me
4)Tells me to call him if I want to hang out
5)He knows if something is wrong
6)Apologizes to me when he did something stupid and he knows im mad
7)Tells me stuff that most guys wouldn’t talk about
8)He told me that “even though I don’t show it all that often, I just want you to know that I think your awesome”
9)Came over my house to hang out and we just watched a movie
10)Slept over my house during a party…other people were there as well but him and I slept down stairs
11)Given me a massage
12)Tells me that I’m entertaining
13)Makes bets with me
14)Once laughed and responded with “ What are you kidding” when I said “you probably hate me
15)Remembers small things about me
16)Borrowed a pair of my sweatpants when he slept over and never gave them back
17) Gives me advice and tries to make me feel better
Are we just close friends or does he want more?

2007-10-25 13:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1

What if the guy is so shy, he won't look at you at all? i mean, so I do it back and not look, plus I'm extremely shy as well, but I mean he gives me not EVEN a glance, when I walk in the room at college (even when I'm making ALL kinds of noise and such!) He looks about my age, 28-30. He's in 2 classes with me, but for four days. He had no choice to smile back at me and say hi VERY quietly once after I smiled and said hi, but.... because he ACCIDENTLY looked at me? I seen him look at me maybe two more times, that's it, but not long enough for me to respond. what is wrong with him? Does he not like me at all? Or is he too shy? Give me some examples of how you may of acted before. Serious answers Please! Thank you so much.

2007-10-25 13:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what are some good tricks?

2007-10-25 13:17:51 · 4 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5

I recently moved out of state because my job relocated. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are now 4 hours apart. We see each other on the weekends but it is getting more difficult everyday. I love him and want to be with him but we don't have a plan. I am 24 and he is 27. Should I leave my job and move back to be closer to him or should I wait until we are engaged?

2007-10-25 13:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by Girly Girl 2

The guy that never talks, seems to distant himself from the class and goes to class to do his work. Doesn't really socialize with anyone, he gets his work done then gets out. He also seems to be hiding, or avoiding interaction with anyone. But when someone talks to him, he would talk and act friendly, but doesn't pursue the conversation. He'll go back to being quiet. He's also okay looking or quite handsome. He doesn't look insecured, but very quiet and confident. What do you think of these guys?

2007-10-25 13:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating this 29 year old woman for 9 months. I am 36. About 4 months ago she told me she loved me and 2 months ago she said we were boyfriend and girlfriend. Last month things were great and we were spending more time together and she called every day. We live an hour apart so finding time together was hard. Then 3 weeks ago I sent a text on Saturday night saying I miss you and wish I could see you right now. About an hour later I called. A guy answered the phone and then gave it to her and she didn't have much to say. Anyway the next day she called and told me that she had been in a relationship with someone else since before we met. She said she had been trying to find a way to tell me and that I meant more. She said she needed time to get her life straight and we would be together. So I have been waiting for 3 weeks talking to her a few times a week. Then out of the blue she sends me a text message saying this is all my fault and now I am ending it. I still love he

2007-10-25 13:15:24 · 3 answers · asked by dhack567 2

I just started high school about 2 months ago
and i noticed that whenever you say bye (even on the phone) they never say anything. what is up with that?

2007-10-25 13:14:58 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 13:12:23 · 19 answers · asked by missandra70 1

What is it that people cannot stay single?I mean why is it soo important for them to be with someone to have a partner?Im not against it but i'v seen people who have been single for a lont time and its surprising how they can stay single that long! lolzz nawww for real how do those people end up staying alone?Anyways so like i was asking why is it soo important for some people to be in a relationship?

2007-10-25 13:10:06 · 18 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5

last week i stayed over one of my best guy friends house and he has always fancied me even though i just like him as a friend, but me and his older brother got talking and i ended up in bed with him and my friend doesnt know, and i can't look at him it's so bad! should i tell him????

2007-10-25 13:09:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im goin to a halloween party and both guys r gonna b there and i like both, there equally hot and funny and smart and there friends with EACHOTHER and 1 said to the other he is gonna ask me out then the other said NO IM GONNA! i no its kinds dumb but i wanna go out with 1 i just dont no which 1! please help???????????

2007-10-25 13:08:57 · 13 answers · asked by kayteebug99 2

Okay, not that I should care or anything, but I'm really confused on whether people think redheaded people are pretty or not. I'm considering dying my hair brown, so I'd like to know. I think it's beautiful, but apparently noone else does. What do you all think?

2007-10-25 13:08:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am just wondering but i think it should probably be the man

2007-10-25 13:04:44 · 15 answers · asked by Mr T 1

The thing is that he hints that he's a good guy for me but has never asked me out? I just want to remain friends even though we aren't close friends we still talk about everyday. I just don't want him to like me

2007-10-25 13:03:29 · 2 answers · asked by JMTN08 2

i'm a virgin, and one of my guy friends was telling me in so many words that he was more than willing to be a good friend, and be my first and he would give it to me all night.


is that really possible, not that i'm considering his offer because he's really NOT MY TYPE but is it possible?

2007-10-25 13:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

Im in love with my aunt who is related to be by marriage and met her last year. My very beautiful and hot aunt had sex 7 times. We made love together and we took hot long bubble bath like 15 times. I love her. I met her last year when she came to America and i couldn't stop thinking about her. I made my move couple of weeks ago when she came to my house alone because i was going crazy over her. This is very real. I took her out to couple of dates. Shes married to my uncle. We are relatives. I know its not right and u might say eww but its not. Its the best time of my life. I always think about her. What do we do? How are we going to stop and we are not telling anyone. How and help? i love her!!!!!!!!!! She smells good and has beautiful hair. I imagine her naked all the time. When we are alone we go to bed quick and make out a little. Or if anyone is around we have so much desire we keep looking at each other. Sometimes when shes alone in the kitchen and everybody is far away i kiss her around the neck and grab her butt. Help me i love her. Help!!!!!!!! we belong together and if u get all the hot girls in the world i would choose her over them any day. I'm serious!! What do we do? I want to marry her. when i wake up i want to see her face. I want to put a ring in her hands. I love her more than anyone. I love it when we are top of each other. She has beautiful skin and hair. Oh my god i love her like crazy. She is very smart and i can talk to her all day. What do we do? Do we stop or keep making love? If we do stop whenever were near each other its going to feel really weird and really hard. Help!! this is not a joke. Its not gross because we are soulmates. Help!!She told me she is in love with me and that she is willing to leave her husband for me but im really young but we love each other. What should we do? We like doing everything together.I love that smile on her face. Even when she doesn't put make up on her, or isnt wearing hot clothes i still think shes really hot.One time we made a deal not to have sex for couple of weeks and we didn't. I took her out to dates to make sure she isn't going out with me just for sex and she isn't. After our deal we went to bed and a long good sex. She and i belong together. I went out with 20 girls and had sex with 7 of them and they weren' t special to me but she is. I love her. Nobody else interest me. By the way its not a joke.Im 21 years old and she is 33 or 32. Im not going to go to a therapist because i listen to my heart not somebody that just has a license. I love my aunt. I have 4 videos of us having sex and 2 videos of her. She has 1 sex video of us and that was the best sex we had. I love her. I dont want to stop and looks impossibel Help!!!!!!!!!!!!In a life death situation i will risk my life for her. If u get100 hottest women in the world and ask me out i will say no because me and my girlfriend are in love. This is not gross or sick. What should i do?

2007-10-25 13:00:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I like this boy but then one of my "friends"(that i am getting annoyed of) liked him too. But he likes me and i like him so what do i do? cause i don't want to be called a S.L.U.T. and the friend as problems,like she always HAS to like a guy and have anger management porblems and we are only like 11 and 12. I don't liek how she is acting and she just want to act matrue. help!

2007-10-25 12:51:49 · 12 answers · asked by bombiepop(: 2

I HAVE BEEN SEEING A GUY FOR ABOUT 7 MONTHS. BUT, IT HAS BEEN AT HIS CONVIENCE ONLY. YES, I WAS STUPID. BUT, I INVITED HIM OVER FOR DINNER SUNDAY BUT DID NOT SAY THAT I WANTED 2 HAVE A TALK. SO, WHILE EATING DINNER, I ASKED HIM WHAT WAS GOING ON. WHY WAS I HIS PART TIME FRIEND? I PUT THE CARDS ON THE TABLE & SAID I NEEDED ANSWERS. HE WENT BLANK. HE STARTED TELLING ME ABOUT THE LAST 2 GIRLS HE HAD DATED & HOW THEY TREATED HIM BADLY (CHEATING). HE WAS CANDID. I BELIEVE HIM. HE LEFT AFTER OUR CONVERSATION & SAID HE HAD A LOT 2 THINK ABOUT. I SENT HIM AN E-MAIL THE NEXT DAY TELLING HIM I WAS THINKING OF HIM & I WAS HERE 2 LISTEN IF HE WANTED 2 TALK. HE E-MAILED ME BACK TONIGHT & SAID HE WAS OK, THAT HE WENT 2 SEE A COUNSELOR & HE HAD SOME ISSUES TO WORK OUT. I REPLIED SAYING I WAS GLAD, & THAT I WAS STILL HERE 2 TALK & WE COULD STILL SEE EACH OTHER IF HE WANTED. AM I BEING AN IDIOT? I REALLY DO LIKE THIS GUY. HE IS FUN AND WE GET ALONG WELL. HELP??

2007-10-25 12:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by Cold Heart 3

K this guy at my school who follows me and he wont go away. i've asked him to stop but he doesn't. He also touches me inapropiately. What should i do?

2007-10-25 12:44:14 · 19 answers · asked by Lil Smiley 4

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which is impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends. On 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But, y ask a 2nd date? I replied "what you have in mind for sat?" he said i'm up for anything, we can do lunch?" If his intention is for sex, will he be disappointed if i tell him to meet on sunday instead? (i won't hook up).

2007-10-25 12:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley K 1

She broke up with me and like 2 weeks later she starts sayin that she still loves me. what should i do?

2007-10-25 12:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how to kno if a guy likes u if he never talks to u, is popular and u medium, is sorrounded by lots of girls all the time, looks at u deeply and sometimes holdin his look for at least 2 seconds at u..
??????????

2007-10-25 12:43:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 12:43:03 · 54 answers · asked by carrotcrackers 2

I'm 17 and I'm in love with this guy whose 26. In his defense, he thinks I'm 21 because he met me at this 21 and over dance club and I told him I was 21 and in college. My mom doesn't have a clue about him but my sister knows and keeps telling me it won't last but I think it will. And on top of that she's threating to tell our mom if I don't break it off!I don't see what the big deal is. Why does my sister have a problem with this? Is she just jealous or what?

2007-10-25 12:37:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean to playfully grab a girls waste in passing when you dont know her that well? just wondering...it would be interesting to get some input.

2007-10-25 12:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

K. i like this guy. we'll call him W. but he likes this other girl (H.) he asked her out, but she said no, because she likes some other guy. i told my friends i liked him, and 2 of them told him, but he didnt believe them. my other friend yelled it out to him in the cafeteria. i kinda thought he'd believe it then. (I didn't ask my friend to yell it. it just happened :-/) i emailed him apologizing cuz of the awkwardness that my friends prob. put him through. and he emailed me bac saying that he still didn't believe i like him. i don't wanna do anything stupid, cuz he likes the other girl, so what do i do? i dont wanna be awkward w/ him.

2007-10-25 12:28:16 · 25 answers · asked by EC 1

well im in middle school and today when i was going up the stairs with my friend i noticed this guy was following me so i strated walking faster up the stairs but he still caught up with me. i dont even know him but ive seen him around the school. when he caught up with me he asked me for my name and i said i dont know and ignored him. then he asked my friend wat my name was and she didnt say anything so he just left. i spent the whole lunch time trying to hide from him. he creeped the hell out of me.

2007-10-25 12:22:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous